https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 01 Jul 2026 21:44:43 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement/page/2#post-1360000 Sun, 19 Jan 2014 18:56:30 +0000 artsyfartsy 1360000@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hear ya and feel for ya! Screw em is all I can say!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement/page/2#post-1359961 Sun, 19 Jan 2014 18:24:31 +0000 anonysquire 1359961@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrsjets: I don't want to scare you with my chub!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement/page/2#post-1359858 Sun, 19 Jan 2014 17:01:03 +0000 Mrsjets 1359858@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry you're feeling so judged, I've tried to be more open minded about other people's parenting since having J. So do what you gotta do and be proud :)</p> <p>Ps - we need a bump pic of you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement/page/2#post-1359764 Sun, 19 Jan 2014 15:35:03 +0000 lolabee 1359764@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: @loveisstrange: love this! So very true, so far one of the most apparent lessons my son is reaching me. Thankful for it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement/page/2#post-1359697 Sun, 19 Jan 2014 14:27:33 +0000 AmeliaBedilia 1359697@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>People are so annoying and nosy. If someone asks about circ, how about, "I feel uncomfortable discussing my son's penis."</p> <p>Other ideas:<br /> "You might be right." Then go do what you want.<br /> "We're doing what my doctor recommends."<br /> "Why do you ask?" After they answer, say, "Oh, I see. " Then change the subject. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351827 Thu, 16 Jan 2014 07:44:55 +0000 mrs. wagon 1351827@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: no joke, machete first came to mind and I toned it down to bat. Haha!! OK if you call the machete, I've got dibs on sledgehammer.</p> <p>@Mrs. Polish: @CupQuakeWalk: Haha I was also going to say that Mr. Polish (don't tell him I called him that) has got to be the closest human equivalent. I personally loved Donatello. Even back then I was attracted to brains. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351417 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 21:28:40 +0000 Boheme 1351417@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>People can be so weird and nosy. When people asked me about circumcision, I always said "What business do you have asking me about his penis? I don't ask questions about YOUR penis/vag." Seems to shut people up pretty quick.</p> <p>You are going to be an awesome mom :) Make the decisions that work best for your family, and screw everybody else. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351415 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 21:27:57 +0000 rachiecakes 1351415@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: yes! </p> <p>@anonysquire: no one knows your kid better than you. go with your gut and tune out the rest. (and if you're stumped, come to hellobee, obviously :wink: ) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351410 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 21:23:59 +0000 Mrs. Polish 1351410@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CupQuakeWalk: he's the closest I could find. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351404 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 21:22:03 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1351404@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: +1 URGH</p> <p>@Mrs. Polish: your DH *isn't* Raphael?! what the whaaat? </p> <p>@anonysquire: your face was my face from the min I told people I was TTC until.....maybe 3m PP. I stopped caring after that. I never really CARED but I would smile and nod, which exhausted me. Now? I don't even smile or nod. I literally ignore people *or* abruptly change the subject by saying things like, "Anyways!..." and "Well, that's cool but moving on..." :) People love that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351190 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 20:07:54 +0000 indi 1351190@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: Sorry that people are getting into your business. I hope you can snag a few lines from PPs and lay down the law. ;-)</p> <p>PS- Thank you for posting a large pic of your av, I TOTALLY it was some awesome hilarious photo from your wedding (big white veil) and I smiled every time! Now I see the red and blue and have no idea what context this is…but it still makes me smile. Hehe. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351111 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:47:08 +0000 MrsH 1351111@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel you! And love the pic :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351103 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:44:03 +0000 Dandelion 1351103@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@dc yoga bee: well seriously...why is whether or not I have my kid circ'ed a topic people need to ask about? Why are they so worried about what I'm doing? Its even more baller for the stranger to be asking about these things. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351099 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:43:08 +0000 yellowbird 1351099@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: hahaha that would be awesome! !! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351093 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:41:13 +0000 dc yoga bee 1351093@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Dandelion: wow! That is baller. I'm going to try that next time someone asks when we are going to have chosen our why we don't have children. "That's a private issue."</p> <p>@anonysquire: I'm sorry people won't just stfu. super excited for you to have your lo soon though! The best part is you get to make your list decisions, not those people who are not raising your children. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351078 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:37:06 +0000 Mrs. Polish 1351078@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: @mrs. wagon: as a former Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle fan, I want the sai. At one point in my life I was going to grow up and marry Raphael. Sadly, that didn't work out how I planned. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351070 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:34:17 +0000 Dandelion 1351070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: I just say I don't like to talk about these things since its a private issue. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351069 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:33:16 +0000 avivoca 1351069@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@anonysquire: 1) I miss seeing you around the boards. 2) Haters gonna hate. You just keep doing what's best for your family. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351065 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:31:52 +0000 anonysquire 1351065@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: @Mrs. Polish: blunt? How about sharp? I know my way around a machete. I wont cut anyone, but a crazy pregnant lady with a machete has to be frightening! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351052 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:28:58 +0000 mrs. wagon 1351052@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Polish: @anonysquire: I picture us with large, blunt objects. I call the aluminum bat. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351037 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:20:27 +0000 Mrs. Polish 1351037@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: I'm nicer on the internet. @anonysquire: You're in. The three of us against the world. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351033 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:19:35 +0000 anonysquire 1351033@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Polish: @mrs. wagon: I want in on this love fest! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351029 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:18:38 +0000 mrs. wagon 1351029@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Polish: I talk to you, and I even like you.. A lot.. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351027 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:16:59 +0000 anonysquire 1351027@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: Good idea! That is what we have been doing with the names. I will start doing that with all further questions.</p> <p>@Mrs. Polish: People only talk to me because I am pregnant :/ Which makes me anxiety crazy and its just so swkward because I can't make eye contact. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351005 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:05:02 +0000 Mrs. Polish 1351005@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: or just say it's not your business. I like that one.</p> <p>ETA: Possibly why people don't talk to me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1351002 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:03:13 +0000 mrs. wagon 1351002@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: @anonysquire: I didn't learn til after my second! </p> <p>@anonysquire: when anyone asks you anything, just lie and say you're not sure! It is no one's business! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1350992 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 19:00:04 +0000 anonysquire 1350992@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@yellowbird: Right? And I am not even a parent yet :( 2 more months! I want to just find a cave and have my baby and raise them and then pop back into the world after all the major decisions are over. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1350987 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 18:58:50 +0000 yellowbird 1350987@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel you! I think parenting is the most judged profession in the world. So annoying! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1350986 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 18:58:48 +0000 anonysquire 1350986@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@dojo: Ya it is frustrating. He has always been VERY easily peer pressured so I should know but still its annoying!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/soooooo-sick-of-judgement#post-1350984 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 18:58:07 +0000 anonysquire 1350984@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@coopsmama: Thanks for the pep talk :)</p> <p>@MrsMccarthy: Oh it is definitely both sides. I just wish everyone would let everyone make their own choices and be supportive!</p> <p>@mrs. wagon: Teach me!</p> <p>@Dandelion: So what do you say when someone just comes and asks you about circumcision or something? Just tell them you decline further comments? People keep asking me every little detail and I get flustered and answer and then my dang cheeks turn red. Im a mess :(</p> <p>@loveisstrange: Oh how I love RuPaul! </p>