https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 08 Apr 2026 17:57:28 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/surviving-the-tww-if-style#post-1602069 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 11:44:01 +0000 mrswin 1602069@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Great article and @bluestriped bee: @Happygal: My policy has been to not tell anyone when we are doing a cycle because I don't want the questions. My hope is that while it is unlikely I will one day find out I am pregnant without treatment, I would like to be able to tell our families and friends when I am ready rather than having people waiting anxiously for an answer, its too much added pressure and I put enough on myself as it is. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/surviving-the-tww-if-style#post-1602039 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 11:38:23 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 1602039@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I read this yesterday and forgot to reply! I think it's a great article. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/surviving-the-tww-if-style#post-1601998 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 11:30:34 +0000 BSB 1601998@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Happygal: Yeah, I know what you mean. I love that my sister is supportive of my IF struggle, but she has a few times asked me if I was pregnant and of course, I always tell her when I will find out... which means she asks me around the time of the BFN, which is not the best time. I should stop telling people what CD I'm on. Although, I'm on FF, so people see it anyway. My sister is just curious and trying to be supportive by it. So I can't be mad at her. (Which I'm not usually am. I just upset that I'm still not pregnant.) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/surviving-the-tww-if-style#post-1600371 Tue, 29 Apr 2014 17:31:43 +0000 Happygal 1600371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm about to head out, so I'll have to read this later tonight. Looking forward to reading their tips! </p> <p>I've been trying to figure out how to deal with (the very few) people who know we're gearing up for an IUI. I like to have some support, but if it is successful, I won't want to tell anyone until we're nearing the end of the first trimester. So I've been trying to figure out how to politely say, "Don't ask if I'm pregnant!" I don't want to feel like I have to lie about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/surviving-the-tww-if-style#post-1600358 Tue, 29 Apr 2014 17:23:44 +0000 spaniellove 1600358@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: Will wall you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/surviving-the-tww-if-style#post-1600357 Tue, 29 Apr 2014 17:23:06 +0000 BSB 1600357@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@spaniellove: You had an IF coach? I didn't know! How did you find them? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/surviving-the-tww-if-style#post-1600351 Tue, 29 Apr 2014 17:17:03 +0000 spaniellove 1600351@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Rehearsing your responses is helpful, not just with the TWW but for many aspects of IF. I feel like I remember my IF coach making me do that with her for instance before a consult. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/surviving-the-tww-if-style#post-1600340 Tue, 29 Apr 2014 17:09:07 +0000 BSB 1600340@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This has some good ideas.</p> <p><a href="http://www.resolve.org/support-and-services/pregnancy-after-infertility/surviving-the-2-week-wait.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.resolve.org/support-and-services/pregnancy-after-infertility/surviving-the-2-week-wait.html</a></p> <p>Tell people 'no news is bad news' so people aren't asking me if I'm pregnant around the time of my BFN.</p> <p>What do you think of this link? </p>