https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 01 Jul 2026 17:34:40 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-361007 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 16:24:26 +0000 loveisstrange 361007@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: @Foodnerd81: Hahahahaha. Oh, yeah. Well, my cousin has two sons who are kind of screw-ups. The older one (who is 20) got himself into some legal trouble involving pot last fall. The younger one is generally a spoiled, awful brat (he's 18). Well... my brother's GF got drunk and told my cousin that all of her kid's problems are her fault because she's a horrible mother and she should be ashamed of how she raised them, etc, etc, etc. Madness basically ensued. </p> <p>I had flown home from London for the holidays (and was 27 weeks pregnant) and they had flown in from Philly, so we were all staying with my parents. My cousin is my mom's niece, so my mom was pissed, my aunt stormed out all upset, my grandmother was upset and crying. Ugh. She then came downstairs to me and my middle brother and told us that our family is so effed up and dysfunctional. She was ripping on our dad. Then my older brother tried to get her to go sleep it off and they got into a fight.... all while her 13-year-old daughter sat there and watched. The poor kid. I felt SO bad for her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-360963 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 16:06:51 +0000 Foodnerd81 360963@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We live in a 1 bedroom apartment, so only people who don't mind an air mattress or the couch can stay with us! But if we had a guest room, no, we don't have anyone I would exclude. I don't think DH would want his dad's wife staying with us though-- he really doesn't like her at all (and don't ever call her his stepmother!).<br /> @zippylef: I knew what word you were referring to, but I would love more background on what she did. because I'm nosy :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-360947 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 16:00:38 +0000 anonysquire 360947@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@zippylef: Lol no not the word, I meant how she ruined Christmas. I refuse to spend holidays with DH's family, I want to avoid them during happy moments. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-359463 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 07:36:06 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 359463@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have an open door policy. Any of our family is welcome anytime. We don't any crazy or annoying family members though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-359392 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 06:15:45 +0000 heffalump 359392@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Anyone is welcome. But I'm not as open and inviting as I used to be before lo. I'm always so tired and pooped and we have to be quiet so we don't wake her up.... its just not so fun to host people. Still if people need a place to stay I wont say no. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-359373 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 04:56:05 +0000 loveisstrange 359373@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: Haha the word? It starts with a C and ends with a T. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-359370 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 04:41:25 +0000 anonysquire 359370@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@zippylef: oh geez, can you tell us what it is or no? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-359366 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 04:02:22 +0000 loveisstrange 359366@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My brother and his... well... I can't use the word that really describes her, it might offend some people. She's a horrible person and I hate her, though. She single-handedly ruined Christmas for my ENTIRE immediate (siblings, parents, aunts/uncles, cousins and grandparents) family last year. She will never be welcome to stay in my home. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-359365 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 03:57:26 +0000 anonysquire 359365@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sweet T: the only good part is that they live in different states as us, I thought that would get rid of the drama but no... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-359364 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 03:46:57 +0000 Sweet T 359364@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: ugh! I think they should all be exiled to a desert island. I'm sorry you have two! That sucks so much! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-359363 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 03:39:09 +0000 anonysquire 359363@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sweet T: lol! I have a monster in law and a step monster in law. Barf! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-359361 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 03:19:31 +0000 Sweet T 359361@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The monster-in-law is not welcome in my home either! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/no-room-in-our-inn#post-359360 Thu, 25 Oct 2012 02:57:49 +0000 anonysquire 359360@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So my husbands best friend just asked if he could spend thanksgiving with us because he has no family where he lives. I am so excited and would love to host him for 4 days. Anyways I brought it up to my mom and she was like I thought you didn't let Ryan's friends and family stay over at your place. It's only his mom and brothers who I won't let stay over. </p> <p>Are there any people who you don't let stay over? </p>