https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 01 Jul 2026 14:06:47 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1540328 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 15:17:02 +0000 2PeasinaPod 1540328@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LulaBee: Blinders would have been ideal. It's just hard to face day after day. Sending lots of love your way :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1540012 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 13:50:32 +0000 rattles 1540012@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: hugs </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539983 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 13:43:23 +0000 avivoca 1539983@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539972 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 13:40:06 +0000 Cherrybee 1539972@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh its awful isn't it. One of my FB friends had a surprise pregnancy just after my mc - it was really hard to deal with. Sending you lots of hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539949 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 13:34:29 +0000 Mrsk 1539949@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss, I feel the same way, I have my d&amp;c last week, things still feel kinda surreal, but the littlest things will set me off. Hugs, hang in there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539720 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 11:59:52 +0000 lilteacherbee 1539720@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Big hugs!! Seeing that stuff after a loss is soooo hard. DH's cousin had a baby 2 days after my D&amp;C and I pretty much had a breakdown. I ended up taking a FB break around the time I would have been due because all the baby announcements were too hard.</p> <p>Oh, and the April Fools stuff pisses me off so bad. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539623 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 11:31:51 +0000 lovehoneybee 1539623@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LulaBee: Big hugs!</p> <p>A few weeks after I miscarried I found out that one of my neighbors was due on the same day I would have been, with a fourth child that she outright said she hadn't wanted. When my SIL told me I sat on the kitchen floor and burst into tears. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539604 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 11:26:07 +0000 LulaBee 1539604@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks, everyone. It's always so surprising to me how many women have gone through it before me... so now I'm thinking of all of you and sending you hugs. </p> <p>@2PeasinaPod: I know a Caribbean Island isn't the same as a beautiful baby.... but it does sound like a good (and much needed) distraction! There are a lot of pregnant women at my work right now... I wish I could wear blinders! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539363 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 10:10:45 +0000 2PeasinaPod 1539363@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. I couldn't handle pregnancy announcements after my first miscarriage. It took us so long to get pregnant and then once I was pregnant, I miscarried. I was just so sad. The two months we took "off" in between TTC after that, I had 10 women on my floor in various stages of pregnancy. It was killing me. So I made my DH take me on vacation to a beautiful Caribbean Island. </p> <p>The April Fools announcements make my blood boil. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539318 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 09:59:08 +0000 Radish 1539318@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry for your loss. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539243 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 09:38:33 +0000 LindsayInNY 1539243@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>((hugs)) A coworker (been here 6 months) is pregnant but hasn't told us yet. She's definitely far enough along to be showing though. That was my final straw after 16 months and one chemical pregnancy... Thinking of you &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539117 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 08:54:53 +0000 LovelyPlum 1539117@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tidybee: @LulaBee: hugs, Mamas :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539062 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 08:34:45 +0000 chibee 1539062@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ahhh I've been there. I endured my ex boyfriend's pregnancy announcement and a very close friend's announcement on facebook the weekend i had my D&amp;C - it was tough. Hang in there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539061 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 08:34:37 +0000 MaryM 1539061@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Major ((HUGS))</p> <p>I thought I was at a point where I was dealing ok with my MC...until a coworker came in with his newborn about a month later. I ended up locking myself in my office and sobbing. It can really be so hard!</p> <p>I hope things look up for you soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539043 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 08:29:09 +0000 mfa_lady 1539043@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel you! This was WAY harder for me than I expected after I miscarried--I've been really surprised by how much announcements affect me. I was really worried about seeing an April Fool's announcement yesterday--this month is when we would have been due--but luckily, this year, nobody on my feed did one. (At least not that I saw.)</p> <p>Hang in there, lady. Thinking of you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539030 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 08:25:55 +0000 blackbird 1539030@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>april fools announcements are tacky. talk about putting bad karma out into the world </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1539018 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 08:21:49 +0000 Beebug 1539018@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I deleted a friend off fb after an April Fool's announcement she did. No patience for that crap and clearly had never experienced a loss. </p> <p>I messaged her saying congrats and blah blah, poured my heart out on our previous loss and how we were preggo again but keeping secret because of the previous loss, but omg we're due two weeks apart, la la la. She felt awful, I probably over reacted, but I was hurt. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1538989 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 08:12:33 +0000 snowjewelz 1538989@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The April Fool's thing is really just not cool. I'm sorry you had to see that :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1538986 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 08:11:23 +0000 littlek 1538986@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tidybee: @LulaBee: hugs to both of you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1538978 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 08:08:55 +0000 Tidybee 1538978@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hear ya. I've had 2 pregnancy announcements due right at the same time as I would have been. It really does feel like ripping the wound open all over again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1538972 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 08:06:38 +0000 mrsjyw 1538972@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>hugs :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/pregnancy-announcements-after-a-loss#post-1538955 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 07:56:43 +0000 LulaBee 1538955@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A coworker just announced he and his wife are expecting baby #2... just lost my LO #2 (and had a D&amp;C) a couple of weeks ago. I was really doing okay emotionally this week, but this feels like a punch in the gut. </p> <p>Also, someone I know posted on FB an April Fool's pregnancy announcement. Just not cool, people.</p> <p>Sorry for the vent! </p>