https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 23 Jun 2026 10:35:00 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1243280 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 02:34:32 +0000 sunny 1243280@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think I'm less petty! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1243263 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 01:45:49 +0000 hellocupcake 1243263@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't care about my appearance as much, and it makes me sad. I want to care and put effort in getting all pretty but I really don't care or want to put the effort into doing my hair every day. (: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1243051 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 21:50:23 +0000 MrsCastro 1243051@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, but for the better. And being pregnant has also improved my attitude about things. We are not without faults. The first year of marriage was tough, but that was because that was when we started living together and neither of us had lived with anyone else previous to that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1243006 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 21:31:44 +0000 artsyfartsy 1243006@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have become less selfish and learned to love camoflauge more. Lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242938 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 20:59:50 +0000 Greentea 1242938@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@illumina: Me too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242937 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 20:59:03 +0000 Greentea 1242937@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@rahlyrah: :)<br /> I have a lot more confidence and direction and no longer have crutches (smoking drinking coffee). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242927 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 20:51:40 +0000 Ra 1242927@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I shave my legs much less frequently. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242701 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 18:31:56 +0000 Glitter 1242701@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have become so "domesticated". I too was strictly career focused en route to qualifying as an Actuary. Now I can't bear thinking about doing my last exam. I just want to have babies, cook and bake awesome dishes and be a stay at home mom. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242693 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 18:28:22 +0000 BabyMats 1242693@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was super outgoing..loved to be in crowds, went out a lot..just liked being with a lot of people. Now I am not a fan of crowds and if it's too much work to go somewhere I'm over it before we start. (But that is hubs rubbing off on me) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242680 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 18:18:34 +0000 Boheme 1242680@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@illumina: Exactly this. I am so much more mellow and settled than I was pre-DH. I'm also way more tidy for some reason. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242678 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 18:16:49 +0000 lioneyes 1242678@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i have become a better cook, and more mellow. but, i have also become less independent and adventurous. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242444 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 16:32:49 +0000 Alivoo01 1242444@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm more outgoing and more of a people person (I was a HUGE wallflower). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242443 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 16:32:24 +0000 Smurfette 1242443@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mae: I think it really is more of I know I can't leave the house that makes me want to go...... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242430 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 16:25:19 +0000 Mae 1242430@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Smurfette: weirdo ;) </p> <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: my husband knew of my love for yoga pants loooong before we got married haha. </p> <p>@IRunForFun: me too! I used to be a total slob. Now I'm a total slob, somewhat reformed. I know clutter bugs him so I make a very concerted effort to keep things picked up and I do actually like it better. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242425 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 16:23:12 +0000 illumina 1242425@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I became more mellow and settled. I think feeling like I'm loved unconditionally gave me so much self-confidence. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242424 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 16:23:00 +0000 IRunForFun 1242424@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I cook more elaborate meals, and I stay on top of the cleaning a bit more...a BIT more. :happy: I'm also a lot better at budgeting, but that was sort of by necessity. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242407 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 16:13:30 +0000 Smurfette 1242407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I cook better. And I like working out a lot more. I never thought that I would miss going to the gym after work every night. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242403 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 16:11:17 +0000 MamaMoose 1242403@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I much more outdoorsy and not so afriad of getting dirty. I had never gone camping before meeting my husband... now I actually like it (as long as their are indoor bathrooms at the camp site!) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242371 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 15:56:45 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1242371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I cook less. I talk less (he likes to debate). I wear sweats. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242367 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 15:55:59 +0000 deactivated_account 1242367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH thought I liked to watch sports on TV a lot more than I actually do. :wink: </p> <p> But we were actually together a decade before we were married since we wanted to be damn sure neither of us would change after we were locked in! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-have-you-changed-since-you-and-your-so-got-together#post-1242363 Mon, 25 Nov 2013 15:54:47 +0000 Mae 1242363@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Because it's always fun to see both sides of things :) </p> <p>I always joke and told my husband I really fooled him when he married me. When we met I was a law student and pretty driven/ambitious and definitely wanting to make a career out of law. Now I have 0 ambition when it comes to law and I'm just looking for a way to get out and be a photographer. Which is sort of a raw deal for my husband because it is a big downgrade in terms of my pay and hours… but he says it is worth it if I actually like what I'm doing! </p>