https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 24 Apr 2026 21:52:07 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears/page/2#post-2399825 Thu, 24 Dec 2015 17:51:06 +0000 Alba4 2399825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: so scary!! You know this happened to me last week and it sucks. I've been on bedrest and was prescribed progesterone. Bleeding while pregnant is the worst. Try to take it easy!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears/page/2#post-2399680 Thu, 24 Dec 2015 12:07:12 +0000 dcw6411 2399680@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: thinking of you and hoping that the bleeding stops completely. I can only imagine how nerve racking that is. Hang in there. Sending lots of sticky baby thoughts your way! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears/page/2#post-2399592 Thu, 24 Dec 2015 10:04:41 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2399592@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: so glad to hear this! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears/page/2#post-2399560 Thu, 24 Dec 2015 09:36:46 +0000 runnerd 2399560@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@T.H.O.U.: @autumnleaves: thanks ladies. had ultrasound yesterday and baby was perfect, measured perfect, etc. No sign of cause bleeding!!!! And I'm 14 weeks today. </p> <p>I didn't see on-call doctor, just nurse who relayed report, and just got the "has nothing to do with your pregnancy, sometimes you just bleed" line. Ugh, and I am continuing to bleed today, though not as bad. it's super frustrating. I start to feel like a drama queen!! But trust me, I'm no stranger to bleeding in pregnancy so I only call when it's dramatic. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears/page/2#post-2399500 Thu, 24 Dec 2015 07:47:28 +0000 autumnleaves 2399500@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hope everything is ok! Thinking about you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears/page/2#post-2399492 Thu, 24 Dec 2015 07:13:52 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2399492@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: I hope everything is ok. Thinking about you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears/page/2#post-2397851 Wed, 23 Dec 2015 07:52:47 +0000 ValentineMommy 2397851@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: That's so scary, I'm sorry. Prayers that everything is ok.</p> <p>As a side note, I had an SCH with my last pregnancy, which was with my rainbow baby. He's a happy, chunky 5m old today. FX that this is your last bleed and that everything is alright. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2397843 Wed, 23 Dec 2015 07:46:29 +0000 bloved 2397843@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: I am so sorry! That is so stressful. I had a sch with this pregnancy too and even when logically you think that is what it is, it is still scary. Hopeful you get some reassurance soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2397835 Wed, 23 Dec 2015 07:23:52 +0000 Adira 2397835@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: Gahh, I'm sorry hon! Fingers crossed that everything turns out okay! &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2397834 Wed, 23 Dec 2015 07:16:53 +0000 runnerd 2397834@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Everyone's thoughts were so helpful last week! I so appreciated them! I managed to make it to Monday's appt where I heard the heartbeat on Doppler. I will be 14 weeks tomorrow, so started feeling much better, and we announced to the world Mon. OF COURSE, I wake up in the middle of the night tonigh to a gush of blood. I've been laying here wide a wake for nearly 2 hours, and just had a second gush of blood. I am counting down to when the OB office opens.</p> <p>I'm trying to stay calm, this is so so similar to when I bleed at 13.5 weeks with LO #1, and got diagnosed with SCH. </p> <p>I just want an easy non-complicated pregnancy! :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392882 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 17:44:41 +0000 Autumnmama79 2392882@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: From PAL mama to another, you're going to be great! Its a super nerve wracking time but it sounds like you've had nothing nothing but good scans. The only thing that helps me is the doppler, maybe you can order one too :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392773 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 16:13:10 +0000 jh524 2392773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: well congrats on your pregnancy! I also had early bleeding like you and the doctors didn't know why. I chalked it up to just over-doing it. I laid low for a week, no exercise, and it stopped and never returned. Dr. Checked everything and we never found out why. I'm now 22wks abs everything is going great. I know it's easier said than done but try not to worry. Modify your exercise until you feel 100%. Good luck!! I'm sure everything is just fine :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392749 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 16:00:45 +0000 avivoca 2392749@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: Deep breaths. Everything is going to be fine. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392745 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 15:59:06 +0000 runnerd 2392745@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mae: thanks! and hmmm i hadn't thought of it like that - maybe that bleed was everything coming out (since they didn't see anything causing a bleed in the uterus still) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392592 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 14:51:23 +0000 Raindrop 2392592@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a lot of bleeding!! Very similar to yours. I have an 10 month old right now from that pregnancy! </p> <p>EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OKAY!!! :) Good luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392587 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 14:50:01 +0000 Mae 2392587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First, congrats! I didn't know you were pregnant. :) </p> <p>Second, these things happen. My cousin had some extremely heavy bleeding with her second pregnancy that she thought was a miscarriage around 15 or 16 weeks. She went in and it turns out she had some kind of large blood clot (maybe not exactly what it was, but something similar) in her uterus next to her baby and part of it had come out. She had to take it very easy for a while and they kept an eye on it. It got bigger for a while then finally started getting smaller. Her daughter is now 5 months old and perfect :) I wonder if you had something similar but smaller so it just came out already? