https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 09 Apr 2026 15:22:37 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-feel-like-im-going-to-ruin-my-daughters-life#post-19402 Mon, 21 Nov 2011 13:11:47 +0000 Red 19402@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@brownie: I was going to suggest the same thing. My LO fussed and spit up a lot until we figured out she was allergic to dairy, soy, and eggs. Caffeine also got her so wired she couldn't sleep for hours. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-feel-like-im-going-to-ruin-my-daughters-life#post-19361 Mon, 21 Nov 2011 12:25:09 +0000 brownie 19361@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>How old is she? Have you looked at her and your diet? I know that for me, he was having reactions to dairy and soy and without it he is almost a perfect baby. </p> <p>Also, people don't like parents who do nothing. As long as you are trying let people think what they want. The only people I get upset with are those that let thier kids run wild and don't even tell them to stop. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-feel-like-im-going-to-ruin-my-daughters-life#post-19334 Mon, 21 Nov 2011 11:52:37 +0000 mrbee 19334@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think the first year is just about survival! I read on a blog somewhere and it's so true: just don't kill the baby.</p> <p>You sound like an awesome mom, and so I'm sure that barring medical issues, your daughter will get less fussy over time. Then things should get much more enjoyable!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-feel-like-im-going-to-ruin-my-daughters-life#post-19333 Mon, 21 Nov 2011 11:51:56 +0000 Andrea 19333@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, you are not crazy! But can someone please help me with this too? I was in a bad mood all weekend and I am worried my negative energy rubs off on her. But then again, we are all human and I think it is also another problem if we pretend to be happy in front of them all the time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-feel-like-im-going-to-ruin-my-daughters-life#post-19322 Mon, 21 Nov 2011 11:39:09 +0000 Rubies 19322@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My daughter is very fussy and she makes going out a huge ordeal. Because of how fussy she is, I tend to stay home a lot and get very stressed about venturing out. When we DO go out, she cries and cries and I feel peoples' eyes staring at me wondering why my baby is crying bloody murder.</p> <p>I'm afraid that this behaviour is going to turn my daughter into a scaredy-cat or a kid who doesn't like to try anything.</p> <p>At what age do you think babies/kids start to pick up on their parents' actions/behaviours? Am I crazy? </p>