https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 02 May 2026 10:30:29 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293824 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 14:10:06 +0000 Mae 2293824@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If I'm around he'll ask me for suggestions on what to feed her. But he knows when she eats and naps and goes to bed and when to change her diaper. And if I'm not around he does just fine feeding her :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293802 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 13:53:10 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 2293802@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He knows it all and provides meals just as well as I could. </p> <p>I can't imagine him forgetting that our kid needs to eat! He does sometimes try to stretch things close to nap (like a non-quick drive at 1130 that would cause a car nap and then no nap) but he knows the schedule and sticks to it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293797 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 13:46:03 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 2293797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He used to not get it at all. Always wanting to gout at like 1230 when nap time is in 30 minutes but now he knows. I don't even need to leave instruction anymore when I leave her with him. Shes 2. The 4 month old is a different story.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293795 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 13:45:13 +0000 hilsy85 2293795@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He has a pretty good idea. But I hear you on feeling like the fun police--I am always the one shooting down ideas about going out or changing his schedule because I feel like it would lead to crankiness or tantrums. I have tried to loosen up recently (with mixed results!). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293793 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 13:42:49 +0000 Foodnerd81 2293793@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Anagram: yeah she ends up getting pouches a lot when I'm not there for a meal. She will eat other things but then also ask for a pouch because she likes them and he's like, ok sure! I save them for when we are out or in a rush but whatever. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293788 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 13:41:03 +0000 Anagram 2293788@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He knows when she naps and eats but doesn't actually make her any meal except breakfast without asking me what to give her. It's like he's incapable of looking in the fridge and freezer himself to create a meal for her </p> <p>If I'm gone, he gives her oatmeal or eggs or meatballs for dinner. Those 3 things are all he knows, haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293706 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 12:25:30 +0000 Foodnerd81 2293706@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BlueWolverine: I would like to think if we both woh he would be more aware, but since I'm the one always home with her, he just doesn't think about it. And I'm not asking for anything major just general awareness. Honestly even if we both woh he would probably be the same way though, so good for your DH. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293702 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 12:21:57 +0000 BlueWolverine 2293702@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We both WOH and DH is totally on top of the schedule. He knows naptime, bedtime, etc. This thread makes me proud of him? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293696 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 12:20:01 +0000 Alivoo01 2293696@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: LOL!!! Seriously right?!</p> <p>@MoreCoffee: Ditto! We both work WOH FT, and DH has a general idea of what DS's schedule is, but rarely sticks to it. It drives me batty sometimes. I'm like it's 9pm, let's go to bed!! This is DS's bedtime. While DH will just lay on the couch and be like okay, but doesn't move. Arg! Bc DS won't go to sleep unless everyone is going to sleep too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293651 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 11:47:11 +0000 MoreCoffee 2293651@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We both WOH and while DH is definitely aware of DS's schedule, if I'm around he rarely initiates sticking to that schedule. 99% of the time I'll make the moves to get DS's food, herd him upstairs for nap/bath/bed, whatever. It drives me a little nuts but I'm also much more Type A and regimented than he is. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293628 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 11:39:41 +0000 Foodnerd81 2293628@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cherrybee: the eating thing seems way more obvious. I mean, don't most people eat breakfast lunch and dinner?? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293626 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 11:37:33 +0000 Cherrybee 2293626@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We both WOH FT but my DH is completely aware of her nap schedule. He's not so good at remembering when she needs to eat, or more accurately THAT she needs to eat!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293515 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 10:34:51 +0000 2PeasinaPod 2293515@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: I WAH 2 days/week, and this actually drives me nuts about my FIL. Every week, LO goes down at the same exact time...1:30. FIL has been watching LO every Monday since he was super little, and he's been napping at 1:30 for a year. He STILL doesn't understand that he needs to go down at 1:30. Nor does he remember that he eats lunch at noon. It drives me batty. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293506 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 10:27:55 +0000 Foodnerd81 2293506@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BandDmommy: yeah, I am not even that strict that it happens at 1 on the dot or anything. But he knows she takes an afternoon nap. So why wouldn't it be clear that if we have morning plans, she will nap after? Meh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293502 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 10:25:42 +0000 BandDmommy 2293502@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm a WAHM but DD is home with me, DS at school. No, it doesn't bother me that DH doesn't know exactly when she naps. He has a vague general idea of when her 2 naps are but not the exact timing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sahp-is-your-so-on-top-of-los-schedule#post-2293499 Thu, 17 Sep 2015 10:24:17 +0000 Foodnerd81 2293499@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If you SAH (and really even if you don't!) is your SO on top of your LO's schedule, like nap times, meal or snack times? </p> <p>I stay home with C, so obviously I am way more attuned to her schedule, but DH drives me crazy with what he just doesn't think about. Like, his brother wanted to take her on an outing on Sunday. I said we had a bday party in the morning but nothing in the afternoon. Then today he somehow was confused that the party would go until nap time, then she would need a nap, so they couldn't go out until after nap. I am still confused by how this wasn't obvious? I don't expect him to know every detail but she has napped around 1 for months and months? </p> <p>Just drives me crazy because then t feels like I'm the fun police keeping us from doing things because of silly things like she needs to nap or eat. </p>