https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 05 May 2026 04:23:44 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2375599 Wed, 02 Dec 2015 12:20:54 +0000 struggleisreal 2375599@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@futuremama: Awwww, that's great news! I hope you continue to have a happy and healthy pregnancy :) :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2375548 Wed, 02 Dec 2015 12:01:46 +0000 futuremama 2375548@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@struggleisreal: I'm 8w3d after multiple losses. We were able to see the heartbeat right before thanksgiving. None of my losses ever made it that far, only my DD who is 20 months. Hoping that's a good sign and wishing for good bloodwork for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2375542 Wed, 02 Dec 2015 11:58:28 +0000 struggleisreal 2375542@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Alba4: Oops, sorry for the delayed thank you! The "one day at a time" and "you are pregnant today" mantras have been working for me. I really appreciate the support here.</p> <p>@Autumnmama79: And another oops, sorry for the delayed response. I'm sorry you've been going through something similar. How far along are you now?</p> <p>I got my first beta done on Monday and am going again today for the second draw. The dr gave me my results and said that my first number looks good! It's much better than what it was around the same time for each loss, so I guess that's good?? Obviously we'll know more after today -- praying for doubling or near-doubling. If that goes well, then I get an early ultrasound.</p> <p>Still scared to relax and enjoy the pregnancy. I just don't want to get too attached if it's another loss.</p> <p>How are you? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2373143 Mon, 30 Nov 2015 13:53:25 +0000 Autumnmama79 2373143@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@struggleisreal: Our situations are not that dissimilar then. Lo1 was also a first try baby and we've had two losses while trying for number 2 :crying: We are pg now and every single day has been a worry. </p> <p>How are you feeling today? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2371483 Sat, 28 Nov 2015 06:37:50 +0000 Alba4 2371483@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I totally get it. I'm just trying to stay positive, because it is all out of our hands. One day at a time!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2371104 Fri, 27 Nov 2015 12:58:03 +0000 struggleisreal 2371104@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrsk: @Keybee: @Mrs. D: Thanks so much, ladies. I really appreciate the support. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370786 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 20:35:49 +0000 Mrs. D 2370786@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Good Luck! Please don't stress. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370781 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 20:33:19 +0000 Keybee 2370781@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Good luck! A pregnancy after a loss can be scary. Sending good wishes!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370766 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 20:20:12 +0000 Mrsk 2370766@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I totally understand. I had two mc before my sticky baby. It was so hard, so many mixed emotions when I was pregnant after my losses. On one hand you are excited, but then on the other you are gaurded so as not to get your hopes up. Every baby deserves to be excited about. Try to keep telling yourself that for today you are pregnant and that is a wonderful thing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370761 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 20:15:57 +0000 struggleisreal 2370761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@auggiefrog: Congrats on the little one on the way and sorry about your previous loss. @Alivoo01: Thanks, ladies. I'm sorry about your losses, too.</p> <p>@Autumnmama79: Thanks so much for chiming in. I already have a preschooler, and I honestly didn't have trouble conceiving or staying pregnant with him. I assumed it would be similar for #2, but it's been a year of trying and 2 losses. So I'm adjusting to this new reality. Will keep repeating "one day at a time." I hope this one sticks. Thanks again for chiming in. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370702 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 17:41:07 +0000 Autumnmama79 2370702@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It is really scary :bummed: Theres not much one can do other than take it one little day at a time. Just make it through the end of the day, every day and you'll be fine. Good luck, its a long many months of worry and then many years of worry as a parent. (((HUGS))) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370701 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 17:35:38 +0000 Alivoo01 2370701@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've had prior losses so I understand what you're feeling. Hugs. Just wanted to send you sticky baby dust! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370691 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 16:50:13 +0000 auggiefrog 2370691@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I understand what you are going through. I got my first BFP last Thanksgiving, just to have to go through a rough miscarriage right before Christmas.<br /> I am pregnant again, but this time quite a bit farther along, at 20 weeks. We've had a rough time with test results, and the experience of the last holidays makes me even more fearful that something might go wrong. My goal is to enjoy this Christmas season, and to try and put last year behind me. And enjoy being pregnant.<br /> The first few weeks of this pregnancy were the worst. I was convinced I would MC again, even though there were no real signs. I hope you can get past this time, and you can get your rainbow baby later this summer. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370681 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 16:19:38 +0000 struggleisreal 2370681@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugsmama: Awww, I'm sorry for your loss. Thanks for your good thoughts. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370678 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 15:59:22 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2370678@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel for you. I had my miscarriage on thanksgiving two years ago! Sending you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370670 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 15:46:16 +0000 struggleisreal 2370670@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@regberadaisy: @Mrs.Waffles: Thanks so much. I guess I could really just use a crystal ball :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370657 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 14:49:57 +0000 Mrs.Waffles 2370657@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wishing you the best. And try not to worry. I know it's hard. Maybe, just focus on the holiday right now and enjoying yourself. Take care. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370656 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 14:43:21 +0000 regberadaisy 2370656@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending sticky thoughts your way! Happy thanksgiving! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/scared-of-another-loss#post-2370654 Thu, 26 Nov 2015 14:38:32 +0000 struggleisreal 2370654@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Happy Thanksgiving, everyone. I just realized when I found out about my new pregnancy on Nov 24, that it was exactly 1 year since I had found out about another pregnancy that ended up being a chemical pregnancy. It was right before Thanksgiving, and I spent the holiday so excited to be pregnant....only to lose it a week later. So now I'm pregnant, and it's Thanksgiving, and I'm so worried it will again be a loss -- for no other reason than I had that loss and another in the last year. Crazy déjà vu. I get to have blood work on Monday and will take it from there. I just wish I could relax and enjoy being pregnant today.</p> <p>Thanks for reading. </p>