https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 05 May 2026 01:27:25 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596238 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 07:15:17 +0000 tequiero21 596238@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He's very much into the divorce is not an option, but he says he wouldn't tolerate me cheating. Not sure what he would do if I actually cheated. But I know I wouldn't, so it's a nonissue. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596236 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 07:10:23 +0000 BelugaBean 596236@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HabesBabe: This is pretty much exactly how we feel too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596232 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 07:02:47 +0000 mrs. bird 596232@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Divorce is def something DH is more open to, in general, than I am. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596230 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 06:56:02 +0000 KissMeCait 596230@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband isn't a doormat. If I cheated, our marriage would be over. He was cheated on by a previous girlfriend and it really screwed with him. His theory is that you don't cheat on someone that you love and I completely agree with that. It's the ultimate sign of disrespect so who would want to stay in a relationship with someone who clearly doesn't give a crap about them, ya know? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596222 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 06:49:08 +0000 singingbee 596222@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dh would leave me if I cheated. That is a deal breaker for him. But, I would never cheat, so not a problem. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596216 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 06:40:38 +0000 Dandelion 596216@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH would leave me in a heart beat if I cheated on him. I would do the same though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596176 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 02:18:29 +0000 anonysquire 596176@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Unfortuntately I don't think he would. He is the suffer in silence type and never shows emotion. I think he could go forever with is feeling inside of him :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596168 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 01:25:52 +0000 lovehoneybee 596168@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If I was having an on-going affair or if I was abusing our son it would be an option. Cheating once is not an automatic deal-breaker (for either of us). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596167 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 01:24:14 +0000 HabesBabe 596167@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He's in the same boat I am- cheating or abuse, we're out. Unhappiness means counseling, but if counseling didn't work, then we're out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596133 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 00:16:21 +0000 Penny Lane 596133@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Both he and I are adamant that divorce is not an option. Especially now that we have a child. Neither of us are the cheating type, but I think he would want to work through it if I did. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596127 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 00:12:38 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 596127@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH is more committed to the idea of being married forever-good, bad or indiferent. I think my husband's tolerance for dysfunction is higher than mine, but at some point I think divorce is an option for him too. I do not think cheating is an automatic dealbreaker for him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spinoff-is-divorce-an-option-for-your-so#post-596106 Tue, 26 Feb 2013 23:59:09 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 596106@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Let's say YOU cheated on or abused your SO, would your SO stay? Let's say your SO was unhappy, would your SO suck it up and stay? </p>