https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 08 Apr 2026 00:55:44 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-71004 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 12:23:13 +0000 MH.Abroad 71004@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I really wouldn't, unless there were indicators of a serious problem and I was REALLY concerned. Otherwise it's just being nosy and invasive. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-71002 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 12:21:51 +0000 Rescuemom10 71002@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldnt. Unless there really seemed to be a problem and I was REALLY concerned. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70988 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 12:14:48 +0000 Mrs Sorbet 70988@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If I see no reason to be concerned with their actions/behavior, I definitely won't read their diary. I would have been mortified if my mom had read mine (as far as I know she didn't read it...if she did she never mentioned it!). There's no need for me to embarrass my child over crushes.</p> <p>If I think I need to find out what they've been doing for their well-being...I probably will. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70970 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 12:08:48 +0000 plantains 70970@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would try to avoid it unless there were some behavioral red flags. But even if I did read it, I would like to think that I would figure out how to use the info to improve the situation without confronting LO. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70836 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:45:29 +0000 daniellemybelle 70836@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My mom read my diary and I was SO MAD at her about it. The way she confronted me too (about silly little things) made me feel very embarrassed. I think I would try my best not to, but I'm nosy, so if I did I would do it 100% secretly and only confront our child if it was something really concerning and potentially dangerous. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70835 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:41:32 +0000 BabyLove 70835@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh jeez. I'd like to say that I won't. I'm usually not a nosy person. But when it comes to my LO, I want to know that everything is alright, ya know? I'm a social workers, I know kids carry heavy burdens sometimes, without telling someone. I'm so afraid of that happening to our LO :( </p> <p>I think I would if I saw signs that something was up and she wasn't telling me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70831 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:34:19 +0000 tequiero21 70831@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i dunno. i hope not. i am pretty nosey, but i want to respect their privacy, unless they give me reason not to trust them? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70817 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:13:45 +0000 heffalump 70817@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I will try my hardest not to. Especially if they haven't done anything to make me think they're up to no good. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70810 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:06:58 +0000 autumnlove 70810@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I will if they leave it in plain sight! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70801 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:03:11 +0000 Rubies 70801@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would do it if I had reason to be concerned. If my kids are good and give me nothing to worry about, then they have a right to their privacy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70799 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:00:56 +0000 Mrs. Bee 70799@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>oh my no i wouldn't. unless they were up to no good... i might not be able to resist! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70751 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 09:02:42 +0000 Andrea 70751@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I might if her behavior became suspicious. I would try to talk to her first but if that didn't work then I might snoop if I was really concerned. Otherwise, I know from when I used to keep my diary that most of it isn't very interesting! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70750 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 09:01:52 +0000 mrs. wagon 70750@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yup. My mom was sneaky and horrible and I will be just. like. her. ;) If my kids are smart they will know to NOT have a diary! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spin-off-will-you-read-your-los-diaries#post-70747 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 09:00:39 +0000 chopsuey 70747@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If your kids keep a diary, would you look for it and read it? :) </p>