https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 02 Nov 2026 21:52:47 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486824 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 13:25:19 +0000 StbHisMrs 1486824@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@snowjewelz: Yes, I'm still working but I think once he leaves I'm going to go pt and go back to school. My boss is retiring this year and I'm not going to stay in this field, because I'd be starting from the bottom up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486699 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 12:51:48 +0000 snowjewelz 1486699@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StbHisMrs: You totally should if you can! Are you still WOH? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486694 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 12:51:01 +0000 edelweiss 1486694@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i'm sorry, that would make me really sad. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486668 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 12:41:01 +0000 StbHisMrs 1486668@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@snowjewelz: Nope, they won't. It's for the best, they're getting ready to retire.<br /> They actually have 2 people from out of state interested in it, they have a vineyard so it's more of a specialty niche. They don't want to have to go through another season. I told them if they sell and move I'm going with them ;) Ha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486416 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 11:40:50 +0000 maybebaby 1486416@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so so sorry. You are so strong. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486408 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 11:39:09 +0000 NovBaby1112 1486408@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>big hugs mama, I'm so sorry :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486392 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 11:34:38 +0000 MrsRcCar 1486392@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry. &lt;3 HB is here for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486373 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 11:26:13 +0000 marionberry 1486373@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My ex was marine reserves and it was really hard just having him gone a few months. I can't imagine a year. Lean on family and keep busy. Hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486188 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 10:30:07 +0000 snowjewelz 1486188@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StbHisMrs: Hmm. Would they re-consider selling w/ this new development? I am glad to hear you have friends around; I hope they will be a good and valuable support system for you! I hope he will be somewhere that you can stay more or less connected with your DH. I cannot imagine how difficult it is :sad: Maybe you guys can throw some early parties for the LOs so he doesn't have to "miss" the milestones? As long as they don't get too confused why they're having an early birthday... Or pick a day and celebrate Christmas :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486180 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 10:26:30 +0000 StbHisMrs 1486180@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsLipGloss: I didn't think it was a good idea ;)</p> <p>@snowjewelz: Sort of, my parents live 2 miles from us, but they put their home on the market and have interested parties. They're moving 6 hours away! I do have friends near though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486175 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 10:24:14 +0000 rattles 1486175@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh gosh, thank you for your sacrifices! I know you can do it, but we'll be thinking of you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486086 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 10:07:04 +0000 Crisark 1486086@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry :(<br /> I've been through it with my Ex DH and It's hard. I only had to deal with 6 months so you are way stronger than me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486075 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 10:04:37 +0000 pinkcupcake 1486075@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry! This is so tough :( Hope you can lean on your friends and family for support while he's gone! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486056 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 09:59:43 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1486056@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>thinking of you! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1486042 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 09:57:25 +0000 LindsayInNY 1486042@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>((hugs)) DH was in the Marine Corp Reserves. We met when he got back from Iraq so I didn't have to go through the deployment but it always weighed on me. The "what if". Thinking of you!! &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1485890 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 09:20:22 +0000 Mrs. Oatmeal 1485890@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how tough this would be. Thinking of you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1485886 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 09:19:35 +0000 Smurfette 1485886@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry!! Thank you to him and your family for his service. I know it isn't easy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1485876 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 09:16:36 +0000 Grace 1485876@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry! That would be so hard. Hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend/page/2#post-1485847 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 09:08:17 +0000 snowjewelz 1485847@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry! This must be so hard for you. Are you around family &amp; friends so you can have help &amp; support when he's away? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485816 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 09:00:53 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 1485816@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>this is incredibly hard... i'm so sorry! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485786 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 08:52:57 +0000 psw27 1485786@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: Thank you to your entire family for your sacrifices to serve our country! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485754 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 08:38:32 +0000 Ginabean3 1485754@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485739 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 08:34:26 +0000 MsLipGloss 1485739@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StbHisMrs: You shouldn't say anything about his location, deployment group, etc. :heart: I'm so sorry doll. Your family is in my thoughts. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485733 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 08:32:44 +0000 T-Mom 1485733@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Lots of good wishes for him to be safe and it to go by quickly! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485705 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 08:25:32 +0000 Adira 1485705@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yikes! That's so hard!!! I'm so sorry! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485699 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 08:23:31 +0000 avivoca 1485699@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry that he's being deployed. I hope that the time passes quickly! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485696 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 08:23:18 +0000 swurlygurl 1485696@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry :( &lt;3 &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485688 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 08:21:18 +0000 StbHisMrs 1485688@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you all, the support here is so strong, so happy to have found this group :heart: </p> <p>@petunia354: That's when my husband reenlisted, or made the decision actually, just before DD was born. He did it for the extra retirement, but living in the now is really difficult!!</p> <p>@locavore_mama: Yeah, he's not going to a very safe place, I'm not 100% sure if I'm suppose to say or not ?? </p> <p>@T.H.O.U.: The only good I'm seeing is that he has a great job here, and gets to keep all his benefits, plus they make up for the cut in pay he's taking. Maybe while he's gone I can save enough for a much needed vacation when he comes home ;) He's a big spender!</p> <p>@blackbird: Honestly I did too. At first they said it was "only" for 7 months, then they increased it. He'll be overseas for 12 months, but in lockdown at the base a month prior to actually shipping off.</p> <p>I've been here before, but it was with my ex husband, a different branch, and a short tour. Never this long. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485664 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 08:07:48 +0000 MarieJ 1485664@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-dh-got-his-deployment-orders-this-weekend#post-1485662 Tue, 11 Mar 2014 08:06:57 +0000 cmomma17 1485662@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@StbHisMrs: oh honey :( (((HUG))) </p>