https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 30 May 2026 05:03:27 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459595 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 23:28:55 +0000 MaisyMay 459595@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH definitely finds me attractive, but ever so often he'll say (almost with awe) "wow, you're so big!" Thanks. I've gained 4 pounds over my pre-preg weight, but yeah, that so makes me feel good. NOT. Like I don't have body image issues already. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459584 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 23:06:45 +0000 birdofafeather 459584@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yikes! My husband thinks I'm hotter in pregnancy and has said as much. I'm waiting for after the baby is here and I feel like crap. He better still think I'm awesome then too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459565 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:38:24 +0000 Ra 459565@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Blue: Maybe would should compile a list of "dumb things men say when their wives are pregnant" and pass it out as a PSA for future pregnant couples. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459560 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:35:41 +0000 Mrs. Blue 459560@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Omg, right?? I was whining to DH about feeling huge and ugly. He got really excited and told me he knew something that would make me feel better. He came back and said, "Your hot photos!" and had some pics from a couple years ago. I almost cried. When you're complaining about feeling huge and ugly, what would possess a person to think that the solution would be to show me pics of how I will probably never look again!?!?!?? And imply that I am in fact not "hot" now. Poor guy really has been so complimentary during pregnancy, but that just wasn't his best move! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459558 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:33:57 +0000 Ra 459558@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Dapple Grey: No. He's just an idiot. He didn't mean it to be mean. He just doesn't think before he speaks. Lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459555 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:31:06 +0000 Dapple Grey 459555@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Im sorry hes being as ass! Perhaps its his way of trying to work through some of uncertainty or fears he may have about pregnancy in general? . Many guys are really clueless! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459553 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:30:01 +0000 mrbee 459553@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@TurtleDoves: All men aren't like that!!</p> <p>Anyway to all, on behalf of all men, I apologize! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459552 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:29:32 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 459552@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What a dumb thing to say! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459546 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:24:18 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 459546@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsMini: yuuuuck! As if prostitution isn't wrong enough... Who wants a prostitute who is carrying a living being inside of her?!</p> <p>Men sometimes don't filter their thoughts...&amp; their thoughts can be so shallow! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459542 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:23:17 +0000 Ra 459542@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: I don't doubt it. However, when you know your wife is pregnant, emotional, and growing larger by the minute, you choose your words a little more carefully! </p> <p>I'm not mad at him. I just think he is an ass sometimes! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459540 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:21:55 +0000 MsMini 459540@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I dunno, according to a former patient's parent (who was a prostitute) there is a huge demand for pregnant prostitutes, and a huge premium for their services, so there must be a lot of men out there that find pregnancy a turn on! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459539 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:21:40 +0000 Grace 459539@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@rahlyrah: I roll my eyes. Sometimes its completely amazing how normally sweet men can have so little sense. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459537 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:20:08 +0000 mrbee 459537@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@rahlyrah: I am pretty sure most men would agree with his hypothetical though? Sorry!!</p> <p>It was still a pretty dumb thing to say! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459535 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:18:39 +0000 Ra 459535@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Grace: I told him he was an ass. He then back pedaled, big time. He said that my pregnancy is special to him, so obviously he will still think I am gorgeous. However, if he were to see a woman in a bar (not pregnant) and her identical twin (pregnant) most men would find the not pregnant one more attractive.</p> <p>What?!?! So, what you are saying is, that you will find me attractive because you love me, but the rest of the world will think I am fat and ugly?</p> <p>I think he realized he couldn't win this argument so he shut up after that. Grrr..... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459529 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:17:25 +0000 Smurfette 459529@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was saying to mine how my back was killing me, he said well it is probably due to the load you have out in front. I just looked at him, and he said I didn't mean it like that. I just said don't ever say that to me again. He has been so goos telling me how beautiful I am and look great, so not sure where it came from. Men!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459527 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:15:52 +0000 Ra 459527@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Bao: I agree! Pregnant women are gorgeous! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459526 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:15:44 +0000 littleveesmommy 459526@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This is when you proceed to throat punch him. Then say thats what happens to pregnant woman. I kid... not really. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459524 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:15:26 +0000 Grace 459524@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wha??? What did you say? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459522 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:15:06 +0000 Bao 459522@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What?! No pregnant women are beautiful :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459519 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:13:38 +0000 luckypenny 459519@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What the heck!? Men...... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-husband-is-an-idiot#post-459517 Thu, 20 Dec 2012 22:12:03 +0000 Ra 459517@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He literally just said to me, "Don't all pregnant women get uglier the more pregnant they get?"</p> <p>Really, babe? That is exactly what your pregnant wife wants to hear.</p> <p>Men! Ugh. </p>