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392578 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 14:45:33 +0000 LindsayLou 2392578@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Can you call the nurse advice line and ask to come in today or tomorrow just to hear the heartbeat? I had a spotting incident at 16 weeks, and when I called, they had me come in just to see a nurse and hear the heartbeat. Did wonders for my peace of mind. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392545 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 14:33:30 +0000 GoGoSnoGirl 2392545@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hang in there! It will get easier. I bled heavily for one day early in my pregnancy (5w) after suffering a m/c at 6w2d the time before. I freaked out, cried, begged &amp; prayed I wasn't losing that pregnancy, too. Today I'm watching my beautiful baby girl bounce in her activity center. Bleeding IS super scary, but it doesn't always mean something is wrong. :goodluck: :heart: :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392520 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 14:26:55 +0000 mfa_lady 2392520@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking of you, mama! I'm sure that little stinker is just perfect in there. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392494 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 14:19:44 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2392494@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Also, hopefully you are very close to being able to feel the baby. That hopefully plus being in the second tri will reduce fears. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392483 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 14:13:40 +0000 Alivoo01 2392483@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I totally feel ya! We had a loss before DS, then a miscarriage earlier this year, and now pregnant with DD! You're out of the 1st trimester at least so put some stock in that! </p> <p>How do you feel about an at-home doppler? I thought about getting one so many times with this pregnancy because of the same fears you have. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392424 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 13:53:36 +0000 HLK208 2392424@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: hugs, mama! Do you think an at home Doppler would help put your mind at ease? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392416 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 13:51:32 +0000 FaithFertility 2392416@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: Ughh my heart broke for you reading this!<br /> It will be OK!!!!<br /> I can understand your fear, that must have been scary!!!!<br /> Maybe a home Doppler?!<br /> Try to relax and know all is well!!!!!<br /> ((Hugs)) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392400 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 13:43:33 +0000 runnerd 2392400@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@T.H.O.U.: they didn't see a sign of a SCH, but could only tell the bleeding had come from my uterus </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392375 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 13:35:46 +0000 futuremama 2392375@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: it'll be okay! I've been there too, and I'm along with you again. We both had healthy babes before and these ones are going to stick! I can feel it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392366 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 13:31:47 +0000 runnerd 2392366@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@struggleisreal: :heart: :heart: sending you good vibes for better sanity too. 1st tri sucks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392365 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 13:31:32 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2392365@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: I am so so so sorry. It is just so terrible to deal with. Did they bring up the possibility of a SCH? When I bled in pregnancy #3 after my prior 2 losses, I lost it but having that diagnoses actually helped a bit. </p> <p>Also, my OB was really good early on about letting me come in more frequently. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392362 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 13:31:14 +0000 runnerd 2392362@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you ladies - I would gladly welcome your dopplers to my home if we were neighbors :) @Ash: @catomd00: </p> <p>I decided to put a call into my OB's nurse. One of manufactured fears is that the placenta didn't attach properly and that's why I bled. No one has said anything about my placenta, but I had a small abruption w/DS so I guess that's where I came up with that. I'm hoping she can tell me they did check the placenta during the last ultrasound. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392340 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 13:22:10 +0000 struggleisreal 2392340@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs. I'm right here with you. Still incognito b/c I'm so nervous about losing current 7w pregnancy. Had my son with no prior MCs. Had an early loss then an ectopic before conceiving this time. I have lots of pregnancy symptoms, had good betas, and even saw and heard the heartbeat already. Yet I'm still so so nervous that this isn't real. I also used to get really anxious in the few days leading up to each appointment with my son. No real advice about overcoming that, but just wanted you to know you're not alone.</p> <p>You've got a major thing going for you: you're already 13w! Out of the highest risk of MC. One day at a time. And lots of distractions. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/please-reassure-me-1st-tri-fears#post-2392330 Thu, 17 Dec 2015 13:14:46 +0000 twodoghouse 2392330@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending you so much love and good vibes! :heart: :heart: </p>