https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 06 May 2026 10:12:26 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1430302 Mon, 17 Feb 2014 23:17:19 +0000 Kate6214 1430302@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just saw this update. I'm glad you passed everything and did not need a D&amp;C. Don't feel guilty. You can feel whatever you need to feel. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1415418 Tue, 11 Feb 2014 15:49:59 +0000 MaryM 1415418@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Update...the mass on Friday was the sac. Had my follow up today and it looks like a complete miscarriage (sonogram showed very little residual bleeding). </p> <p>So now I'm a pin cushion for a few weeks, but overall, feeling much better (mentally and physically). </p> <p>I'm so relieved...but sort of guilty for being relieved! I'm just so happy to no longer hear "wait and see"! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1407798 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 15:12:39 +0000 2PeasinaPod 1407798@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: The fact that you passed something that was plum sized and something "huge" just now slid out of you would be cause enough for me to go to the ER. Big clotting like that should not be happening, and your doctor needs to get you in for a D&amp;C. It's just crazy to me that they're making you wait. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1407797 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 15:11:52 +0000 MaryM 1407797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm not bleeding heavy, so as long as that stays at bay I'll wait til the tests on Tuesday. I asked last time if I should call and they said only if I was gushing blood or in unbearable pain. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1407779 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 15:04:40 +0000 Crystal 1407779@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: I really really hope that was it. Hugs. </p> <p>Can you call the dr to get in? How's the bleeding? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1407613 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 14:08:52 +0000 MaryM 1407613@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Totally tmi... But something huge slid out of me. Hoping that's it! </p> <p>I never thought I'd be releived...but maybe that's why it's taken so long? To make it easier to not be as upset? </p> <p>But I'm trying not to get my hopes up since I previously had a clot just as big. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1407536 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 13:28:21 +0000 Ginabean3 1407536@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry you're going through this. Thinking about you! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1407517 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 13:17:35 +0000 Crystal 1407517@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: Having an MC and TTC made me pray for many things I never thought I would! </p> <p>How are you feeling? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1407513 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 13:14:05 +0000 MaryM 1407513@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: thank you (again!)</p> <p>The good doctor is on call today, so I'm sort of hoping things get way worse. I'm just starting to get cramps again, but all morning was perfectly fine and not even spotting.</p> <p>Never in my life did I think I'd be praying to get to go to the ER! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1407201 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 11:37:53 +0000 Crystal 1407201@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: Oh, hun. I am so so so so so sorry. All the hugs and healing vibes in the world are being sent your way... </p> <p>Waiting is the absolute worst part. Like @delight said, its a never ending battle of wait and see. </p> <p>Can you call the Good Dr and see what he says? Or can you only talk to the nurses? I just can't believe they are dragging it out this long!!!! </p> <p>I did have really bad cramps 4 days before my MC actually started (I had some light spotting before then), so FX it means things are on their way...</p> <p>Lots and lots of love and hugs. ♥ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1407161 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 11:28:03 +0000 psw27 1407161@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1407113 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 11:15:03 +0000 Alivoo01 1407113@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you're going through this! *hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1406401 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 08:26:39 +0000 delight 1406401@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: I think going for a long, fast walk, brought mine on finally. It's not a good situation to be in. Sorry :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1406395 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 08:24:57 +0000 MaryM 1406395@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@delight: thank you for sharing. Your story gives me some hope. I came home from class early last night with horrendous cramps thinking it was finally going to happen. </p> <p>Nope. Not even spotting today. Ugh.</p> <p>At this point I don't care if it happens naturally, I just want it to happen! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1406371 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 08:17:08 +0000 Mrs. Confetti 1406371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Kate6214: I am so sorry to hear it. I have been a bit absent over here on HB since my loss and am heartbroken to hear about your loss</p> <p>@MaryM: I am so sorry for your loss. I just had a d and c last week, and if I were you, I would find a new doctor for your future ttc experience. It sounds like your current practice is incredibly insensitive to all that you are going through. When I found out I had a missed MC, then had me in within less than 24 hrs for surgery (which still sucked but was able to give me some closure much faster, which helped tremendously) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1406369 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 08:17:01 +0000 Dandelion 1406369@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aw, I'm so sorry. :( Waiting is the hardest thing in a situation like this. I know you just want to get it over and move on. