https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 16 Oct 2026 11:34:11 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-258634 Tue, 14 Aug 2012 19:34:06 +0000 mrsjyw 258634@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yay! baby dust your way! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-258626 Tue, 14 Aug 2012 19:29:42 +0000 spaniellove 258626@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ali: Yay! I remember that feeling and that whole experience...having to hear someone else was pregnant, and that being the kick in the pants...lots of luck to you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-258505 Tue, 14 Aug 2012 15:46:34 +0000 chibee 258505@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh I know that feeling, not wanting to bring it up but wanting to bring it up SO badly! Good luck to you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-256039 Sun, 12 Aug 2012 11:16:00 +0000 lilteacherbee 256039@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>aww yay!! I remember having a similar conversation with my husband (I'm sure I was a little crazy too!). Good luck TTC!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-255825 Sat, 11 Aug 2012 20:49:07 +0000 Adira 255825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yay!!!! Congratulations on having a successful conversation! I've definitely had those sobbing my eyes out convos while Hubs thinks I'm crazy! Those can be the worst AND the best sometimes!</p> <p>Good luck TTC!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-255774 Sat, 11 Aug 2012 16:36:27 +0000 Cherrybee 255774@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrBee: Yeah! Mine is really awesome!! And I'm clearly neurotic! It must be like being married to Woody Allen. </p> <p>Thanks everyone! It's like a weight has been lifted - I'm so happy right now!! </p> <p>Oh and - I'm gonna be an Aunt!! Yippee! :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-255768 Sat, 11 Aug 2012 16:13:40 +0000 mrbee 255768@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ali: Haha btw, I love his answer to you. Men are awesome. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-255767 Sat, 11 Aug 2012 16:11:54 +0000 Mrs. Pen 255767@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>aww that's so sweet. Very excited for you! hope you get the BFP quickly! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-255766 Sat, 11 Aug 2012 16:09:30 +0000 mrbee 255766@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Ali: So excited for you! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-255764 Sat, 11 Aug 2012 16:04:14 +0000 wheres_c 255764@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yay! Good luck! Have fun ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-255762 Sat, 11 Aug 2012 15:57:16 +0000 mrs. bird 255762@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Woohoo! Let the BD'ing begin! ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-hubby-said-yes-im-ttc-right-after-i-get-this-wine-and-my-bcp-out-of-my-system#post-255761 Sat, 11 Aug 2012 15:52:33 +0000 Cherrybee 255761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I posted on here a few days ago that I'd had THE CONVERSATION with my husband the previous day. We'd decided to TTC in May 2013 but a number of factors - most notably baby fever! - made me want to bring it forward, right forward, and start NOW! We had a brief discussion that night and then he said he'd think about it and the TV went back on......</p> <p>Well, days went by and he didn't bring it up again. I felt physically sick waiting for him! Last night, I met my best friend for a drink and sobbed, actually sobbed, to her about it. She suggested I bring it up again.....</p> <p>So, tonight I was waiting for the right moment to bring it up again myself. I had butterflies in my tummy.... "After this Olympic event", I thought, "no, after this one" (he's glued to the coverage on TV) "after he's finished playing with his phone" "after...." then his phone rang....</p> <p> It was his younger brother, telling us that his girlfriend was 5 weeks pregnant!!!!!!! We're gonna be an Auntie and Uncle! Great news, huh, only I was GUTTED! Devasted! I was just so jealous! Hubby looked at me, baffled, as I fought the tears back..... so I told him. I told him I was going crazy waiting for his answer, I was desperate to start trying and I just wasn't fair that I was being made to wait to even know if I could stop my BCP (yes, I had a full childish tantrum!). </p> <p>Turns out, he didn't realise I meant I wanted to start now, just, perhaps, a little sooner than planned and he had been thinking, a little, but hadn't given it much concentrated thought - and certainly wasn't planning another big conversation about it- because, in his words, (get this!) "What is there to think about. We said we'd try in, what, nine months? That's not long. What difference does it make if we start now or wait nine months? Start now if you want to, we may as well!". </p> <p>I was astounded! I apologised for being a bit crazy and he replied "I think you were being a bit unfair to me, really, you thought I'd freak out or something". And I did!!! I did think that!!! </p> <p>So I guess I was wrong to get so bent out of shape abut it!!! Oh and..... I'm changing my status to TTC! Yippee! </p> <p>Thanks for all the support ladies! I can't wait to get trying! </p>