https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 22 Apr 2026 01:14:50 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2537548 Sat, 30 Apr 2016 00:53:26 +0000 AalisMom 2537548@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so very sorry :( I miscarried four weeks ago and it's been so hard. *hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2515429 Mon, 04 Apr 2016 20:46:33 +0000 Mrsk 2515429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs friend, I'm so sorry this had to happen to you. Too many of have had to go thru this. It's devastating. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2515320 Mon, 04 Apr 2016 18:58:15 +0000 GoGoSnoGirl 2515320@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry for your loss. It is devastating, but you have a lot of support here. :crying: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2515274 Mon, 04 Apr 2016 17:59:22 +0000 oskarsmommy 2515274@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss.. I just went through a miscarriage as well. It's awful, and I still get waves of sadness, or anger, but it is fading. I hope you find your peace with it soon. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2515266 Mon, 04 Apr 2016 17:36:38 +0000 AprilFool 2515266@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry for your loss :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2514587 Mon, 04 Apr 2016 09:41:30 +0000 snowjewelz 2514587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so so so sorry mama :crying: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2514056 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 14:32:01 +0000 delight 2514056@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry to lose you from our November board. There are so many of us (sadly) that have experienced loss and I hope you find support and comfort here. Best wishes when you TTC again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2514041 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 13:45:25 +0000 MCD919 2514041@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so very sorry for your loss :heart: I miscarried at 9 weeks. I know how devastating it is. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2514007 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 12:12:18 +0000 LovelyPlum 2514007@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. Losses are so heartbreaking. Be gentle with yourself :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2514002 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 11:58:28 +0000 Raindrop 2514002@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for your lost. *big hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2514001 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 11:57:18 +0000 Crystal 2514001@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. Many of us here have experienced them, and like others have said, while the pain never goes away entirely, it does get better. Be kind to yourself, and allow yourself to grieve. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2513976 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 10:42:19 +0000 Periwinkle 2513976@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2513971 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 10:38:04 +0000 travelgirl1 2513971@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Big hugs :heart: . I miscarried at eight weeks, it was the most heartbreaking experience of my life, but I can't imagine the added stress of being given false hope like that. Sending you kits of love as you try to heal :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2513967 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 10:32:09 +0000 birdofafeather 2513967@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i'm so sorry for your loss. hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2513965 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 10:23:51 +0000 stiletto_mom 2513965@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry this happened hun. I'm also in Canada but didn't go to the ER. Miscarried mine at home.</p> <p>But it's only been 40 days and I'm pregnant again. I gave myself about a week after the miscarriage to grieve. I tried to reason with myself that I don't want to lose myself because it wouldn't be fair to the next pregnancy.</p> <p>*hugs* Hope you feel better soon. Give yourself time to heal and go easy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2513945 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 08:50:52 +0000 Run2shore 2513945@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. Went through a similar experience last fall. it's horrible. take your time grieving. Sending hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2513927 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 07:41:26 +0000 magnolia 2513927@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@janeybee: I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find lots of support here on hb. :heart: unfortunately there are many of us who have experienced it. I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2513924 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 07:36:54 +0000 SweetiePie 2513924@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: I'm so sorry for what you went through. I also had an experience where we were told we might have had my dates wrong. I know that exact feeling of wanting to hold on to hope so badly, but knowing deep down that it's a loss.<br /> The pain never goes away entirely, but it does subside. Take care of yourself :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-miscarriage#post-2513919 Sun, 03 Apr 2016 07:19:57 +0000 janeybee 2513919@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I miscarried at 8 weeks. It began with cramping and some light bleeding that continued to get worse. By Monday night I knew something was wrong and took myself to the ER. They did blood work and wanted an ultrasound, but there were too many others ahead of me for it to happen that night (I live in Canada). My husband and I came back in on Tuesday morning for an ultrasound. I cried through the whole thing as I was absolutely sure they would tell me there was nothing. But then they saw a sac. The technician said I had my dates wrong - the baby showed the growth of a 5.2 week fetus. She said it was implantation bleeding. I wanted to believe her so badly, so I did. We were told to come back on Thursday night for more blood work to compare HcG levels. </p> <p>I chose to believe the technician because I desperately wanted to. However, in moments of honesty I knew that I had what I thought was implantation bleeding just a few days after when I would have conceived. And the pain I was in was unreal - much worse than period cramping. </p> <p>And my heart knew. It just knew. </p> <p>On Wednesday night I went to the washroom and passed a huge piece of tissue. I knew what it was. I can never unsee what I saw. The cramping stopped almost immediately after, and only then did I truly realize and appreciate how much pain I had been in for days before. </p> <p>Thursday night's blood work confirmed what we knew to be true. Levels were dropping quickly. </p> <p>Emotions have been running high. It's been sad. </p>