https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 11 Apr 2026 13:51:39 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82943 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 15:52:45 +0000 mrs. tictactoe 82943@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm facebook friends with one, but that's it. My husband is still good friends with his high school girlfriend, but I am friends with her too. She is married and pregnant, so it's a non-issue. Actually, our first date (sort of) was to her birthday dinner! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82940 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 15:42:07 +0000 tequiero21 82940@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>none. not facebook friends or any other kinda friends. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82874 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 14:20:39 +0000 BSB 82874@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm Facebook friends with one of them. There's no hard feelings between me, him or the DH so it's good seeing how he is doing.</p> <p>The other ones I don't talk to at all.</p> <p>I think the DH has a couple of exes on his FB list. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82872 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 14:19:39 +0000 skibobrown 82872@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm facebook friends w/ several of my exes. There's only one who I actually keep in touch with in person though... he even came to our wedding! I'm glad that DH feels secure enough to allow my friendship to continue w/ my ex. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82855 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 14:01:47 +0000 Modern Daisy 82855@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>None! I'm FB friends with my high school boyfriends older brother so I guess he could potentially stalk my page to see what I'm up to, but other than that no contact.</p> <p>I thought about accepting a friend request from a college boyfriend, but after much thought I decided to turn him down out of respect for DH. I sent him a nice email though explaining that it was nothing personal and I wished him the best and he was totally cool with it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82849 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 13:57:13 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 82849@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Neither of us keep up with our exes. They aren't even on our fb pages. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82846 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 13:54:51 +0000 Rock n Roll 82846@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm pretty good friends with one (and my husband loves him!) and would be civil to others if I ran into them, but don't keep in touch or anything. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82818 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 13:37:27 +0000 bushelandapeck 82818@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have a few exes on FB but only really one that I still talk to occasionally. My Dad has a habit of continuing to talk to most of my exes and even went to one's wedding this past summer which was a little weird. DH works with his most recent ex which was uncomfortable for a while but now that we're married it seems to be okay. He also talks to one other ex occasionally from years ago who lives in CA. Both of us are honest when we do talk to our exes so it hasn't been a big deal for either of us. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82770 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:42:44 +0000 MaisyMay 82770@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Niether Hubs nor I have any ex's so there aren't any to keep in touch with. :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82767 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:37:39 +0000 sorrycharlie 82767@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>none here, either. if we're talking long-term relationship ex. if we're talking on-again, off-again flings, once in awhile I'll say hello to one of them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82759 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:34:12 +0000 mrsjazz 82759@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MegWag: Haha! Nice.</p> <p>I don't keep in touch with any exes. SO is friends with an ex--she came to our wedding. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82755 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:31:51 +0000 MrsBrewer 82755@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>None!! Neither DH or I talk to our exes. Never have never will...they all ended on very bad terms... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82750 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:24:45 +0000 lilteacherbee 82750@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My only ex and I are facebook friends. We talk once every few months unless we run into each other (small town). Its kinda weird for DH though because DH and I broke up in college for a year and during that break I dated the ex. </p> <p>DH has 3 exes (all from high school). One is a really good friend to both of us, she went to our wedding and we're going to hers in June. One is an acquaintance who works in the mall so we see her every so often. The other is a little crazy so we steer clear of her :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82747 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:20:26 +0000 LuLu Mom 82747@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I work with one ex, so we occasionally email. We both got married within a month of each other and parted on good terms so it's not too weird. DH has met him and thinks he's a decent guy &amp; didn't appear threatened by him. </p> <p>Otherwise I'm FB friends with a couple but do not actually keep in touch with them. </p> <p>DH doesn't have any serious past relationships, so he doesn't have contact with anyone. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82746 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:19:16 +0000 mamabolt 82746@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have one ex who I will occasionally have dinner with if he is passing through the area. Don't really talk to him outside of these dinners once a year or so. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82741 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:16:39 +0000 MegWag 82741@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I still keep in touch with my first boyfriend via FB. He and his husband are very happy together ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82734 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:11:58 +0000 autumnlove 82734@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>One just through Happy Birthday greetings on FB! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82723 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:05:28 +0000 chopsuey 82723@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>None! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82720 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:04:24 +0000 mrsjyw 82720@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My "serious" highschool ex bf and I are facebook friends, gchat buddies, we wish each other happy birthdays... but since both of our weddings, that's about it to our "communication." </p> <p>My not so serious high school ex bf and I are still friends and he's come over to our house for gatherings and met DH as well on several occasions. We gchat when we can and txt when he's home visiting for the holidays. (We dated all of 3 months).</p> <p>My college ex and I haven't spoken in over 5 years, we're not friends on fb, etc. I am friends with his cousin (they no longer speak) because we wanted to stay in touch with one another. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82716 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:02:29 +0000 Alivoo01 82716@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>None from me nor the hubby. We talk about them, but neither of us contact them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82712 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 12:00:24 +0000 heffalump 82712@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm good friends with an ex. We were good friends before we dated, and he was my neighbor. Our families are BFF's so we get together for vacations, camping, holidays, etc. So I really didn't have a choice but to stay friends, or it would be really awkward. But now he's married with a baby, and so am I, so it's fun for us all to get together and talk babies. Hubby doesn't care at all, he knows it was just a stupid high school thing.</p> <p>I'm friends with another ex on facebook but we don't talk. My "major" ex that I dated for 7 1/2 years I know longer talk to. I always wonder what he's up to but I don't want to contact him enough to know.</p> <p>Hubby hasn't had any serious girlfriends before me, so I don't have to worry about him talking to ex's. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-how-many-exes-do-you-keep-in-touch-with#post-82709 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 11:57:17 +0000 mrbee 82709@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I only have one ex that I vaguely keep in touch with. I don't call or IM her; mostly I just email her once every few years on her birthday (she was born on Pearl Harbor day, which is the only reason I remember).</p> <p>There's no leftover feelings on either side, so it's very clean and easy.</p> <p>How many exes do you keep in touch with? How about your SO: are they in touch with any exes? </p>