https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 19 Apr 2026 20:07:53 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again/page/2#post-412220 Sat, 24 Nov 2012 00:48:48 +0000 shopaholic 412220@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hi Amber, welcome to the hive! I'm so sorry for your loss and your story. I am sure the initial thought you could be pregnant would be a shock and the negative a let down. Hope everything works out okay and when you do get ur BFP someday again, I like @mynoahbear:s outlook on it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again/page/2#post-412219 Sat, 24 Nov 2012 00:47:16 +0000 BoogieBea 412219@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry for your loss! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again/page/2#post-412163 Fri, 23 Nov 2012 23:10:14 +0000 amberbrooke08 412163@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you everyone. The kind words, stories, and understanding mean a lot. I found out that I am not pregnant. I was actually a little down about it. It surprised me. But I sure do have the most painful cycle everr! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again/page/2#post-408743 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 22:44:04 +0000 mynoahbear 408743@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@amberbrooke08: hi Amber and welcome. I'm very sorry about the loss of your baby. I also lost my baby boy 1.5 years ago. I also found out I was pregnant immediately afterwards. I always think of baby #2 as a going away present from our little angel baby. I feel like he didn't want DH and I to be lonely so he waited until we were pregnant before becoming an angel. So, yes, the pain never goes away, but I'm comforted by knowing Angel Baby is looking down from heaven, keeping an eye on his little sister. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-408028 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 14:32:19 +0000 Andrea 408028@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-408002 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 14:26:26 +0000 sorrycharlie 408002@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to hellobee, I hope the community can help you in any way possible! And remember, there's no right or wrong emotions...they just are. It's completely okay to feel whatever emotions pop up, good or bad. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407947 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 14:06:08 +0000 Adira 407947@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just wanted to chime in and welcome you to Hellobee and also say that I'm so so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you must be going through. *hug* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407877 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 13:43:21 +0000 Lindsay05 407877@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, so sorry for your loss. I hope you are able to grieve and understand that it's ok to do so. Also I hope you can find the joy and happiness of another positive test. Welcome to hellobee :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407854 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 13:32:23 +0000 birdofafeather 407854@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>welcome to HB. i'm sorry for your loss and i hope that our community a blessing to you as you go through your journey! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407569 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 11:18:35 +0000 littlek 407569@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss.. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407559 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 11:16:08 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 407559@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@amberbrooke08: Wow. You are strong and brave. Placental problems are so tricky and unpredictable. I'm glad you got to spend time with your little guy.</p> <p>This pregnancy will be something totally different and separate from Kian and in no way diminishes his beautiful, short life.</p> <p>I'm wishing you peace as you go forward! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407544 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 11:10:10 +0000 HLK208 407544@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So heartbreaking...I'm very sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407522 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 11:00:25 +0000 sweetooth 407522@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>welcome to Hellobee...this is a good place to be when working through the emotions that you're dealing with right now. I'm so sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407507 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 10:53:51 +0000 Clementine 407507@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't have any opinions, but wanted to thank you for sharing your story. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407493 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 10:49:58 +0000 MamaMoose 407493@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. I think livsmama's friend's words were beautiful. You aren't replacing your lost baby, you are adding to your family. I hope you can eventually find comfort and excitement in the idea of this new baby even though it won't take away the pain of losing your sweet boy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407463 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 10:40:28 +0000 tororojo 407463@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407423 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 10:26:19 +0000 T-Mom 407423@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>welcome to you, and I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious little one. There must be so much going on in your heart as you try to grieve and stay strong for your family. Let us know how we can help you and keep us posted. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407388 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 10:10:14 +0000 amberbrooke08 407388@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Joy's Hope was a very moving story. I had never heard of it before. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407367 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 10:03:45 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 407367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so so sorry for your loss. Welcome to Hellobee - so looking forward to journeying with you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407363 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 10:02:41 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 407363@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Welcome to Hellobee.</p> <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407358 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 10:01:08 +0000 oliviaoblivia 407358@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I cannot fathom the sorrow you must have been feeling this past year. </p> <p>I'm glad you found your way to our little community, the women here are all remarkable, supportive, and silly. I hope the bittersweet evap/bfp does with time bring you joy. Another baby will never replace your sweet Kian but will surely bring blessings to your family. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407341 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 09:57:35 +0000 SugarplumsMom 407341@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. It must be so overwhelming right now for you. It's OK to mourn the loss of your little angel while feeling excited for your new addition. Congratulations and welcome! =) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407317 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 09:47:05 +0000 Trailmix 407317@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Welcome, I'm so sorry for your loss, what a sad thing to go through at such a young age. I think your reaction to your possible positive pregnancy test is totally understandable. I'm hoping for the best for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407315 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 09:46:53 +0000 autumnlove 407315@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407314 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 09:45:48 +0000 Mrs. Blue 407314@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@amberbrooke08: I am so sorry for the loss of your child. I cannot imagine and won't pretend to have any words of wisdom. Like @mrs. wagon: said, I also thought of Joy's Hope as I was reading your post. </p> <p>If you are indeed pregnant, I wish a safe and healthy pregnancy. While no child will ever replace Kian Matthew, each child is a gift full of their own special kind of joy that's good for a mama's heart. You're in my thoughts and prayers. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407309 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 09:43:36 +0000 Ash 407309@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling... @LivsMama says everything. It's completely normal for you to be confused and unsure about your feelings about a possible positive test. Like LivsMama said, you're not replacing your Angel baby, you're adding to your family. Baby Kian is watching down on his mama and family. May God bless you with whatever it is that you need during this time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407299 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 09:27:43 +0000 mrs. wagon 407299@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>welcome to Hellobee, and I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. How unbelievably heartbreaking. </p> <p>I think you might benefit from reading this story from a mama blogger I came across recently:<br /> <a href="http://www.joyshope.com/2008/10/whats-in-name.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.joyshope.com/2008/10/whats-in-name.html</a></p> <p>She lost her first baby at birth, had two miscarriages, and then went on to have three more beautiful girls. She and her daughter up in heaven were very inspirational to me. </p> <p>I hope your test is a true positive and that this new baby is on its way to you as Kian Matthew looks down and anticipates the arrival of his new baby brother or sister. I am sure he is hoping this will bring you much joy after so much pain and sadness. I don't think anything could take away the pain of losing Kian Matthew but the joy of another baby could help to dull the pain and help you to move on from such a traumatic time. Good luck and God bless! And keep us updated!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407296 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 09:21:45 +0000 amberbrooke08 407296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I definitely will. Thank you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407295 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 09:21:18 +0000 Smurfette 407295@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Welcome! I am so sorry for your loss. That has to be the hardest thing for anyone to go through. </p> <p>I am sure you are having all sorts of emotions about an upcoming pregnancy. I would think it is totally natural. Hugs!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/suffering-from-the-loss-of-my-son-maybe-pregnant-again#post-407293 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 09:20:05 +0000 LivsMama 407293@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@amberbrooke08: No problem at all. Maybe take a few days to let the possibility process before you take another test. Just remember that the feelings of guilt take some time to go away-but that is normal. If you take another test, you might get that gut feeling again. Its ok. Any time you want me to reach out to her, send me a message on my wall here =o) </p>