https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 28 May 2026 16:06:55 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2005485 Thu, 01 Jan 2015 17:06:44 +0000 78h2o 2005485@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Jacks: Just saw your comment - thank you. It sounds like you went through an awful lot this year as well! I hope 2015 is better for all of us! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2005470 Thu, 01 Jan 2015 16:46:14 +0000 Kimberlybee 2005470@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for all of the heartache and hardships that have come your way. Cheers to a better 2015 for everyone. Happy New Years to all. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2005464 Thu, 01 Jan 2015 16:35:49 +0000 Ree723 2005464@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry to those of you who have suffered terrible losses. My heart goes out to all of you. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2005398 Thu, 01 Jan 2015 15:03:30 +0000 FliegepilzHut 2005398@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry that everyone's year sucked so much! :sad: </p> <p>The news that our 1st IVF pregnancy was a blighted ovum...and that I would need another D+C...really marred the year for me. I just want so badly for this pregnancy to be successful. :meh: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2005375 Thu, 01 Jan 2015 14:34:08 +0000 HTownMom 2005375@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: thanks so much! I think couples counseling is our next stop to try and save our marriage and family. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004950 Thu, 01 Jan 2015 01:30:18 +0000 Crystal 2004950@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HTownMom: hugs! That sounds like an awful night. Have you guys tried counseling? Fx that 2015 is a better year for you and your DH. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004948 Thu, 01 Jan 2015 01:27:10 +0000 HTownMom 2004948@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My marriage is on the brink of failing...like full on divorce. I'm 80 lbs overweight and can't find the drive to lose it. Tonight ( NYE) was our 9 yr anniversary of being together and we fought and now are sleeping in separate beds. Life fail. :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004429 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 15:34:40 +0000 Crystal 2004429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Big hugs to everyone that needs it. What an awful, awful year- I am so sad to hear about everyone's losses (especially of LOs). :crying: </p> <p>1. Infertility. No BFPs since my miscarriage last year, and now have to save for surgery. </p> <p>2. DH took an unexpected pay cut earlier this year, which has really hindered our ability to have infertility treatment </p> <p>3. Work. Just, ugh. </p> <p>4. Depression and apathy leading both DH and I to be overweight and out of shape. We *will* fix that in 2015. </p> <p>2014 felt like a holding pattern for me, I'm no better off than I was at the end of the sucktastic year that was 2013. I really hope for some progress to be made by the start of 2016. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004396 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 15:06:43 +0000 Modern Daisy 2004396@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, reading some of these makes me realize my problems aren't that bad! Overall though, 2014 definitely had the most stress of any year so far. Here are some of the things we dealt with:</p> <p>Nanny quitting with no notice in Jan<br /> 8 back to back double ear infections from daycare, followed by dr. Telling us to pull him out<br /> Requesting a transfer from DH's job, waiting 7 months with no response before finally interviewing elsewhere, Dh's company finds out about the interviewing and finally agrees<br /> Months of me traveling from nuc to philly for interviews with several different companies only to be told that i make too much $<br /> We bought a new house (yaay!) but have been in contract to sell our apartment since september. We now live in an empty house with no washer/dryer since we have no $ until we close. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004377 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 14:50:44 +0000 turkeylurkey 2004377@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Well-<br /> 1) My Grandmother passed away from Cancer in January<br /> 2) The day of her funeral we found out that my Grandfather (her husband) had a tumor in the hip. We prayed it wasn't cancer but it was. He was in perfect health and mind up until that day! He fell the following week having to have hip surgery. Then the next week they did emergency colon surgery. His poor body and soul couldn't take the recovery from surgeries and chemo!<br /> 3) He passed away 6 months to the day after she did.<br /> I take comfort in knowing that he loved her so much that he couldn't be without her and that's why he passed away too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004358 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 14:39:13 +0000 psw27 2004358@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: to all of you... there is a lot of sadness on this board. Here's to a happier 2015. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004342 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 14:27:27 +0000 LML 2004342@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@spaniellove: That happened to me. My daughter has hearing loss and some other delays, and for months everyone told me I was just an anxious new mom. I wish they had been right. I hope your son is doing well. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004246 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 13:46:42 +0000 MrsKoala 2004246@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry that so many have had a rough time this year. As others have said, my two pale in comparison to the heartbreak that many of you have endured.</p> <p>1. PPA<br /> 2. Extreme family drama. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004109 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 12:16:10 +0000 spaniellove 2004109@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My heart feels sad for all the loss and struggle everyone has gone through in this thread. Wishing everyone a better 2015!