https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 13 Aug 2026 12:58:10 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405515 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 09:29:30 +0000 snowjewelz 2405515@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm glad you talked to her about it and got it worked out and sold it to her! But even if she didn't mean to type it, she probably definitely thought it! It may always be a sneaking suspicion in the back of her mind unless you can show proof that your LO really wore this before, haha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405426 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 08:44:46 +0000 mrsjyw 2405426@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Eh definitely passive agressive, but I'd just sell them!</p> <p>FWIW, my recently turned 3 yo is in size 10 sneakers, and I'm probably going to buy sz 11 or 12 natives for him come summertime... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405416 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 08:35:46 +0000 Modern Daisy 2405416@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't sell them to her. Seems like no matter what she is at least going to suspect you stole them in the best case scenario. Worst case she makes a scene and accuses you. For $10 you don't need that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405395 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 08:10:24 +0000 Truth Bombs 2405395@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Meh. As long as she's willing to pay me my asking price I probably wouldn't really care if she thought I found them. 😝 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405384 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 07:58:47 +0000 erinbaderin 2405384@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it totally did come off like she was accusing you (the "what a coincidence" part especially sounded really stealth bitch) but I'm glad you worked it out and all's well that ends well. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405373 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 07:40:15 +0000 Glitter 2405373@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't think she's accusing. I think she's just trying to get similar shoes for her daughter the easiest way she knows how and she remarks because it really is quite a coincidence! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405345 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 06:48:29 +0000 catomd00 2405345@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Apex: people absolutely do and stuff they steal! I don't really see what the problem is with selling something you found though. It feels a listless weird to me and I wouldn't do it personally, but if someone Left it and you find it and there's no way to hunt the person down without a great amount of effort, then it's kind of too bad for them?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405341 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 06:20:37 +0000 gracecat 2405341@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sounds like something I would write and I wouldn't realize it's snarky, honestly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405331 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 05:49:16 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2405331@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The fact she wants to buy them from you means her first response was truly just a question. Overthinking! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405321 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 03:52:24 +0000 SugarplumsMom 2405321@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What a biatch. Lol. I totally think she's passive aggressive accusing you. I have too many of those people in my life to ever want to meet another! :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405280 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 00:31:11 +0000 Apex 2405280@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks guys, I emailed her back explaining how i interpreted her question. She apologized and said she didn't mean it that way. I guess she was upset about the lost pair and she really wanted to buy them, so I ended up selling them to her.</p> <p>I just can't help but wonder if people actually sell stuff they find instead of trying to find the owner of whatever it is. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405277 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 00:25:57 +0000 Apex 2405277@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@birdofafeather: I actually don't question the sizing, my 19 month old son is actually starting to wear a Size 8. His feet are huge. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405271 Thu, 31 Dec 2015 00:12:35 +0000 Mrs.KMM 2405271@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it sounds like she is accusing you. But I would still sell them to her anyways! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405265 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 23:52:01 +0000 birdofafeather 2405265@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think she's just asking too! I would sell them. My almost 3 year old has size 9 natives, so I wouldn't question the sizing! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405252 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 23:25:25 +0000 Greentea 2405252@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think she was just asking. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405246 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 23:14:38 +0000 QBbride 2405246@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Omg that is SO passive aggressive. I would probably not sell them to her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405197 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 22:22:44 +0000 Apex 2405197@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ShootingStar: Lol. I can totally see that happening. I guess I really have to remember that not everyone thinks the same way I do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405189 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 22:14:36 +0000 ShootingStar 2405189@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ha, I would totally write something like this with the best intentions. I'd be all, "yay coincidence!" and DH would read it and be like "why would you accuse someone??" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405172 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:57:17 +0000 blackbird 2405172@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Overthinking it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405168 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:54:57 +0000 irene 2405168@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes she is accusing you... but then the 2nd post it does sound like she trust that this is a different pair. I wouldn't really feel uncomfortable because in a way, if the position is swapped, I would wonder too (if I don't know my neighbor enough) if they found my shoes and are selling them. She is just being straight forward - it is better for her to ask, then kept wondering about it and looking at you different from now on and spreading rumors, you know?</p> <p>My 3 year old is wearing size 8. So I am pretty sure yours is a lot bigger than the pair she lost. I would sell it to her so she knows this is really a different pair :) If you don't sell it to her it makes you look guilty, as if you had something to hide and you didn't want to show the shoes to her because it was indeed her pair. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405150 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:41:59 +0000 Mrs Green Grass 2405150@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think the second one sounds like she believes you. That's awkward, but I'd totally still sell them to her! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405146 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:39:38 +0000 mrbee 2405146@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Apex: Yah I would show it to her too... but would make sure I had backup there haha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405138 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:32:19 +0000 Bao 2405138@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@catomd00: That's what I was thinking! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405136 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:32:04 +0000 Apex 2405136@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: I actually bought them used from a consignment store and my son cant fit into them yet. I tossed the receipt so I can't even prove it!<br /> I'm so irritated, my DH thinks I should offer to show her anyways. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405134 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:30:23 +0000 Ash 2405134@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think she's saying you stole them. I wouldn't sell them to her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405129 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:27:49 +0000 Reese 2405129@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Weird. I would sell them to her. Yours look like they were worn more than once anyway so clearly they aren't the same pair. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405126 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:27:30 +0000 mrbee 2405126@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Apex: I think she was just asking! If you do sell it to her, you could always bring older pictures of your LO in the shoes to show her! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405124 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:27:05 +0000 FaithFertility 2405124@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hmmmm I think kinda snarky......but if she is offering to buy them, maybe she is saying wow crazy coincidence! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405123 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:26:47 +0000 catomd00 2405123@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah she definitely is. Does a 3 year old really wear a size 11?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ok-im-overthinking-this-what-would-you-do#post-2405122 Wed, 30 Dec 2015 21:26:31 +0000 mediagirl 2405122@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think I would ignore it and just sell them to her. Maybe show her your receipt. 😉 </p>