https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 12 Apr 2026 00:10:14 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355455 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 21:52:21 +0000 travelgirl1 1355455@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I need cool off time, DH wants sex, ha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355438 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 21:47:10 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1355438@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're very bounce back quick type of people. Actually, he hardly ever gets worked up at all anyways. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355432 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 21:46:00 +0000 MrsScallop 1355432@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We both usually bounce back, even though there are times I would like some time. He can be pretty good at getting me to bounce back though :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355398 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 21:33:01 +0000 chopsuey 1355398@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We both bounce back pretty quickly. Haha. We can't stay mad long because we laugh when we look at each other.<br /> :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355392 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 21:31:21 +0000 doodlepoodle 1355392@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It really depends on what sparked the argument. If it was something I did (especially if it's something I knew I shouldn't have said/done) then I need more time to sulk in my own skin but I want HIM to bounce back so I know things are okay asap so I don't have any more guilt. </p> <p>If it's something he did, I can usually bounce back. I have a very forgiving personality, which actually leads to a lot of issues getting worse because I just ignore things in my passive way and then they become bigger issues in the end. Wah. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355379 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 21:28:11 +0000 snowjewelz 1355379@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We both need a ill time, he has a bigger temper but once he is done he is good so I usually wait for him to calm down and reach out to me. I sulk for longer haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355375 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 21:27:42 +0000 BananaPancakes 1355375@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I bounce back but he needs time. I think it drives both of us nuts. I just really like to get things hashed out and to make up ASAP, where he likes to stew for a while. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355223 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:46:36 +0000 Freckles 1355223@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoJoGirl: I am the same!! Once I have said my piece I can bounce back whereas DH needs time to chill. It makes me soooo anxious! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355200 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:41:21 +0000 JoJoGirl 1355200@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow this is such a good question, I thought we were the only ones with this dichotomy! I need everything to be okay ASSOONASPOSSIBLE so the second the argument is over I'm trying to be all chatty and lovey. DH needs time in a SERIOUS way to cool off, process, be alone etc, which drives me insane. It's a constant battle of him asking me for space, which just makes me nervous that he's still angry or something, when I've moved on. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355150 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:30:32 +0000 bisous 1355150@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Depends on the magnitude of the argument, but I am normally pretty quick to move on. He is too, I guess, but he will stay a little cold. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355147 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:29:31 +0000 PawPrints 1355147@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're very fast. If I'm really pissed off, I'll need about five minutes. Normally it's no time at all. This continually amazes me and has me convinced I'm pretty damn lucky to have found my DH because I am otherwise a very stubborn person. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355143 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:28:04 +0000 cmomma17 1355143@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I need so much time. He's super bouncy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355133 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:25:55 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1355133@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When we rub each other the wrong way I bounce back pretty quickly, but I don't necessarily want to hold his hand. My husband needs a bit more time and wants me to notice hus sulking. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355116 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:22:32 +0000 mrsjazz 1355116@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Littlebit: Haha. That does not sound like fun! I think I would just sit in a ball underneath a comforter so that he got the point :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355112 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:21:16 +0000 mrsjazz 1355112@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@IRunForFun: It's good that you respect his need for space. My DH is hit or miss with this concept.</p> <p>@MrsH: Even with resolution sometimes I just need to sit still. I tell DH my feelings aren't like a faucet. It's hard to turn off anger or annoyance for me.</p> <p>@cyndistar3: Bottle that and sell it to me. I wish I could be like that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355086 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:18:22 +0000 Littlebit 1355086@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I need time, and space. He is super clingy after a fight and it drives me nuts. It usually makes the fight 10x worse. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355079 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:17:46 +0000 mrsjazz 1355079@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Weagle: My DH can talk about an issue forever and ever. I think I've fallen asleep during a conversation once.</p> <p>@rahlyrah: Yup, the second argument has happened plenty of times because DH still doesn't understand the concept of space!</p> <p>@mediagirl: You are my DH! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355055 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:12:56 +0000 lawbee11 1355055@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I need time. DH bounces back. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355052 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:12:25 +0000 mediagirl 1355052@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm all "let's have makeup sex" and he's all, "don't touch me." Meh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355042 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:10:28 +0000 cyndistar3 1355042@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We rarely argue to the point of anyone needing time, typically when we argue we get over it pretty fast. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355033 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:09:04 +0000 sorrycharlie 1355033@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>haha it depends what we were arguing about. i need about 5-10 minutes to cool down, then I usually get over it. usually. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355029 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:08:22 +0000 MrsStar 1355029@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I always need space. I deal with things by thinking them over by myself, then I go to dh when I'm ready. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355028 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:08:15 +0000 Mae 1355028@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Depends. Sometimes on smaller arguments we don't really talk it out, we both just need a little time to simmer down and then we're fine. But usually if we argue we talk through whatever we're pissed about and by the time the discussion is over we're cuddling. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355026 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:08:08 +0000 photojane 1355026@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're opposite! I'm a bounce back, and he needs time. So, I just apologize and go to another room until he's chilled out &amp; back to normal. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355021 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:07:11 +0000 hilsy85 1355021@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I need time...I don't hold grudges but I sometimes need some time to just be mad. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355017 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:06:45 +0000 Ra 1355017@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I need time. DH bounces back. Unfortunately, this sometimes leads into a second argument. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355014 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:06:01 +0000 Weagle 1355014@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I need time. He bounces back, but often wants to continue talking about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355008 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:05:00 +0000 MrsH 1355008@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I need resolution, so long as there is resolution I am fine. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355007 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:04:56 +0000 Synchronicity 1355007@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We both need our space to bounce back. I sometimes let my temper get the best of me, and then he knows it's cool down time or I'm likely to say something not-so-nice and regret it later. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/recovering-from-arguments-bounceback-or-need-time#post-1355002 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 20:04:20 +0000 IRunForFun 1355002@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm a bounce back, I just want to put it behind us. He needs time, though, and I try to respect that. </p>