https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 27 Aug 2026 12:16:02 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2039605 Sun, 25 Jan 2015 17:12:34 +0000 FliegepilzHut 2039605@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BamaBee: That's great news about your ovary! I'll be thinking of you on Friday! :heart: :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2039604 Sun, 25 Jan 2015 17:11:20 +0000 Anya 2039604@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Glad opening up to someone helped you, best wishes that things continue to improve! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2039433 Sun, 25 Jan 2015 11:19:42 +0000 erwoo 2039433@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm glad you're feeling better. It does help to talk to someone about it. Hope things only go smoothly for you. Hugs. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2039378 Sun, 25 Jan 2015 09:06:09 +0000 mrsjyw 2039378@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Welcome and thank you for sharing your story. Continued well wishes for a smooth rest of pregnancy! Congratulations!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2039376 Sun, 25 Jan 2015 09:05:17 +0000 kentuckygirl 2039376@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry you are dealing with complications but hope your prognosis &amp; your baby's improves! I'll be thinking of you and hoping for the best! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2039092 Sat, 24 Jan 2015 19:03:27 +0000 BamaBee 2039092@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Update: They were definitely able to save the ovary and it looks good on today's ultrasound (still enlarged, but down to 9x7x3cm, from 12x10x5cm when I was admitted). I'm going home tonight to continue resting, and we will have a follow up ultrasound on Friday to reassess the gestational sac.</p> <p>I took your advice and shared my news with one trusted friend. It helped me just to say the words out loud, and it was nice to have someone both congratulate us on the pregnancy and commiserate on all the issues that have followed.</p> <p>Thanks for all your kind words and for the warm welcome! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2039011 Sat, 24 Jan 2015 16:26:45 +0000 FliegepilzHut 2039011@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just wanted to say, I'm so sorry for what you're going through...and so glad that (I assume?) they saved your ovary! Hopefully in a few short weeks, you'll see a bigger stronger fetus and get to feel like you're "out of the woods.". Until then, I'm sending lots of hugs and well wishes! :heart: :goodluck: Feel free to vent (or join us over on the Pregnancy After IF thread) anytime!</p> <p>ETA: If you have any close friends that have been through IF /scary early pregnancies, I agree that sharing your struggles might really help! (I know it helps keep me sane! :wink: ) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038992 Sat, 24 Jan 2015 16:03:29 +0000 MapleMoose 2038992@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry you have to deal with all this after the long TTC journey. Sending prayers that things work out for the best. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038991 Sat, 24 Jan 2015 16:03:08 +0000 Eko 2038991@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending lots of :heart: :heart: :heart: Sorry to hear things have been so rough so early but hopefully things get better from here and you have 31 more weeks of complete bliss. Never lose faith. Maybe there is someone you are close with that you can tell for support. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038977 Sat, 24 Jan 2015 15:42:13 +0000 FreckledFox 2038977@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending huge hugs to you! It's gotta be so hard to enjoy this time. I am sorry that it's being overshadowed. I had some complications (still currently having them) and I chose to tell my immediate family and DHs because I needed the extra support. Maybe telling one other person who will keep you in good spirits is a good idea. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038641 Sat, 24 Jan 2015 09:31:39 +0000 .twist. 2038641@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry you've been dealing with so much and haven't had anyone to talk to about everything that's going on! Please vent here any time. As pp's have said, there are lots of people who can relate to you in some way or another here, don't ever feel like you can't come vent to us!!!! </p> <p>Welcome to HB, I hope you find lots of support here. &lt;3 &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038637 Sat, 24 Jan 2015 09:27:29 +0000 IcebergMom 2038637@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>just a thought but perhaps you should extend the circle of "who knows" to a few good friends and family. they might help you enjoy the moment and celebrate with you. And should theIt be any more medical difficulties they will support you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038599 Sat, 24 Jan 2015 09:03:52 +0000 Anya 2038599@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry you are going through all this. What a rough 9 weeks it's been for you. Sending positive thoughts :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038423 Fri, 23 Jan 2015 22:44:50 +0000 Mrs. J 2038423@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending hugs and prayers! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038398 Fri, 23 Jan 2015 22:22:04 +0000 jhd 2038398@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry things have been so rough. Try to get some good rest this weekend. I hope that you feel better very soon. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038390 Fri, 23 Jan 2015 22:10:17 +0000 macintosh 2038390@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh my you've been through a lot already! I'm so glad you're feeling better and I hope you get to go home very soon. </p> <p>I remember a similar feeling early in my pregnancy as I struggled with all day nausea. I had hoped being pregnant would be easy since getting pregnant was so difficult. I just wasn't.</p> <p>Fingers crossed that you recover quickly and that baby keeps growing strong and healthy. Welcome! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038388 Fri, 23 Jan 2015 22:08:20 +0000 Torchwood 2038388@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you're going through all this. Not knowing what's going to happen is so, so hard, and to have to deal with it after going through so much to get pregnant just seems so unfair! Sending lots of positive thoughts your way! Feel free to vent here anytime. Like @MrsMccarthy said, there are a lot of us on here who have been through a lot of difficult stuff, and we're always here when you need to talk! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038366 Fri, 23 Jan 2015 21:30:36 +0000 MrsMccarthy 2038366@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so so sorry my dear. You have come to the right place. There are a lot of very compassionate women on here who have been through challenges of near pregnancy loss, pregnancy loss and infertility. And just in general it's a great safe place to be. I will be thinking of you and hoping your sweet baby grow healthy and strong. Much love! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038358 Fri, 23 Jan 2015 21:17:49 +0000 sorrycharlie 2038358@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>sending hugs! I am so sorry you've had such a tough journey so far. I hope things only get easier for you!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/newbee-having-a-rough-week#post-2038355 Fri, 23 Jan 2015 21:14:57 +0000 BamaBee 2038355@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hi Bees-<br /> I'm relatively new around here (though I've been lurking for a while!), so by way of introduction...hubs and I married in December 2011, started TTC in October 2013, and are now finally pregnant after several rounds of Clomid, due August 27th. So far, things have just not gone as planned.</p> <p>At my first OB visit, we were told that while the baby looks ok, the gestational sac is too small. We were given a high likelihood that I will miscarry. Because of this, we have chosen not to share the news of the pregnancy with our friends or even our families until at least the end of the first trimester.</p> <p>A few days later, added drama: this week I found myself admitted to the hospital with severe abdominal pain and vomiting. I wound up having emergency surgery for ovarian torsion. It's now three days later and I'm finally starting to feel better physically, hoping to go home soon.</p> <p>Emotionally, though, I'm struggling. It's just...I'm only 9 weeks pregnant! I had hoped that after our difficulty conceiving, that this would be the easy part. So far, baby still looks ok, but this is all a lot for me and DH to deal with. He is supportive, but this is obviously uncharted territory for both of us. Like I said, nobody else even knows I'm pregnant!</p> <p>Anyway, thanks for the space to vent. I would welcome any advice, thoughts, or well wishes. </p>