https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 28 Apr 2026 06:27:16 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251742 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 23:35:11 +0000 autumnlove 1251742@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251599 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 20:59:25 +0000 raintreebee 1251599@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for your loss. I had a "chemical pregnancy," and it felt absolutely awful. It is a real loss, and you shouldn't have to explain that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251592 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 20:54:42 +0000 swedishfish 1251592@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry for your loss... :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251589 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 20:47:09 +0000 LovelyPlum 1251589@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for your loss. A loss is a loss, no matter how early. There are lots of us who have gone through this-please reach out anytime you need! Sending you hugs :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251468 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 18:03:16 +0000 Sadieloo 1251468@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs. So sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251444 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 17:43:14 +0000 MamaMoose 1251444@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you're going through this. I think doctors see these things so often they can unfortunately become detached from how painful it is for the patient to experience this loss. I have to say I find it very unsettling that your SO "doesn't believe you"... He needs to be supporting you right now, not doubting you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251438 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 17:39:06 +0000 Mrs.Someone 1251438@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry this happened to you :( I've had a doctor shrug my first loss off too, it sucks. But you had the blood test to confirm that it was real. Take all the time to grieve that you need. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251427 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 17:28:03 +0000 T.H.O.U. 1251427@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry. These losses do feel like a sick joke. It's terrible to start dreaming of what the future will bring and then to have it all taken away. Please rest and feel better. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251347 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 16:09:22 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 1251347@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251342 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 16:02:44 +0000 spaniellove 1251342@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so so sorry...it makes it so much worse when they treat you like that in the ER. My first loss several years was somewhat like that - missed my period, positive test, started bleeding and went to the ER where they told me it was a chemical and shrugged it off. What you are experiencing is absolutely a loss whether that doctor acknowledged it or not, and I hope that someday you find a compassionate doctor who will tell you what you need to hear, that you experienced a miscarriage. I'm sorry your SO doesn't believe you; that's awful. Many hugs to you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251338 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 15:55:02 +0000 singingbee 1251338@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry for your loss. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-first-chemical-pregnancy#post-1251336 Sat, 30 Nov 2013 15:53:50 +0000 brisparrow 1251336@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've experienced my first chemical loss. Its something that I heard of but never believed in until it happened to me. My LDR S/O and I found that we were fertile while we visited each other. So we quickly began to try to conceive. Everything seemed fine. Within 2 weeks symptoms were showing up left and right. I get to week 4 and I got my first faint positive. It was so faint I had a neighbor come over to confirm they could see it. Then that night I began to bleed, I went to the ER and was told there was a low level of hormones but the bleeding showed it to be a chemical pregnancy. However, the ER doctor said we'll treat you for pelvic pain and he gave me a prescription, then sent me on my way. I have no other confirmation that it was a chemical pregnancy. He told me its like coming into the doctor's office complaining about a cold. He's only going to treat and list symptoms into my record. My loss is not even acknowledged. My S/O doesn't believe anything that happened because of it. My heart is broken because I can't prove anything and I can't even begin to pick up the pieces. Chemical pregnancy has turned my life upside down. It feels like some type of sick joke. :sad: </p>