https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 27 Apr 2026 17:47:02 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/nanny-share-with-2month-old-and-1-yr-old-doable#post-1898175 Sun, 12 Oct 2014 06:33:38 +0000 mrs.shinerbock 1898175@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think a lot of whether it works or not will depend on the nanny. You should definitely ask the nanny on how she plans to handle two and make sure that you, the other mom and the nanny are on the same page regarding feeding, sleeping, outings, screen time, etc. There is a nanny across the street from us that is caring for a 20 month old and a 2 month old and the family is happy with how she handles both kids. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/nanny-share-with-2month-old-and-1-yr-old-doable#post-1897993 Sat, 11 Oct 2014 17:46:46 +0000 QueensBee 1897993@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>One of my friends is in this situation, and it does work for her! She actually started the nanny share with her son and another boy who is the same age. A year later, she had another baby. So the nanny is now watching 2 toddler boys and the infant. My friend seems to be very pleased with the arrangement.</p> <p> I know it depends on the nanny and the expectations of both sets of parents. But yes, I think it is doable! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/nanny-share-with-2month-old-and-1-yr-old-doable#post-1897926 Sat, 11 Oct 2014 14:49:20 +0000 Cole 1897926@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it has potential to work out if the nanny is up to the challenge. I think you and the other mom will need to be flexible in regards to how rigid you can be with schedules but I think it should be very doable. It's obviously hard to know in advance what your non negotiable elements will be in regards to sleep but perhaps you can put feelers out for what the current schedule is and how your baby will fit into it. For example, maybe you decide that you want at least one good crib nap daily but the others can be on the go or in the swing. Also, talk about feeding, are you adamantly against the nanny propping the bottle, is it OK in a pinch or should she just do what works? What will she do when they both cry? </p> <p>There is no way to predict any of that with absolute certainty, and occasionally she may make a (minor) decision you wouldn't otherwise find ideal but in the long run won't make a difference. </p> <p>It is also wise to chat with the other parents about things like screen time, the types of foods the kids will be eating, activities etc. If they are committed to an expensive music class on one of the nanny share days are you OK with paying for your lo to join in? </p> <p>I firmly believe gut instinct goes a long way with a nanny situation so don't discount that either! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/nanny-share-with-2month-old-and-1-yr-old-doable#post-1897705 Sat, 11 Oct 2014 09:20:10 +0000 pmrlady 1897705@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hello, </p> <p>I am currently looking into childcare options for my baby due in january. We only need a part-time nanny because my husband only works 3 times a week. </p> <p>I met up with another woman who lives in the same building as me and she currently has a nanny for her 8 month old that she really likes and is very happy with her. When I told her that I was looking for a nanny she suggested that we do a nanny share since we're in the same building and it would cut the cost for both of us. Her nanny was agreeable and we have a meeting scheduled next week to go over everything.</p> <p>At first, I thought it was a great idea because I would be using a nanny who had experience and was recommended as someone who is trustworthy and reliable. It would make it so much easier for us than to have to find someone else from scratch who is willing to do part-time and who would be someone we could trust. </p> <p>But now that I'm thinking about it, I'm a little concerned about the logistics of taking care of a baby who will be 2 months old and the other child who will be 1 yr old by then. They would most likely have different napping and feeding schedules and I'm afraid that what ever routine I establish for my baby while I'm on maternity leave will not be followed by the nanny since it won't coincide with the other child's routine. </p> <p>Anyone have any experience with a nanny share of a baby and toddler? I really want to try to make it work but I also want what's best for my baby. </p> <p>Any advice is greatly appreciated. </p>