https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 02 Jun 2026 23:08:22 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sad-about-abstaining#post-570149 Sat, 16 Feb 2013 14:16:05 +0000 Cherrybee 570149@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aaw hugs. Waiting to try made me crazy!! I badgered my hubby til he gave in!!! You never know, he may agree on an earlier date as a compromise or if not don't worry the end of the year will be here before you know it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sad-about-abstaining#post-570101 Sat, 16 Feb 2013 13:30:17 +0000 lemondrop 570101@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Whenever the time its right for your family, #2 will be just as special regardless of the date. </p> <p>It is hard to be faithful to your original plans when your hormones are screaming, "knock me up!" What helped me was to read the posts on pregnancy misery- since I'd already forgotten most of that ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sad-about-abstaining#post-570066 Sat, 16 Feb 2013 12:34:58 +0000 LaughLines 570066@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>we're waiting to TTC, too.. which sometimes make me sad. I do feel like we're ready enough and could make everything work now, but DH wants to wait. Some of the reasons I agree with, but sometimes I just want to go ahead and try anyway. We're mostly waiting for money reasons as well as waiting for our friends to have babies, too since we don't want to be the first ones. BUT, we are financially fine, but his point is we could be better (but you could always be better) and sometimes I think it doesn't matter when our friends have kids... we can't wait on other people </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sad-about-abstaining#post-569744 Fri, 15 Feb 2013 23:02:15 +0000 HidingBee 569744@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@derevival: thanks. I think I know it's best we wait, but it's so hard knowing that we could have been pregnant this month, and even worse knowing we could have had a special date to remember it by. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sad-about-abstaining#post-569715 Fri, 15 Feb 2013 22:38:50 +0000 derevival 569715@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It is definitely going to be hard to wait! Talk with your husband if you feel strongly about changing the date. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sad-about-abstaining#post-569571 Fri, 15 Feb 2013 21:02:18 +0000 HidingBee 569571@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just want to vent</p> <p>I'm so ready to try for #2, but DH and I agreed that we would wait until the end of the year to start. Well, I ovulated yesterday and we had to abstain. But I can't help but think of how neat it would have been to have a Valentine's baby, especially since my other LO was a honeymoon baby. Booooo </p>