https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 09 May 2026 11:37:01 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-387913 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 22:04:16 +0000 pinkcupcake 387913@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Awkward! I'd skip :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-387908 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 22:02:30 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 387908@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've seen your pics: you're a hot mama! But I totally wouldn't want to go either &amp; I think your friend should have had the sense to know that &amp; not ask you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-387895 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 21:57:59 +0000 HLK208 387895@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Coco Bee: you're so sweet! I probably would have went if this girl had her own children but she has no idea what it means to wear spit up or skip a shower because you can't put your baby down! And I know she would have been judgemental if she saw how I am now compared to what I use to be. But hey, it did give me motivation to go for a run and eat healthy today! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386599 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 16:12:42 +0000 Mrs. Pen 386599@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: hahaha you crack me up. Love it</p> <p>I definitely wouldn't have gone!! No way. That was CRAZY rude of your friend to invite her ugh I would totally talk to the friend about that.</p> <p>Also agreed with mamamoose- you are stunning and skinny!!! No need to worry about self esteem!! You got the guy and two adorable chillins' ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386559 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 16:02:38 +0000 prettylizy 386559@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Meh- I don't know that it would bother me a ton, but DH and I have been together for almost 10 years so any of his ex's are so far ex-out I wouldn't care. But I also have a pretty high self esteem so that might be a factor. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386545 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 15:56:13 +0000 Turd Ferguson 386545@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't go. I'm a selfish person, so I wouldn't be worried about "being the bigger person" or what not, I just wouldn't want to waste any of my "friend"/out of the house time on something that won't be enjoyable. Blah. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386464 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 15:27:50 +0000 Mrsbells 386464@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: Lol!</p> <p>I wonder why this ex wants to come though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386456 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 15:22:59 +0000 Bao 386456@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd go, your the one who got the guy in the end anyway! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386451 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 15:21:21 +0000 SugarplumsMom 386451@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Awkward. I wouldn't go. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386341 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:35:05 +0000 mrbee 386341@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HeatherlovesKenny: Oh then I change my answer, I would've gone haha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386340 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:34:35 +0000 HLK208 386340@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: not in my opinion. I mean, she tries. But even at her best I wouldn't be jealous of her. That sounds catty, but it's honest. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386330 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:30:32 +0000 mrbee 386330@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HeatherlovesKenny: Ok now that you've decided, a question... is she attractive? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386325 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:29:09 +0000 HLK208 386325@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: lol!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386324 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:28:11 +0000 HLK208 386324@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MamaMoose: ugh, no clue. She's not even close with my friend! She keeps popping up in weird places but I'm not worried about it. She was the type of ex that DH does not admit to dating. I had a few of those and I would be just as disappointed if they lived near me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386320 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:26:46 +0000 tororojo 386320@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's awkward...but don't forget that you win- you had his baby! ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386318 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:25:38 +0000 NerdBee 386318@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If you don't want to hang our with this person, I would not go. Life is too short and time, especially after having an LO, is too precious to spend with a person whose company you don't enjoy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386314 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:24:56 +0000 mrs. wagon 386314@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'll use one of my favorite phrases these days... </p> [attach=30/12/md6olk.495x442.hawkward.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386310 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:23:52 +0000 MrsBrewer 386310@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Reschedule for sure! No way would I go if I knew DH's ex would be there.....can you say weird?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386309 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:23:42 +0000 HLK208 386309@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MamaMoose: that is so sweet and you just boosted my confidence!<br /> @MsMini: she knows they dated but she doesn't know this girl hated me for a few years (she kept calling DH after they broke up/into the first year of our relationship)...now she lives up the street from us -.-</p> <p>Okay, I texted her back and said, "I'll let you guys have your time together. DS has had some bad moments this morning and I think the playground wouldn't go over so well" which is true </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386296 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:21:08 +0000 meredithNYC 386296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope - I definitely wouldn't go. And frankly I would be a little pissed at the friend for putting me in such a crappy situation. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386291 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:19:27 +0000 DpeachLu 386291@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I agree with mamamoose though you look amazing....<br /> but I don't think its weird that you dont want to hang with an x.</p> <p>Unless I just came out of a salon with fresh hair and makeup done I would say no as well. hahahahahah. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386285 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:16:12 +0000 MamaMoose 386285@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HeatherlovesKenny: I agree with Mr. Bee that you shouldn't feel badly or embarrassed by not wanting to hang out with your husband's ex! Also... WHY does this woman need to be invited if she doesn't even have her own child? Is she using her neice as an excuse to try to hang out with you and your friends? I'm probably reading too far into it because my husband has a creepy stalker ex but it seems weird to me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386280 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:14:34 +0000 Mrs Checkers 386280@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mmmm, I'd probably say no... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386278 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:12:31 +0000 mrbee 386278@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HeatherlovesKenny: I think it's pretty understandable why you wouldn't want to hang out with your SO's ex! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386275 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:10:43 +0000 HLK208 386275@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Lol, if I don't go, I know they'll talk about why I didn't go...</p> <p>At this point, I think she knows I'm hesitating on texting her back. Way to put me on the spot! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386274 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:10:40 +0000 MamaMoose 386274@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would also reschedule for another time that the ex won't be there. That's very awkward.</p> <p>HOWEVER... I saw the family photos you posted and girl you are CRAZY. I wouldn't be able to find 2.5lbs for you to lose never mind 25lbs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386264 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:07:06 +0000 MsMini 386264@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Does she know that this friend is your DH's ex? If so I can't imagine why she would put you in that position!</p> <p>I would go, but maybe just put in a touch of extra effort getting ready. In the end you got the prize, and she didn't, so you have nothing to prove to her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386263 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:06:59 +0000 mrbee 386263@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would just reschedule for another time, but not make a big deal out of it.</p> <p>Who wants to hang out with their partner's ex? Not me... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386258 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:05:48 +0000 chopsuey 386258@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't go. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/play-date-with-friendshe-invited-dhs-ex#post-386256 Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:05:12 +0000 autumnlove 386256@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would go but it is def awkward! </p>