</p> <p>@bluestriped bee: Yes, they told us before we left the hospital that he failed his newborn screenings and at 5w the audiologist gave us the diagnosis. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004053 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 11:53:26 +0000 Dandelion 2004053@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>1. Gall stones on my pancreas and the two weeks in the hospital before having my gall bladder out.</p> <p>2. DH got laid off. But that turned out to be a blessing in disguise.</p> <p>3. Plumbing issue that flooded our linoleum that had to be replaced. </p> <p>But, 2014 was WAY better than 2013 was and had much more good things than bad. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004036 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 11:48:24 +0000 BSB 2004036@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>1) Didn't get pregnant in 2014. (Even with New clinic, new diagnosis and tried IUI # 4,5,6) I swore last year that 2014 would be our year. I guess I was wrong.<br /> 2) With my IVF treatment &amp; DH's surgery and other dr bills. We spent over $25k in just medical expenses.<br /> 3) Because we still aren't pregnant, we are again pushing off moving out of our state and back east. We are in our state for 6 years and people back home is asking us if we are on the 10 year plan. I hope we are not still on the west coast in 4 more years. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2004008 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 11:40:56 +0000 BSB 2004008@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@spaniellove: hugs!! :heart: Didn't know he was born deaf. I know you thought he had hearing issues and you had issues with the Drs thinking you were an anxious mom. I'm so sorry. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2003952 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 11:18:23 +0000 Ladytron 2003952@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>GOODBYE 2014 - see you never. :shocked:<br /> Within three weeks, we were hit with:<br /> 1. Husband laid off from work<br /> 2. MIL diagnosed with cancer<br /> 3. Miscarriage and D&amp;C<br /> WTF?! 2015 has to be better for all of us! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2003930 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 11:06:59 +0000 Mrs. Jump Rope 2003930@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Littlebit: similar. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2003916 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 10:59:52 +0000 Littlebit 2003916@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Jump Rope: gah. I'm sorry! I was really hoping things were much better! Same old issues? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2003838 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 10:17:39 +0000 Mrs. Jump Rope 2003838@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Littlebit: nope nope nope. Biggest blowout over Xmas, and I stormed out of my moms house on Sunday. I didn't even look at her or say goodbye. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2003836 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 10:16:22 +0000 Littlebit 2003836@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Jump Rope: have things gotten any better with your sister? I've been meaning to ask because I see her posting on your FB a lot but wasn't sure. Hoping it's better now! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2003831 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 10:14:28 +0000 Mrs. Jump Rope 2003831@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>2014 sucked. I'm ready for a fresh start in 2015.</p> <p>1. Rough pregnancy &amp; moderate bed rest, lots of tears and contractions &amp; a hard time with my oldest. I didn't fully enjoy pregnancy and I wanted to.<br /> 2. So much sadness and drama with my sister, who is normally my very best friend.<br /> 3. PPA. I think that's self-explanatory. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/3#post-2003755 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 09:36:33 +0000 PrincessBaby 2003755@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for all of the heartbreak on this thread :crying: It is amazing that some of you have been through so much, and have so much strength getting through it. :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/2#post-2003745 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 09:32:41 +0000 Orchid 2003745@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Major sleep deprivation. I haven't slept more than 3 consecutive hours since April. </p> <p>BUT it seems like such a little thing compared to what you ladies have gone through!! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/2#post-2003734 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 09:24:50 +0000 littlebug 2003734@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What incredible grace and strength you all have! I'm humbled by these posts. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/2#post-2003626 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 07:58:53 +0000 LulaBee 2003626@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@simplyfelicity: @BeachMama: @Tidybee: Thank you.</p> <p>Hugs to everyone on this thread. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/2#post-2003474 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 00:09:40 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 2003474@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@78h2o: I think you went through a tremendous amount this year. I could not have borne what you went through with such grace. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/2#post-2003470 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 00:02:59 +0000 simplyfelicity 2003470@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jaguar: Wishing you so much goodness and happiness in 2015. :heart: :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/name-the-3-worst-things-that-happened-to-you-in-2014/page/2#post-2003351 Tue, 30 Dec 2014 21:27:31 +0000 Mae 2003351@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>2014 was more good than bad for me, but still: </p> <p>1) All of LO's eating issues/drama<br /> 2) My grandma had surgery and got diagnosed with cancer<br /> 3) I lost my job and haven't found a new one (this will also be on my best things list... I have mixed feelings). </p>