https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 03 May 2026 14:50:22 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461521 Sat, 22 Dec 2012 11:13:34 +0000 lemondrop 461521@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mine cleans when she stays with us. I used to try really hard to clean perfectly before she got here, but there is always something I miss or don't get to. I don't worry about it as much anymore since she likes to stay busy, even on vacation. The help is nice, especially with the little one around. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461359 Sat, 22 Dec 2012 04:32:36 +0000 MamaMoose 461359@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The cleaning I would be pissed about... But I could convince myself it came from a place of good intentions. But opening your bills and bank statements is so far out of line she can't event see the line any more. Hell, opening someone else's mail is a federal offense. If your husband won't talk to her I would do it yourself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461342 Sat, 22 Dec 2012 04:11:03 +0000 lomom 461342@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yikes. I'd freak out.</p> <p>Another thing to add to my list of things I'm worried about while MIL is here for a week after the baby is born... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461294 Sat, 22 Dec 2012 01:29:23 +0000 Pink Champagne 461294@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would be pissed about the laundry and the bills, but the rest I feel was done with good intentions.<br /> Congrats on your niece! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461255 Sat, 22 Dec 2012 00:06:43 +0000 Dapple Grey 461255@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: Wow wow wow. I'm so sorry. I feel violated just reading it! She really overstepped her boundaries! I hope you all can get together to discuss it to figure out how &amp; why this happened and how it can NEVER happen again unless you explicitly ask her.</p> <p>BTW your niece is beautiful! Congratulations :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461224 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 23:02:03 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 461224@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: congrats on a cute neice!</p> <p>I'd be sooo mad about my MIL doing that.. especially the bank statements!! I'd freak! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461208 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 22:47:18 +0000 matador84 461208@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't want my mil touching my stuff either...but I guess look at it as in she probably had positive intentions?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461207 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 22:45:30 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 461207@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: I would be livid if any of my family or in laws went through my bills and bank statements! That is definitely private. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461205 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 22:44:28 +0000 junebugmama 461205@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>She also took our bills and and bank statements out of the envelopes...ugh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461155 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 22:08:19 +0000 doodlepoodle 461155@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: Congrats auntie!!! </p> <p>And yeah........if anyone but me or DH were going through bills or laundry (especially period underwear--thank God someone else has those!) I'd feel really violated. :-( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461152 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 22:06:40 +0000 Bao 461152@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yay congrats on your niece! Ha awkward but the up side is you have a clean house! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461118 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 21:41:19 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 461118@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Your period underwear!? I even hide those from my cleaning lady- &amp; she's a stranger! </p> <p>Congratulations on your niece!!!! &amp; hey, enjoy the clean house! Try to erase the idea of her in your business from your mind,haha:) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461117 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 21:41:07 +0000 HLK208 461117@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Congrats to your sister! That would make me feel icky if my MIL was in my underwear drawer! I'm sure she meant well but that's overboard. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461087 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 21:22:24 +0000 Boogs 461087@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>She's a doll, congrats!</p> <p>Yikes, I don't like people touching my stuff either, so I feel you. Though I wouldn't probably be too mad for too long since you get to enjoy a clean home. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461078 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 21:15:17 +0000 singingbee 461078@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ooooooohhhh....... That would bother me so much if my MIL did that. Such an invasion of privacy! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461074 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 21:11:00 +0000 mrs. bird 461074@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>congrats on your beautiful niece! i would also feel really uncomfortable with MIL cleaning our home. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461071 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 21:09:56 +0000 autumnlove 461071@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What a beautiful baby! Congrats!</p> <p>Oooh...I wouldn't want my MIL going through my stuff. :-( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461059 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 21:02:24 +0000 MaisyMay 461059@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Why do you want to kill your husband? Was he supposed to watch your LO?</p> <p>ETA: Just saw the text below the photo, totally didn't see that before. Sorry! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-niece-is-here-however-im-going-to-kill-my-husband#post-461056 Fri, 21 Dec 2012 21:01:28 +0000 junebugmama 461056@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Today at 11:30am me and the 7 month old went to the hospital. My sister was having a baby! I can't believe it, but my usually very whiney baby allowed for me to stay at the hospital the whole time and watch my beautiful niece be born. He just hung out in the ring sling or playing with toys on the floor. At 6pm my sister was 5cm. She was disappointed. However, 20 minutes later she claimed she had to push and she was right! My beautiful niece is here!</p> <p>[attach=1372/12/mfetmh.600x600.314516_4899710408676_1058757148_n.jpg]</p> <p>However, when I arrived home I found my home totally clean. That would sound exciting right? No! My mother in law came here just to get the oldest one clothes (she picked him up from school for me) and went to town. She even arranged our bills! Are you kidding me!!!! She cleaned our bedroom and master bathroom!!! I feel widely invaded!!! My husband does not understand why this bothers me, but I don't want anyone going through my personal things. She folded my damn period underwear!!! </p>