https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 13 Apr 2026 13:42:43 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stranger-danger-already-1#post-1177100 Sun, 27 Oct 2013 13:11:11 +0000 MamaMoose 1177100@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would take her. She needs time to adjust. My LO does MUCH better with new people when they get down on the floor and play with her first rather than just trying to pick her up. Explain to your in laws that you just aren't comfortable letting we get that upset. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/stranger-danger-already-1#post-1177091 Sun, 27 Oct 2013 13:06:03 +0000 yourekindapretty 1177091@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hi ladies, once again I need some advice.<br /> My In laws are visiting for the first time since my lo was born, she is 4.5 months old now. When my in laws hold her she will be fine for about 5 minutes and then she'll start crying her eyes out. She also starts screaming if im not around.<br /> What should I do? Every time she starts crying I try to take her from them but my in laws dont want to give her back to me (she calms down once shes in my arms). This morning she started crying in their arms so they said "its because she sees you" and took her to another room (where she continued to cry until I got her, but at that point she was so upset I couldnt even soothe her easily).<br /> I understand it must be disappointing for them but I hate to hear my baby scream and cry. What should I do? Let her cry it out with them (which is what my husband wants to do) or just take her from them when she cries??? Is this stranger danger already? </p>