https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 09 Apr 2026 04:19:18 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-713999 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 08:30:53 +0000 Mrs Green Grass 713999@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Go with the opk. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-713918 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 06:31:46 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 713918@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh! I didn't get my temp take yesterday cause I was up most of the night with my god daughter &amp; would have discarded it anyways. So now FF says I O'd on cd 12 &amp; not 14 when I had a positive opk. I had a very small thermal shift last month as well so I dont know what to believe! Any guess? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-705081 Wed, 10 Apr 2013 11:29:28 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 705081@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs.Someone: I'm considering getting him a massage tonight to see if it helps. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-704359 Wed, 10 Apr 2013 08:18:46 +0000 Mrs.Someone 704359@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sugar.Biscuit: You're still in the running! You can't get a positive OPK if you've already O'd, and you wouldn't have an LH surge afterwards either since its the LH that causes O. So you'll likely O in the next 24-48 hrs. Hope your DH feels good enough for some fun times! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-704348 Wed, 10 Apr 2013 08:15:55 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 704348@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm wondering if I don't get my Lh surge till right at or after O cause my OPK showed nothing yesterday AM or PM &amp; then BOOM high fertility this AM. </p> <p>This happened last month too. I have the CB advanced smiley face OpK &amp; it skips over the medium alert that is suppose to indicate that LH is starting to rise &amp; goes straight to the high alert for the big surge. </p> <p>Idk next month I want to do it before &amp; after O if we can. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-704308 Wed, 10 Apr 2013 08:03:08 +0000 pui 704308@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sugar.Biscuit: So sorry you are going through this... This is incredibly rough on the both of you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-704249 Wed, 10 Apr 2013 07:21:57 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 704249@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: I was thinking I already O'd too. This is so frustrating! I'm doing everything I can to make this easier for DH &amp; now he feels like a failure because he can't preform...again. I just want to cry but I can't because I have to go pick up my rental, take DH to the dr for his seizures, take him to work &amp; go to work myself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-704241 Wed, 10 Apr 2013 07:17:29 +0000 marionberry 704241@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sugar.Biscuit: Try having sex in the next 24 hours if your DH is up to it. Given your big temp jump I'm worried you may have already ovulated, but I got pregnant after o and you can too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-704195 Wed, 10 Apr 2013 06:12:48 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 704195@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Temp spike today, +opk &amp; Dh hurts :-( last time I dryed up right away. Ugh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-704073 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 23:17:11 +0000 SAHM0811 704073@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Do you have an OPK to use? I see a negative result charted... can you test again tomorrow? If you are having EWCM, I would recommend sex at least every other day during having EWCM. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-704042 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 22:28:53 +0000 Grace 704042@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd probably wait. Having sex 'cause you have to isn't fun. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-703930 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 21:15:16 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 703930@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow between my phone and this glass of wine I spell worse than a 1st grader! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-703838 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 20:28:08 +0000 avivoca 703838@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would maybe wait until tomorrow. We DTD at O-1 and O+1 and got pregnant. That cycle I didn't have crazy CM either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-703814 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 20:21:16 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 703814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@artbee: I've been lacking in CM over the last fee months. I have stretchy CM that was cloudy yesterday &amp; very little CM today that was streatchy but clear which is what creighton calls fertile cm. But there is very little CM if its not stretchy its cloudy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-703800 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 20:15:59 +0000 Mrs Green Grass 703800@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You never know until after which is the lame thing about charting. And not everyone has a dip before ( most don't). How regular is your cycle? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-703786 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 20:11:45 +0000 MrsH 703786@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd wait for the am. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-703777 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 20:10:03 +0000 heffalump 703777@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just wrote a post about getting pregnant the day after you o and many bees have. Personally I would wait until morning if your dh feels better then. Have you checked your cm? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-703768 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 20:05:34 +0000 chopsuey 703768@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I never charted so no advice, but bumping! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/should-we-be-doing-it#post-703653 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 19:21:17 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 703653@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH suffers from chronic pain so it's important to time things right. I know we are SO CLOSE to O &amp; we really want to do it but DH hurts bad enough that he wants to try doing it in the AM. Probably O tomorrow but I don't want to miss out &amp; neither does DH. Our dip wasn't very big last month so its really confusing me this month. Suggestions?</p> <p><a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/40d2fb">My Ovulation Chart</a> </p>