https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 05 Apr 2026 12:56:35 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353738 Thu, 12 Nov 2015 10:43:00 +0000 blackbird 2353738@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Take the underwear away and put her in loose pants! Tell he that when she poops in the toilet, she can have her clothes back LOL </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353731 Thu, 12 Nov 2015 10:40:39 +0000 yellowbird 2353731@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: okay, this may be super weird, but can she watch you go #2 so she will truly understand what pooping on the potty means?? LOL then at least you will know that she knows and you can work with her.</p> <p>And I highly recommend bribery! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353674 Thu, 12 Nov 2015 10:20:27 +0000 Mrs. Yoyo 2353674@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh geez. Well, I will say that had I made my kid go commando he would have just pooped somewhere and left it for me to find :shocked: Honestly, what worked for us was easing up on the pressure to do it. It was a couple of months of stain sticked undies, but he eventually came around. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353512 Thu, 12 Nov 2015 09:21:29 +0000 HappyBaker 2353512@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: Do you have a little potty or is she using the real toilet? My DD couldn't poop on the real toilet for a while when we started because there was nothing to push her feet against to help brace herself, so we used a little potty at the beginning. Good luck, we are having poop accidents for other reasons and I agree it is the grossest thing! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353319 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 23:09:26 +0000 HLK208 2353319@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: don't hate me for this but that is hilarious 😂 I've never heard of a toddler doing that!!</p> <p>I'm sorry! No advice but I hope it improves! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353316 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 23:07:20 +0000 MrsSRS 2353316@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: or put her bottomless in a sweater and socks or leg warmers and don't crank the heat. As someone who wore a uniform skirt outside for years, I assure you leg insulation is not super important, assuming your house is above 40 degrees or so. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353281 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 22:27:06 +0000 mrskc 2353281@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Has she ever pooped in the toilet? </p> <p>I think your best bet is to go bottomless. We still have to do that with DS for him to not poop in his pull-up, underwear or pants. Commando doesn't work for him. He will just poop in his pants. Fun times when it just rolls out the pant leg and I find a turd on the floor. ugh </p> <p>The first couple times he pooped while he was bottomless, he pooped on the floor. He learned quickly tho and started going in the toilet after that. but ugh will still poop his pants. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353278 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 22:24:04 +0000 travelgirl1 2353278@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would definitely go commando. That was a game changer for my LO with poop. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353272 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 22:13:54 +0000 matador84 2353272@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Going commando or, when I had about had it with poop accidents, we bought tmnt undies that ds was obsessed with. All it took was one poop accident and me throwing the undies away (I don't scrub shit, literally!) for him to poop on the potty since! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353258 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 22:00:49 +0000 Mrs. D 2353258@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I"m sorry, but that is funny.</p> <p>I would be annoyed and disgusted too, but at least she's trying.</p> <p>I'm sure you've thought of rewarding her, so I don't have any suggestions. I bribed our daughter to finally poop on the potty, but she was refusing to do it anywhere but in a pull-up....</p> <p>Commando sounds like your best option here.</p> <p>What about bringing her to the washroom with you and have her seeing you pooping and making a big deal about how clean your panties are because you didn't poop in them?</p> <p>Or maybe just taking her to buy some "special" panties to help discourage her from staining them?</p> <p>Good luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2353247 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 21:53:11 +0000 littlecasita1122 2353247@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No advice, but you're totally not alone. We're so sick of poop in undies here, too! My son started potty training in early June (right before he turned 3) and he's FINALLY been going poop on the potty the last week consistently. Such a frustrating process. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2352218 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 11:10:01 +0000 sorrycharlie 2352218@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's soooo cold here! Gah.. Guess I'll be cranking the heat 😩 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2352209 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 11:08:13 +0000 Oxana 2352209@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh sorry, I said commando but I meant no bottoms. Derp. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2352207 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 11:06:39 +0000 Applesandbananas 2352207@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Agree with going to commando or totally no bottoms. LO trained over Labor Day weekend but has lost some interest and had been having a lot of accidents, so we've been doing bottomless at home and commando out and about. He wears underwear at daycare and does well with it there. He's always been really good about telling us about poop regardless, but pee he just doesn't care if he wets himself! This too shall pass... Right?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2352202 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 11:04:19 +0000 petunia354 2352202@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>bahahahahaha omg im so sorry for laughing. She is just so sassy and I love it. I have no advice because Owen still poops in his underwear and laughs about it in my face as I'm cleaning him up.</p> <p>What little stinkers we have!! Pun intended!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2352195 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 11:02:03 +0000 Oxana 2352195@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We followed the Oh Crap method, and I'm pretty sure the author would say to go back to commando until she gets it. It will be easier to catch her in the act of she tried popping on the floor. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-help-sos-so-much-sht#post-2352171 Wed, 11 Nov 2015 10:47:38 +0000 sorrycharlie 2352171@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DD1 is 3 years old and just potty trained a couple weeks ago. she is almost 100% pee trained. even wakes at night to pee. super.</p> <p>she poops every single poop in her underpants, then carefully dumps it into the toilet and is convinced this is pooping in the potty. OMG. I am so sick of poopy underpants!!!!!!! she either understands completely and doesn't give a crap (no pun intended) or truly thinks that's poop(ing) in the potty. </p> <p>there is no watching her for cues. I have a million things to do and also a mobile baby, so I never know until after she goes. HELP! tips??? </p>