https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 13 Apr 2026 15:44:19 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-474184 Tue, 01 Jan 2013 19:14:27 +0000 jedeve 474184@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I like the response in this: <a href="http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/cervical-exam/MY01412" rel="nofollow">http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/cervical-exam/MY01412</a></p> <p>"kindly ask them about the state of their cervix. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471327 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 19:47:44 +0000 jedeve 471327@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@blackbird: so how was your colonoscopy? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471296 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 19:03:58 +0000 blackbird 471296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You need an equally invasive question to ask back :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471278 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 18:43:07 +0000 prettylizy 471278@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No I will not stop aeking you about your vagina. Don't you know once you are pregnant this is all public domain. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471263 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 18:23:36 +0000 jedeve 471263@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@dagret: I like when my mom calls and asks for updates. Oh yes, I happen to be in labor this very minute! Glad you caught me! Ha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471262 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 18:23:15 +0000 allison 471262@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The other day, I was out to eat with my husband and his family (after my 36 week appt), and my MIL asks (very loudly), "So did the doctor check you vaginally today??". Poor FIL. Also, all the people sitting around us. So awkward. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471256 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 18:11:30 +0000 dagret 471256@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I haven't gotten to that point...yet...but my coworker was due on Christmas Eve and her FB page and her FB page is full of people asking constantly if they've had the baby yet and telling her to have sex and eat spicy food. I would freak out on these people. Like being past your due date isn't bad enough! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471252 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 18:05:27 +0000 ladyfingers 471252@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@artbee: I'm sure they'll just assume he is, and that it's my fault lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471233 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 17:20:22 +0000 heffalump 471233@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ladyfingers: wait till the baby comes. They ask if she's cold, hot, hungry, thirsty, etc. How do I know? I'm not her. She cant speak to me. Your guess is as good as mine. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471232 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 17:17:43 +0000 heffalump 471232@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I blame other people who post on Facebook how much they are dilated. It desensitizes everyone so those things seem normal, when some of us dont want to share every detail of our lives with the world. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471231 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 17:16:46 +0000 birdofafeather 471231@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ew, no one has asked me that! Hope it doesn't start! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471227 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 17:15:21 +0000 ladyfingers 471227@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Lol! Sooo awkward. I'm 35 weeks and people keep asking me if I think he'll come early. I'm like oh let me look at my crystal ball - ok, it says I have no effing clue!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471221 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 17:05:57 +0000 jedeve 471221@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's not that I'm really private or made uncomfortable about people asking, it's just weird for me to give a status update on it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471209 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 16:50:58 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 471209@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaisyMay: Isn't it crazy? Of course after you go through that, you don't really mind sharing as much as you might have before! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471206 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 16:46:50 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 471206@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jedeve: give it a couple weeks &amp; it'll be: did you tear?! Are your nipples cracked? Isn't lochia gross? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471202 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 16:29:26 +0000 MaisyMay 471202@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Haha! Now that I'm on the other side, everybody wants to know about our labor story, and the women want details. How dilated were we at which point? Which drugs did we use? When did the do checks? Personal info overload! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stop-asking-me-about-my-vagina#post-471152 Sun, 30 Dec 2012 15:24:51 +0000 jedeve 471152@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What's with people asking me if I'm dilating? I don't ask you what's going on inside your hoo-hah! </p>