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1406346 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 08:07:01 +0000 Ash 1406346@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry! I can sort of relate. I miscarried over a year ago and was in limbo for almost 2 weeks before my body took care of things on its own. There was nothing worse than wondering if and when it was going to happen. *hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1406285 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 07:49:57 +0000 bushelandapeck 1406285@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: so sorry you are having to go through this and that you are in limbo. I miscarried in November and had no idea how long the whole process would take. I hope your able to get some closure soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1406258 Fri, 07 Feb 2014 07:28:07 +0000 delight 1406258@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry you are going through this, the wait is unbearable. My first pregnancy ended in a mc. After repeat betas that weren't rising appropriately, I was told I'd miscarry, this was at 5w. It took 2.5 weeks for my body to finally mc naturally, and those were the longest weeks of my life. It got so bad that at the end I was googling ways to bring the mc on because I was so frustrated and just wanted to get on with my life. I had two nights of bad cramping before the night of the actual mc so I had an idea it was on the way. It just seems like the whole TTC process is one big wait. Waiting to O, waiting for your period, waiting for beta results, waiting to find out if baby is ok....<br /> Like I said, I'm sorry you have it go through this. I totally understand the frustration. I wish you all the best in the future. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404627 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 17:09:32 +0000 MaryM 1404627@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Kate6214: Thank you Kate. I'm really sorry you're going through this too. Especially for the second time. Lots of hugs for you too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404609 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 17:03:18 +0000 Kate6214 1404609@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. I had my second D&amp;C today. With my first they were able to schedule me in the next day. This time I asked to wait because I wanted time to get things ready at work. If they see anything on Tuesday push them hard to get you in. You are your own best advocate. I have never had any bleeding prior to mine so I can't give you any advice there. Just hugs. Lots and lots of hugs. They never tell you how much you are going to be in limbo. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404340 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 15:51:53 +0000 MaryM 1404340@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@T.H.O.U.: Unfortunately not. They're not set up to do them in the office. I'd have to then make an appointment for surgery.</p> <p>But their surgery scheduling is a PITA because they schedule you with who is on call at the hospital, and because they're on call, they can only schedule a certain number of their hours to be in surgery (and not be available for L&amp;D). </p> <p>I only hope that if I still have tissue in me, and we're going on three weeks of this process at that time, that they might consider my case a little more of an emergency at that time and work me in SOON with whoever is on call.</p> <p>DH's bosses have also been great about making sure he can be at my appointments, but they're starting to get a little more frustrated with him having to move things around. They have to pick up his missed shifts. So if something has to be done next week, I'm really hoping they can squeeze me in on Wednesday since Wednesday and Thursday will be DH's days off. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404332 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 15:49:58 +0000 Mrs. Sketchbook 1404332@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry to hear this! I wish I had some insight. Prayers for peace.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404323 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 15:47:58 +0000 T.H.O.U. 1404323@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: Well it sounds like no matter what you will have to wait until Tuesday. It sounds like there they will do bloodwork and an ultrasound to confirm there is still no active growth but also that there is still tissue that needs to be removed. Assuming that is the case, they will go ahead and do the D&amp;C that tuesday? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404293 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 15:37:18 +0000 mrs. tictactoe 1404293@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. Waiting was the hardest part for me, too. Lots of hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404276 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 15:31:33 +0000 mrsjyw 1404276@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry you're going through this, I hope it resolves soon and you are able to heal and move on. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404266 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 15:28:37 +0000 birdofafeather 1404266@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry for your loss and being stuck in a holding pattern. I hope you get a resolution soon. Big hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404163 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 15:04:10 +0000 MaryM 1404163@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>As of the last appointment, there was no thought at all that anything was viable (the sac was no longer round and was moving toward my cervix). So they don't really need a definitive answer of what's going on...they know.</p> <p>It's just that since I haven't bled heavily or had horrible cramping they don't see it as an emergency so we're still waiting. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404149 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 15:02:07 +0000 MaryM 1404149@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you all</p> <p>Even if I push for a D&amp;C, unless it was an emergency procedure, I wouldn't be able to get it done until after the appointment on Tuesday.</p> <p>They took blood at my last visit, so the purpose of Tuesdays is to make sure the levels are going down or are at 0 (and a sono to confirm the same). </p> <p>I'm just fearful we're pushing off the inevitable once again and like this process is never going to end.</p> <p>I'm so sick of hearing people say "wait and see"</p> <p>I didn't mind it at first, because in the beginning it provided hope that something ok could happen. Now that we're passed that, I'm just so over it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/request-for-support-mc-sorryits-a-bit-long#post-1404137 Thu, 06 Feb 2014 15:00:01 +0000 pui 1404137@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:( I don't have any advice, I just wanted to offer you some hugs. </p>