https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 26 Jun 2026 14:11:38 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2915785 Sat, 23 May 2020 14:21:14 +0000 MoonMoon 2915785@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I'm so sorry :heart:<br /> That seems like a lot of tough things at once (generic results, back to work and the comments /chatter, and your periods), you have every right to feel sad and overwhelmed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2915770 Sat, 23 May 2020 00:06:05 +0000 mrs.kiwi 2915770@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I’m so sorry... that is difficult news to hear.. losses are so so hard, and periods, pregnancy news, etc. make it just so much harder.. 😔 thinking of you and sending you love... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2915768 Fri, 22 May 2020 20:38:15 +0000 LabradorLover 2915768@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: haven’t been on here in a while but just happened to pop on and saw this. I’m so so sorry this all happened to you. Thinking of you and your family :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2915766 Fri, 22 May 2020 20:29:46 +0000 bhbee 2915766@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I’m so sorry. There are really awful days post loss and I can see how that would be a big trigger. If it’s any consolation I felt like the hormonal part calmed down for me after that first post loss period, so I hope some more peace is coming your way soon. But it’s still hard :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2915761 Fri, 22 May 2020 18:45:38 +0000 jhd 2915761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I’m so sorry today has been so hard. :heart: Thinking of you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2915756 Fri, 22 May 2020 16:20:25 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2915756@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Updating this because I am having a hard day. I ended up getting genetic results after 3 weeks, and it was a totally normal boy. The initial report, which I got after 1 week, showed that the placenta tissue appeared to be a placenta previa, which must have caused bleeding and irritated the uterus to begin the labor process. It's been hard thinking that this little baby that I saw wiggling around on the ultrasound just a couple weeks before this all happened, and heard his little strong heart rate twice, was growing, healthy and "normal", and it was just because of how the placenta implanted that my body couldnt sustain the pregnancy. </p> <p>At work this week, someone I hadn't seen for a while thought I was pregnant just because of how I looked, she didnt know about the loss. That never feels good, especially now, ugh. There was also someone pregnant with a due date just about the same as mine had been and people kept chatting with her about how she was feeling. </p> <p>I think I am having a harder time today because I started my period and probably have hormones to thank. But also, it's just tough as life moves on. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914517 Fri, 24 Apr 2020 14:52:26 +0000 periwinklebee 2914517@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry :heart: :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914432 Thu, 23 Apr 2020 13:56:28 +0000 LadyDi 2914432@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so very sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914368 Wed, 22 Apr 2020 13:10:12 +0000 bhbee 2914368@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I am so sorry for that traumatic experience. I can’t even imagine experiencing all of that and especially alone. You have been so strong to get through it - I hope you get time to heal mentally and physically now in whatever way works for you. Sending all the hugs :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914367 Wed, 22 Apr 2020 13:05:30 +0000 jhd 2914367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: i'm so sorry for your loss and for the pain you had to go through, especially all by yourself at the hospital. thinking of you and sending love :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914366 Wed, 22 Apr 2020 12:16:20 +0000 MrsMom 2914366@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: Oh I can't even tell you how sorry I am that this happened to you. You have been through so much in such a short time and my heart just completely aches for you. I'm so so sorry that you had such a traumatic outcome and all by yourself. Please rest and take care of yourself, let yourself grieve and know that all of us have you in our hearts. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914362 Wed, 22 Apr 2020 11:04:01 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2914362@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs.kiwi: thank you so much. </p> <p>@MoonMoon: it was very painful and traumatic, you are so right. I am so sad my journey with this baby ended like that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914338 Wed, 22 Apr 2020 07:21:47 +0000 MoonMoon 2914338@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: oh I'm so sorry. It sounds like you went through so much pain and trauma in the ER, but I'm glad you're in your own space at home and get to recover now. I'm crying reading the story of your loss, I feel like I got to follow your pregnancy journey with you and I'm so sorry this happened to you. Hugs. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914330 Wed, 22 Apr 2020 00:15:53 +0000 mrs.kiwi 2914330@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I am so so sorry for your loss. I’m so sad hearing this. I’ll pray you recover quickly and have all the time you need to mourn, be with family, and do whatever you need to do to get through and heal. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914329 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 23:37:54 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2914329@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks everyone. I really appreciate the condolences and kind words. I never thought this would happen in the second trimester. To share a little more of what happened, things progressed from the brown spotting on Monday night quite suddenly in the early hours. I had some cramping on and off as I was trying to sleep, when suddenly bright red bleeding started with a gush. I basically got stuck sitting on the toilet for 2 hours or so with trickles and gushes of blood/clots and started to wonder what to do, so I called the advice nurse and they suggested to come in. I called a friend who lives close by to avoid waking all the kids, and she dropped me off. </p> <p>The bleeding progressed at the hospital and I knew things weren’t going to be a good outcome even though the ER doctor kept saying it could go either way 🙄. He couldn’t see my uterus on the ultrasound because of gas bubbles which seemed ridiculous. When I got up to the bathroom, I ended up fainting on the toilet three times before the nurses got Me back to bed. That was such a scary feeling but I felt better with fluids. Finally they had the OB resident come down, she confirmed pregnancy was almost finished passing (she kept saying the pregnancy tissue has passed on its own :crying: ) but had some parts she removed from the cervix. They were going to watch bleeding to see if I need it cleaned out. Then I was napping for a bit and the new doctor that came on came to introduce himself. It surprised me and I sat up, which was a big mistake, it made me totally drop my blood pressure all the way to 40/20s and I felt so horrible. Then doctor cleaned out the cervix and canal more and my blood pressure came up with more fluids. The ob team came back and ended up doing sort of like a D and C and giving me a shot to help contract everything and that helped the bleeding slow to almost nothing. They got something to do genetic testing on. My doctor told me typically at this late stage, it’s typically chromosomal abnormalities, and it’s unusual to pass the pregnancy on your own. So I guess that’s why I ended up hemorrhaging so much. They kept me there hoping my high heartrate and low blood pressure would improve but ultimately I needed a blood transfusion. They finally let me leave at 5 pm against their better advice but want me to be extremely careful moving around, and come back if bleeding picks up. I really didn’t want stay in that depressing room any more all alone. They didn’t even have meal service, just frozen stuff you could ask your nurse for. I feel a lot better being in my own space, able to cuddle my kids and eat take out. </p> <p>Oh and in terms of being in the er in this crazy time, I felt pretty safe because they have separate covid areas, separate respiratory areas, and everyone wore masks. My mask didn’t seem that effective with all the crying with it on :sad: </p> <p>It was kind of cathartic to write that all out. This was a pretty traumatic experience, after the surprise of getting pregnant, 8-10’weeks of nausea and feeling like crap, and now starting to show and feel really good, only to have this happen. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914327 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 22:47:51 +0000 theotherstark 2914327@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: oh, I am so, so sorry :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914324 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 20:04:17 +0000 crazydoglady 2914324@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I'm so terribly sorry. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914297 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 15:53:48 +0000 MrsJBeeG 2914297@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I’m so sorry to read your update - I was praying for a positive result for you. I hope you can be with your loved ones and grieve as need be. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914296 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 15:52:18 +0000 foodiebee 2914296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: So so sorry to read this update. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914291 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 13:45:58 +0000 MoonMoon 2914291@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I'm so very sorry. Are you ok? Are you still at the hospital? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914276 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 10:43:52 +0000 MrsMom 2914276@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I am so so sorry!! I'll be thinking of you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914273 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 10:30:50 +0000 JennyLayneAZ 2914273@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: Im so sorry for your loss 😔 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914268 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 09:43:33 +0000 MLE81 2914268@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I’m so sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914267 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 09:41:24 +0000 Bmaja 2914267@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: shoot! I’m so sorry. Thinking of you guys. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914266 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 09:23:12 +0000 bhbee 2914266@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: so so sorry to read this. Loss is so hard and worse if you’ve been there before. If you need someone to talk/vent to, lots of us here to listen :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914265 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 09:14:40 +0000 karenbme 2914265@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I’m so sorry. 😢 I hope you’re able to give yourself some time and space to grieve in whatever way feels best for you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914263 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 08:57:40 +0000 lady baltimore 2914263@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I'm so sorry! :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914261 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 08:40:02 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2914261@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks the for the support of everyone, I lost the baby though unfortunately. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914260 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 08:39:37 +0000 MoonMoon 2914260@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I'm sorry you're going through this, and hope you can get some answers soon! I'm thinking of you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/spotting-at-14-weeks#post-2914257 Tue, 21 Apr 2020 07:20:24 +0000 karenbme 2914257@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: Oh no! I hope you get a good view soon. My bleeding was also heavy enough that I went to the ER (and ruined 2 pairs of pants). But there she was with a healthy heartbeat wiggling around. I truly hope this works out well in the end. I know it’s so stressful. </p>