https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 23 Aug 2026 22:35:22 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790378 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 19:46:31 +0000 sorrycharlie 1790378@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't want guests to feel obligated, but if they did ask for ideas, I would gladly give some. I would feel weird about posting without any requests..I did a facebook event last year for my LO's first birthday, and a friend posted, "what size is she? what is she into?" so I gave a few ideas there. but I wasn't randomly like, "hey guys - new puzzle idea!!" lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790309 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 18:45:08 +0000 fairy 1790309@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's definitely not the norm! I figured that people would want to bring a gift, but I only gave ideas if they asked, and I told them that they weren't necessary. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790279 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 18:18:54 +0000 Smurfette 1790279@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I suggested things to family when they asked what she needed/wanted but I would never post a list on FB! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790272 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 18:15:51 +0000 Mrs. Tiger 1790272@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Someone I know registered at toys r us for her 1yo's birthday, I thought that was over the top. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790255 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 17:58:27 +0000 MsLipGloss 1790255@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't expect gifts. If you're invited to the party, it's because it's something I want to share with you. Parties aren't about gifts, they're about friends, family, and celebrating life! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790248 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 17:54:59 +0000 JerricaBenton 1790248@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Well I would definitely bring a present to any birthday party, regardless of age, so I would expect guests to bring a present to LO. I wouldn't be upset if someone didn't though, and I would never make special requests. Sounds like your friend is getting a little carried away but I'd still bring a gift in my price range. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790236 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 17:44:57 +0000 Mrs. Oatmeal 1790236@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For my LO's first birthday this weekend, I requested no gifts, because I know she will be spoiled by her grandparents, and we really just want people to come celebrate.<br /> That being said, I definitely would not 'post' gift suggestions or anything- I would only suggest things if I was asked outright. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790234 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 17:42:59 +0000 Cole 1790234@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I suppose I would be surprised if I threw a birthday party for a child and no one brought gifts but I feel like birthday gifts are more of fun things someone picked out to help celebrate, not a life transition where you try to help people get ready for the next stage in life (like showers usually are). All that to say, the gift ideas showing up a lot on Facebook would bug me. I would simply but what I thought appropriate and ignore her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790226 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 17:36:59 +0000 Skadi 1790226@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yikes. That it is a FB event makes it seem especially impersonal, too. What is she asking for? I can't imagine that a one year old even needs that much, you know? I mean, if the family is struggling and specifically asked for diapers, clothes, etc. I would understand (then again, hosting a party isn't cheap).</p> <p>I don't expect gifts, but as a guest I don't mind if I'm given a few ideas because I wouldn't want to bring something they already have. I think with our LO, we are going to do "book parties" where gifts are not expected but if someone wants to bring a children's book with a special message written in the inside cover, they can. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790220 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 17:34:30 +0000 Bao 1790220@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@autumnlove: exactly this! I'm not upset if someone doesn't bring one though but will suggest ideas if asked. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790215 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 17:29:42 +0000 autumnlove 1790215@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do expect gifts at my LO's birthday parties but I'm not upset if someone doesn't bring one. I share wish lists or suggestions if someone asks for the info but I would never make it part of the invite. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/presents-at-a-1st-birthday#post-1790199 Wed, 30 Jul 2014 17:15:13 +0000 CraftyMom13 1790199@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was invited to a friends LO's first birthday via facebook event. She seems to be posting tons of gift ideas for her LO and some not so cheap ideas. Almost daily she post a new request. I'm honestly a little put off by this. Is this the "norm"? When having a party do you expect attendees to bring a gift? Maybe I'm weird but I never expect a gift and honestly do not want any guest to feel obligated to buy my child something. Thoughts? </p>