https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 13 May 2026 16:54:39 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pain-with-the-big-o#post-552285 Wed, 06 Feb 2013 13:53:42 +0000 Mrs.VW 552285@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks - I must be the only one :) I think what it is, or what I've found online, is that my muscles contract so strongly that they actually start to cramp :/ I don't have cysts so I know it's not that! At least that is reassuring :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pain-with-the-big-o#post-552283 Wed, 06 Feb 2013 13:52:31 +0000 Bao 552283@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have not experienced this, but bumping for you in hopes that someone can help you out! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pain-with-the-big-o#post-549364 Mon, 04 Feb 2013 17:04:58 +0000 Mrs.VW 549364@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm not exactly sure where to put this post :) But I thought I would throw it out there. </p> <p>Sometimes, and I'm trying to figure out exactly when, I'll have pain when I .... enjoy myself during or before BDing. I'm trying to figure out if I'm the only one this happens to and why it might be happening. It seems as though my stomach muscles contract for so long maybe that it causes me to have stomach cramps and then eventually, tmi, diarrhea or have to go to the bathroom. It's been baffling me and I can't figure out what's going on. I HATE that it happens and have recently started to avoid orgasming around O just to make sure I don't have to go to the bathroom right after. I feel like it sort of defeats the whole BDing process when we're trying to get PG. I hope I'm not the only one this happens to and that someone out there can help!! </p>