https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 02 May 2026 11:49:53 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1139359 Wed, 09 Oct 2013 00:21:38 +0000 Running Elley 1139359@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babyjmama: Woman, you are an amazing wife!! Ill give you the credit, even if R doesn't!</p> <p>@HLK208: Your last paragraph is exactly how I feel. The way that DH takes care of E is not the same as what I do every day. I don't think he'll ever truly get it. But he does support me so ill just be thankful for that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1139357 Wed, 09 Oct 2013 00:14:49 +0000 HLK208 1139357@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babyjmama: you are awesome! I don't know how you do it all and work!! Gosh...R, needs to take some of the load off for you!!!</p> <p>@TurtleDoves: I completely love this ecard. That's all I really want from my DH too.</p> <p>DH doesn't get how hard my days are and how much I stay on top of everything. Like, his days off, he'll put the kids to bed but he won't clean anything so he really doesn't get a taste of what I go through. He plays on his phone while the kids play independently, totally not the same as when I read to them, play and interact with them all day all while cleaning up as I go!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1139002 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 18:56:11 +0000 Sammyfab 1139002@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@heartonastring: same here!! I say it all the time. :happy: </p> <p>My husband is more humble than I am but the fact that I toot my own horn and he agrees with me just makes me appreciate him more and verbalize the same.</p> <p>Seriously, give it a shot ladies! :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138812 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 16:46:09 +0000 Cherrybee 1138812@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Bah! My husband wont mow our lawns, never mind yours! My FIL did it last for me! But you can't borrow him, I need him!!! </p> <p>I totally feel the same. I don't mind doing it, I just want him to notice! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138758 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 16:22:14 +0000 swurlygurl 1138758@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Heck yeah - wife points for you!! :bfp: :bfp: ( &lt;-- multi-functional!)</p> <p>One thing I absolutely refuse to EVER do is mow the lawn. I am NOT getting sucked down that rabbit hole because then somehow I would end up having to do it all the time!</p> <p>I think we need to remember how awesome we are, we do a lot of unappreciated work! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138734 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 16:14:24 +0000 yellowbird 1138734@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You totally deserve to cash in those points!! I used to feel like this with DH, but he has really stepped up lately, thank god because i was going to lose my mind! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138729 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 16:12:39 +0000 heartonastring 1138729@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Um, I totally tell my husband that. And he tells me the same thing about himself (it's true).</p> <p>Why don't you just say it?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138636 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 15:38:35 +0000 Raindrop 1138636@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If I could up vote this... I would. :)</p> <p>Kudos on everyone's wife/mommy points! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138630 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 15:36:23 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1138630@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babyjmama: I do say it. I remind him weekly how friggn awesome I am.<br /> And now what's worse is that E is saying DADA and totally stopped saying mama even though that was his first (&amp; only) word for like 2 months straight. What gives...<br /> Don't they know how awesome-sauce we are?! </p> [attach=2389/13/mudanh.420x294.a14aa8b605196f04e8167b4eb68d22538c.png] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138626 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 15:34:13 +0000 photojane 1138626@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Girl, you are awesome! We pay to have the grass cut, because you know my chubby butt isn't going to get out there and do it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138624 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 15:33:39 +0000 doodlepoodle 1138624@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Champagne: yea! 'Wait, you dust by moving stuff off the shelves?' Yes. Yes I do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138622 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 15:32:52 +0000 doodlepoodle 1138622@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@cheert16: how are men seen as the 'dominant gender' they couldn't survive without us!</p> <p>@Smurfette: awe! Good hubby!!!</p> <p>@Lindsay05: haha! One time when I was PG he said something about being tired and I snapped 'im growing a HUMAN. A HUMAN. what did YOU do today?!' Bahaha it's a joke now but man I was pissed ;-)</p> <p>@kjpugs: you DO rock! :-) it's so funny but idk what I would do if I had free time. I don't have any. I just go-go-go. </p> <p>@mrs. wagon: my DH goes in spurts mainly. Sometimes he's great, then he totally falls off the wagon. It would be much easier if he were consistent :P when he's on the wagon he acts like he's this saint and if I'm not doing something he gets frustrated, wtf?!</p> <p>@Mrs. Champagne: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138507 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 14:57:00 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 1138507@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: amen sista! The other day I asked DH to vaccuum and where and how. If I didn't ask, he NEVER would have thought to do it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138489 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 14:50:35 +0000 mrs. wagon 1138489@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sigh. I feel you. Wagon Sr. really does a LOT but most of it is because I have dictated to him what to do and exactly how to do it. So whenever a bill slips through the cracks or something hasn't been cleaned in a while, it's always my fault. Well, he doesn't really blame me but he looks at me with that blank stare... "well you never told me I had to do anything..." I'm sick of being the only one who knows anything about anything!!!! Can't he look at something and just do it because it needs to be done???</p> <p>That being said... I cannot really complain because he really does do a lot. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138484 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 14:48:17 +0000 SweetMamaM 1138484@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>LOL I don't think my husband realized how much I do until I got pregnant and was utterly useless for the first trimester! You don't know what you've got til it's gone :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138426 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 14:36:26 +0000 kjpugs 1138426@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>YES. THANK YOU. I feel this way EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. DH works very hard at his job (physically!) so there's less left when he gets home. I do alllll the bills/finances, manage most of our maintenance anything, groceries, etc- and even manage our chore chart (bc yes I do have to FORCE him to do some.) I rock, and I know it!!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138418 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 14:33:08 +0000 Lindsay05 1138418@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You deserve that reward! Just think where things would be if it werent for your awesomeness :)</p> <p>I havent been doing anything too awesome but i want something for carrying not one but two of his babies. I told him it is rude of him not to carry his half! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138407 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 14:19:53 +0000 Smurfette 1138407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do tell my DH that he has the best wife ever. Luckily he agrees and tells me without me having to say it all the time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138404 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 14:18:42 +0000 cheert16 1138404@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babyjmama: I was just thinking the same thing to myself yesterday! It would be nice if it didn't always all fall on me! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138392 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 14:09:41 +0000 MapleMoose 1138392@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babyjmama: :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138376 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 14:00:32 +0000 Boogs 1138376@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Haha I feel ya! DH has been working on a project lately and I've had to pick up all kinds of slack on top of what I regularly do. I've taken the cars in for servicing, mowed the lawns, had a warm meal on the table every night, the house is spotless, the laundry baskets are empty, etc. And as hard as I know he's working, I'm working equally has hard and sometimes I think they just don't see it. I'll tell you, though, every single one of his thank yous has been much appreciated at least. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138335 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 13:44:14 +0000 doodlepoodle 1138335@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MapleMoose: Lol funny you say wife points bc I told him one time that I was going to cash in my points for the ultimate prize of being a SAHM ;-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138329 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 13:42:44 +0000 MapleMoose 1138329@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I like this post, you deserve credit for all those wife points you're earning! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/sometimes-i-want-to-say#post-1138319 Tue, 08 Oct 2013 13:37:41 +0000 doodlepoodle 1138319@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Do you know how awesome of a wife I am?! I'm a heck of a catch! </p> <p>I am SO on top of things. I schedule maintenance for our cars, deal with insurance agents, utilities, plan and cook meals AND I've mowed the yard lately. Ugggggh. I know he appreciates me but sometimes I just want to not have to.do it all. :P</p> <p>Not looking for anything in particular, unless you want to let me borrow your husband to mow my lawn ;-) </p>