https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 08 Apr 2026 15:33:49 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1522489 Wed, 26 Mar 2014 11:38:13 +0000 BSB 1522489@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HolisticMama: Oh, good idea, but I don't want to hid them all yet. I'll definitely create those lists for when I don't want to deal with baby updates. There are days where I don't mind baby updates. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1522317 Wed, 26 Mar 2014 10:45:49 +0000 HolisticMama 1522317@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: You can actually create facebook lists and only check in with the lists. I have a list called "uplifting and supporting." I can also choose to only post to that list too. It makes things a lot nicer when on facebook. :: hugs :: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1520210 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 13:34:02 +0000 littleredhairedgrl 1520210@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>thinking of you ladies :heart: </p> <p>the struggles of IF will never be forgotten on me and I hope and pray it will happen for all of you soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1519995 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 12:39:02 +0000 LindsayInNY 1519995@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: @sarahnicole218: Yaaay!! New thread categories are up!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1519392 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 10:02:08 +0000 Miss Sarah 1519392@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LindsayInNY: @BlueStriped Bee: A TTC#1 thread would be amazing!! Sometimes it is hard for me to see the people TTC #2+ get pregnant within a couple of months. Of course, I'm happy for them, but my experience of TTC #1 for over 12 months makes me slightly bitter! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1519325 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 09:39:18 +0000 BSB 1519325@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LindsayInNY: oh, you suggested that?? Thanks!! I didn't think about being able to hide those threads. It actually would help me a little. Can't hide Fb friends and IRL people. ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1519250 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 09:21:06 +0000 swedishfish 1519250@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: and to you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1519238 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 09:18:59 +0000 LovelyPlum 1519238@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending you ladies love :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1519122 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 08:34:45 +0000 littlek 1519122@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LindsayInNY: @bluestriped bee: Big hugs :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1519107 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 08:30:07 +0000 Mrs tartan 1519107@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Awww girls this makes me so sad. I just wanted to say that they say that you forget the birth pain after you have the baby, I certainly forget the months and months (11) of ttc pain as soon as BFP appeared. It will happen for you, please don't get discouraged by other people's journeys. Baby dust to you all, if I could help I would! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1519003 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 07:37:41 +0000 LindsayInNY 1519003@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: Agreed. I think about hope they're planning for #2 in the same time I've been trying for #1... I actually made a suggestion to Mr. Bee to make a subcategory for TTC #1 and TTC #2+. That way if it gets to be too much, I can hide those threads. But YOU have some big stuff coming up and I have everything in the world crossed for you!!! We will get our time and I cannot wait for that day!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1518980 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 07:11:14 +0000 Snowdrop 1518980@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: bumped that thread, I'm so sorry it caused you pain, I didn't even think :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1518871 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 01:27:28 +0000 BSB 1518871@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LindsayInNY: yeah, it kills me when some of the regulars announce TTC for #2, 3 or 4. I'm happy for them but it just hurts so much to be left behind. Why can they get pregnant so easily and I can't have 1 miracle. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1518869 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 01:24:09 +0000 BSB 1518869@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I almost cried when someone bumped this thread I started. I think I started the first 6 months plus thread.<br /> <a href="http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/6-months-or-more-ttc-club" rel="nofollow">http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/6-months-or-more-ttc-club</a></p> <p>I started that in April 2012. 2 years later still no BFP or baby. :(</p> <p>I have contemplated asking MrBee to permanently closing that thread so I don't see it pop up anymore. There are other threads that have been created. </p> <p>Looking back at my first few threads I created, I was so naive. Asking questions about due dates and pregnancy symptoms. I can't even think of due dates. Can't talk about anything past AF. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1518865 Tue, 25 Mar 2014 00:50:10 +0000 Crystal 1518865@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@swedishfish: big hugs to you. :heart: </p> <p> I like to think that one day soon I'll be able to see how all this struggle was worth it, and that while it seemed long, it's only a small part of a much larger plan. I really hope I can get there someday, but it isn't feeling likely. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1510283 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 19:55:50 +0000 ChiCalGoBee 1510283@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1510252 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 19:47:33 +0000 swedishfish 1510252@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@septca: thank you. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1510144 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 19:22:26 +0000 theotherstark 1510144@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>OMG I have a post on that page! hahaha. We weren't TTC at the time, though.</p> <p>Anyway, thanks for this today. I have been feeling a little discouraged, and just needed a little pick me up. </p> <p>Big hugs and baby dust to everyone TTC. It just sucks, I agree. Ha. :heart: :bfp: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1510088 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 19:10:49 +0000 septca 1510088@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@swedishfish: and to you, too. You are extra deserving. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1510076 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 19:08:24 +0000 swedishfish 1510076@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: hugs for all of you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1509955 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 18:44:43 +0000 snowjewelz 1509955@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Lots of :heart: and hugs for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1509665 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 17:35:30 +0000 Snowdrop 1509665@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@septca: so similar to what my mum said to me, she tried for 5 years for me and she said you never really forget the pain but it's all worth it because that's what leads you to your baby. If she hadn't struggled for 5 years she would have had another baby instead of me and that that is unimaginable. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1509638 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 17:29:20 +0000 septca 1509638@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have to be honest, as one of the BTDT, that the scars of infertility fade, but they never go away. I cannot look at DD and not see what it took to get here, even when TTC seemed so far away. Big hugs to all of you. Like @littlek: said, it just sucks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1509555 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 17:05:37 +0000 littlek 1509555@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LindsayInNY: @Snowdrop: TTC sucks... big hugs :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1509550 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 17:04:03 +0000 LindsayInNY 1509550@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Snowdrop: It's both of those. People who have moved off TTC threads. And people who I "watched"/followed/whatever during pregnancy #1 that are now discussing #2. That's what's tough for me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1509535 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 16:59:28 +0000 Snowdrop 1509535@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LindsayInNY: that is really tough. I find it hard enough seeing people I was ttcing with have baby bumps and decorating nurseries. It must be tough to see ttc #2 discussions. :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1509521 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 16:56:27 +0000 LindsayInNY 1509521@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>See, personally, that kinda discourages me. Because a lot of those have more than one LO now too. I see people who had #1 and are considering TTC #2 in the same time that I've been TTC #1. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1509486 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 16:45:00 +0000 Snowdrop 1509486@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you for this, and nice to read something from you again, our paths haven't crossed recently! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1509485 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 16:44:48 +0000 Kimberlybee 1509485@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wish I did use the TTC support group when I needed it most. I just never knew about it back then. I mostly read the HelloBee blogs then would close out the site. Don't ever give up hope! We were TTC since 2008, lost my first baby and pregnancy due to a miscarriage in 2011, and now have a happy and healthy baby girl who will be 1 very soon. Hang in there. Hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/someday-this-will-all-be-behind-me#post-1509474 Thu, 20 Mar 2014 16:40:58 +0000 HolisticMama 1509474@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>On some days when I am feeling discouraged, I will look back at the oldest posts on the TTC board: <a href="http://boards.hellobee.com/view/ttc/page/75" rel="nofollow">http://boards.hellobee.com/view/ttc/page/75</a></p> <p>More often than not, all of those ladies now have wee ones at home. </p> <p>And I remember that someday, I will be able to find old posts that I have started when TTC while nursing a baby. (And maybe someday I will even bump up this old post to encourage other ladies that are in the thick of it and feeling discouraged.)</p> <p>If you already have a LO- Have you ever gone back to look at old posts? Any old posts you want to share here? </p>