https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 11 May 2026 02:28:35 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/passive-aggressive-mother-in-law#post-2221141 Sun, 28 Jun 2015 21:39:22 +0000 1BusyMama 2221141@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Zbug:<br /> I have spoken to him about it. He's addressed her and he's usually very stern with her but honestly I think she's nuts. It's like a battle of wills between those two. She acts hormonal and hysterical sometimes.<br /> Whenever her and I butt heads though he just thinks it's female competition and doesn't see it as big a deal as I do, even if he still talks to her about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/passive-aggressive-mother-in-law#post-2221137 Sun, 28 Jun 2015 21:36:17 +0000 1BusyMama 2221137@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@blackbird:<br /> not sure maybe another month. I live in a different country and had the baby here to be with him. He's planning to move to my country eventually. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/passive-aggressive-mother-in-law#post-2221009 Sun, 28 Jun 2015 18:31:19 +0000 blackbird 2221009@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You don't permanently live there? How long are you staying? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/passive-aggressive-mother-in-law#post-2220997 Sun, 28 Jun 2015 18:09:30 +0000 Zbug 2220997@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you're going through this. What does your fiancé say? Honestly, I'd make him deal with her if possible. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/passive-aggressive-mother-in-law#post-2220994 Sun, 28 Jun 2015 17:48:04 +0000 1BusyMama 2220994@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm currently living with my fiancé until I recover from delivery of our baby. I am 4 weeks postpartum and he is amazing but only one problem. His mother currently lives with him. She's here until she moves back to her home country since she sold her place and needs a temporary home. Out of the goodness of his heat he offered her a place to live since he had extra room. I really like her but she is getting one nerves. She acts like queen of the castle. Won't let me cook or clean, makes snarky remarks about everything I do. She laughs that my hair will get ruined in the rain so why bother curling it. She conveniently cleans the stove when she knows I want to use it. She uses products that irritate my lungs to clean the house (I'm allergic to almost any strong scent), tries to hide my things or "relocate" so I have to search all over the damn house to find it. Wears strong perfume when holding the baby so the baby reeks of it. Takes the baby when I don't want her to, puts pacifiers in the baby's mouth even though I've told her I'm doing the LAM birth control and it interferes. She jokes to the baby in a language I can't understand about my parenting methods. It's driving me crazy! Any advice? </p>