https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 13 Apr 2026 23:31:42 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-cousin-friend-and-sister-the-support-system-i-never-knew-i-needed#post-2774107 Tue, 19 Sep 2017 11:13:07 +0000 CC Mommy 2774107@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I thought I replied days ago--but my wifi was glitchy on my phone, so I guess it did not post :/ sorry for the late reply!<br /> @CORDUROY: so glad I could make you smile, you guys make me smile all the time :)<br /> @INA85: Thank you, I really needed the support of you and the others to get me to a place where I could even joke about it--so, thank you for that :) Trying to keep the stress levels down and the positivity up!<br /> @BUBBLEGUM: Agreed!<br /> @LITTLEBUG: Glad you are going to get some girl time :) Enjoy!<br /> @MAMA BIRD: Glad you have some good momma friends and I hope you still take some time to pamper yourself in your favorite ways--whether that is buying a special treat or finding time for a mani-pedi/salon visit! Take care! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-cousin-friend-and-sister-the-support-system-i-never-knew-i-needed#post-2773555 Fri, 15 Sep 2017 15:21:30 +0000 Mama Bird 2773555@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww that's sweet! I wish I had that kind of support! Can't complain though, it's better than it was a few years ago. Mom friends often don't have time to take off and do girl stuff, but on the flip side they also get all the day to day stuff. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-cousin-friend-and-sister-the-support-system-i-never-knew-i-needed#post-2773494 Fri, 15 Sep 2017 09:35:23 +0000 littlebug 2773494@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That is actually a phenomenal idea! I've been craving girl time but just...you know, life. I'll have to see if I can schedule something similar with some girlfriends. Good for you! Enjoy it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-cousin-friend-and-sister-the-support-system-i-never-knew-i-needed#post-2773485 Fri, 15 Sep 2017 08:56:25 +0000 bubblegum 2773485@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CC Mommy: That sounds awesome!! I'm so happy you have the support! Girl time is always a must </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-cousin-friend-and-sister-the-support-system-i-never-knew-i-needed#post-2773442 Thu, 14 Sep 2017 20:21:55 +0000 Ina85 2773442@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CC Mommy: It's nice to see you in a more positive place now! Good for you and baby :happy: and my, you are a busy lady! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-cousin-friend-and-sister-the-support-system-i-never-knew-i-needed#post-2773440 Thu, 14 Sep 2017 20:05:01 +0000 Corduroy 2773440@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CC Mommy: Your post made me smile. I'm so glad you got that pick me up! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-cousin-friend-and-sister-the-support-system-i-never-knew-i-needed#post-2773429 Thu, 14 Sep 2017 16:43:41 +0000 CC Mommy 2773429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My life has been hectic--to say the least--I work full time, just started a teaching internship, am in my last semester of a Master's degree (which includes comprehensive exams), and I am 3 1/2 months pregnant. </p> <p>I wanted so badly to call my cousin, who lives 5 states away, and suggest that we have a long-distance girls night. We would paint our nails and drink sparkling martinelli's, the whole shebang. :) But, alas, after work, I had the internship, and after that I had class, then after class I had to run to the store for some pregnancy items, and grab dinner. By the time I got home, there was no more energy left for "me" time--I was utterly spent. </p> <p>Then, without any knowledge of my intentions the day before, my cousin contacted me this morning to check on me (with cute emoji's) and my heart was so uplifted! I joked that I had no time to figure out "How I am" and told her of the scheme from the day before I wanted to carry out--she totally jumped on board and we are making time for a girls night today :) I am so happy and cherished. It's hard to have the people who love you/who you love so far away when you are feeling so vulnerable. </p> <p>On top of everything, I joked about my weight gain (to make light of it) and she was so uniquely encouraging--no one could have said it better. </p> <p>Does anyone else out there have a go-to (or come-to-you) support like this? I hope so, I hope there is someone for each and every one of you who will brighten your day during a time when you need it the most! </p>