https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 07 Apr 2026 22:35:43 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1039133 Fri, 23 Aug 2013 09:24:18 +0000 littleredhairedgrl 1039133@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry @Sarac :( I can definitely relate with friends and family members getting their BPFs so quickly while we struggle. hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1037145 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 16:29:57 +0000 Happygal 1037145@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I very much relate to this thread! My sister, who had told me she was done with babies, called to tell me she is pregnant with her fourth. I was the last in the family to be told, which made me feel worse. It's hard. Hugs to you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1037102 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 16:08:10 +0000 pui 1037102@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMcD: Same here. I wish I lived in that world. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1037091 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 16:01:38 +0000 Freckles 1037091@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry you're struggling. It must be hard. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1037070 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 15:50:31 +0000 Cherrybee 1037070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Im so sorry. Thinking of you and hoping for some great news from you soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1037050 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 15:40:04 +0000 deactivated_account 1037050@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pui: It is absolutely awful how insensitve people can be. But really... I think the majority of people are clueless about how pregnacy can be such a struggle. I envy such a person's naivety. I wish I didn't know all that I do know about pregnancy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1036868 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 14:35:01 +0000 Vegmama 1036868@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1036833 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 14:24:04 +0000 Ellie 1036833@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I know exactly how you feel. The last time my sister told me that she was pregnant (with her 2nd), I was torn: I love being an aunt and I'm super happy for her, but I also wanted to shake her and say "don't you know *I* wanted to be pregnant?!! How could you do this to me?" </p> <p>My SIL and a cousin got pregnant around that same time (with their 2nds), so our family was suddenly inundated with pregnant ladies. It was heartbreaking. But wouldn't you know it, that's when I ended up getting my BFP too!</p> <p>I hope everything goes well - I hope your sister's pregnancy goes smoothly and that your BFP isn't far behind. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1036759 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 14:10:57 +0000 sweetooth 1036759@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it's the hardest to hear when your family and close friends get pregnant. Especially when it feels like it is taking you forever. My sister is due any day now with her second child and I sometimes <i>STILL</i> get sad that I didn't manage to have my first before she had her second. </p> <p>I remember reaching out to you when I was struggling with my IF journey. I hope you get your BFP for #2 soon and I can reach out to you again when I'm working on #2 :) Hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1036479 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 12:57:58 +0000 birdofafeather 1036479@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i'm sorry. it must be hard to hear that. hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1036143 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 11:02:42 +0000 sarac 1036143@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My sister is very supportive. We started trying at the same time the first time, and I managed to get pregnant with clomid 5 months after she did, so our daughters are really close in age. This time, we've been trying for more than a year, and even with clomid, I'm not sure it'll be as easy. I'm not really convinced I'll ever get pregnant again, honestly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035836 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 09:15:45 +0000 BSB 1035836@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww, I'm sorry! Family getting pregnant is so much harder on me.</p> <p>My younger sister just told me that she has started TTC. I'm just bracing myself for the announcement. I'm sure it will happen soon.</p> <p>Oh, my sister was very supportive of my feelings after I told her it was hard for me to hear about her TTC. We aren't best buds but when it comes to IF she has other friends who are going through the same stuff. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035834 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 09:13:51 +0000 Mrs.Someone 1035834@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry to hear it :( Does your sister know about your struggles? Hopefully she is sensitive to your feelings.</p> <p>We're heading out of town to visit DH's family and I'm afraid that his sister is going to announce being pregnant with #2... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035746 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 08:44:28 +0000 spaniellove 1035746@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sarac: It is so hard to see others have so easily what is like an impossible dream for us. I hope it's not much longer for you! </p> <p>@ladybee: No matter what their intention, when people mention how quickly they got pregnant it's like having salt rubbed in a wound isn't it? :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035719 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 08:35:41 +0000 pui 1035719@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's really hard to see others obtain so easily what you have been struggling for. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035718 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 08:34:57 +0000 pui 1035718@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ladybee: People can be so insensitive. I wish they'd be more careful about what they say. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035708 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 08:31:24 +0000 ladybee 1035708@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry. We are pregnant with our first now after a year of trying and medical intervention. Every time someone would post of FB I would delete them. Then someone I worked with got pregnant month one and said stupid things like, "OMG I don't even know how it happened! I don't see what every one gets so stressed about, it was so easy." I used to go home and cry to DH. I hope and pray that you will get pregnant again soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035671 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 08:20:38 +0000 LazyLightning 1035671@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sarac: oh bummer. :-( text me if you want to talk. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035653 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 08:15:05 +0000 mediagirl 1035653@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry you're struggling. :( I hope you get pregnant again soon!!!</p> <p>My SIL struggled to get pregnant the first time and I'm sure it was hard for her to hear it didn't take us long when we started trying. She's trying again and struggling again, as well. While I can't understand what you are going through, I do feel for you as I have seen this first hand in my family, too. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035648 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 08:13:27 +0000 Mrsbells 1035648@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hope you get pregnant soon!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035639 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 08:11:18 +0000 Littlebit 1035639@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aw, I'm so sorry. TTC is a b!tch..and that's the nicest way I can put it. Crossing my fingers for you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035521 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 07:26:47 +0000 MrsTal 1035521@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry. I know the feeling well. It sucks! Hoping you get your bfp soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035503 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 07:17:36 +0000 yellowbird 1035503@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh :((( Praying that you get your BFP soon!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035500 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 07:13:41 +0000 swedishfish 1035500@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry. I hope you get your BFP soon! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035468 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 06:46:25 +0000 edelweiss 1035468@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>lots of hugs. the mixed feelings are totally understandable. also hoping for your BFP soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035353 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 00:22:38 +0000 MrsLilybugg 1035353@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs. It really really sucks when those around you get pregnant when you've been trying been for so long. Everyone in the world was announcing pregnancies when i was in the trenches. Made ig so much harder to see stark white on those strips. Hugs. I hope you get your BFP soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/my-sister-just-got-pregnant-before-me-again#post-1035347 Thu, 22 Aug 2013 00:13:01 +0000 sarac 1035347@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>And you know, obviously I'm happy for her. But I've been trying for a year and a half now, and it's clear that my infertility isn't better now that I've managed to have one child. It is so hard to see everyone around me just getting pregnant the moment they decide to, all the while I'm wondering when or if I'll ever be able to have any more children. </p>