Hellobee Boards Topic: Thank yous for postpartum meal train

Hellobee Boards Topic: Thank yous for postpartum meal train https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 14 May 2026 15:16:33 +0000 catomd00 on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452329 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 21:38:41 +0000 catomd00 2452329@https://boards.hellobee.com/ People who organize a me train are probably not the type to get upset about not receiving a written thank you. The point is to make your life easier! I wouldn't worry about it and I'm very pro-thank you note! ElbieKay on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452275 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 20:28:49 +0000 ElbieKay 2452275@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Download the Ink app. Send a thank you postcard from the app. Use a photo of the baby. Do this while you are nursing. The fee includes postage. You queue it up via the app, and they mail it for you. MrsF on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452257 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 20:06:36 +0000 MrsF 2452257@https://boards.hellobee.com/ People from my MOMS club (mostly who I didn't know) participated in a meal train for us after DS's birth. I sent each person a facebook message thanking them. It helped me to connect with some new friends. babypugs on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452254 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 20:01:57 +0000 babypugs 2452254@https://boards.hellobee.com/ No way! I heartily thank in person and usually follow up with a text talking about how yummy it was. Shoot, if I'd had time to write and send thoughtful thank you notes, I'd have had the time to cook a meal ! LCTBQE on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452245 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 19:49:52 +0000 LCTBQE 2452245@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @Ms maths: @Corduroy: love the husband solution! but agreed, a nice text message or short email saying they appreciated it is all I'd expect for a casserole or having Thai food sent over or something. to me writing a real thank you note is more work than just making spaghetti yourself. Ms maths on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452227 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 19:09:48 +0000 Ms maths 2452227@https://boards.hellobee.com/ My husband took care of the thank yous, by email. Kemma on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452199 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 18:28:57 +0000 Kemma 2452199@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I'd be happy to just get a text / email or phone call! blackbird on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452197 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 18:21:04 +0000 blackbird 2452197@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I didn't have addresses, because mine came from MOPS moms, so I sent texts. Zbug on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452184 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 17:52:49 +0000 Zbug 2452184@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Text or email! daniellemybelle on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452182 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 17:43:56 +0000 daniellemybelle 2452182@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @Foodnerd81: I know - I always feel a little bad when I get a thank you note for this type of stuff. Same for flowers or food when there has been a death. I didn't do this to add to your to do list! I think it is cultural though because we are from the South and my mom raised me to write thank you notes for EV-ER-Y-THING. She made sure to remind me to write all my thank you notes for food brought when LO was born the same week. So I don't think you should be obligated at all but I just subconsciously expect it I guess because that's what I was used to. I really do think a text or an email is fine, though. Or I've appreciated when folks make the point to say next time you see each other, "Oh, that meal you brought was so delicious, we scarfed it up!" or something like that. Charm54 on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452166 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 17:18:45 +0000 Charm54 2452166@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I thank in person when we get it and then send a text after we've had the meal "thank you so much for the chili, it was so delicious and so nice not to have to cook with a newborn." Foodnerd81 on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452154 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 17:01:17 +0000 Foodnerd81 2452154@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I would be slightly upset if I received a thank you for a meal! People do it to make your life easier. I think an in person thank you, and a text or email if you didn't get to say it in person, is plenty. youboots on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452132 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 16:18:52 +0000 youboots 2452132@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I think a text acknowledging their efforts would be plenty. sleepybear on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452131 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 16:17:51 +0000 sleepybear 2452131@https://boards.hellobee.com/ It's nice if you can write them, but I don't think anyone expects them from a new mom. Of the moms I've taken meals to, I think I've gotten thank you's from a little less than half and often they were combined with shower gift thanks. In person thanks or a quick text is perfectly fine. skipper2010 on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452123 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 16:07:48 +0000 skipper2010 2452123@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I would just send a text or email. I would definitely want to thank them, but no new mom has time for formal thank you's. At least I didn't... Lol tofuwad on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452122 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 16:04:52 +0000 tofuwad 2452122@https://boards.hellobee.com/ My husband sent out a mass email for everyone involved. And a particular one to the person who organized the whole thing. hellobeeboston on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452118 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 15:59:33 +0000 hellobeeboston 2452118@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I wrote thank you's for the gifts & the food we received, if you can find a couple minutes I think it's nice, but I'm sure it wouldn't matter too much if you don't. birdofafeather on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452116 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 15:59:10 +0000 birdofafeather 2452116@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I've never mailed thank you a or received a mailed thank you for meals. Text, in person, quick email of thanks! Corduroy on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452110 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 15:52:05 +0000 Corduroy 2452110@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I think it's nice if you can manage but absolutely not expected by anyone that has had kids. I think the in person thank you is enough. Text thank you is great too. If you really want written thank yous done they would be a great job for your partner. The only written thank you I've gotten was from the non-birthing partner. She ate the meal too! DesertDreams88 on "Thank yous for postpartum meal train" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/thank-yous-for-postpartum-meal-train#post-2452103 Sat, 06 Feb 2016 15:44:24 +0000 DesertDreams88 2452103@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We have had or will have about 10 people bringing us meals for the 2-3 weeks postpartum.... Should I be writing thank you cards for this? Is that an expectation? I mean, theoretically I could... but the thought of writing them out, looking up addresses, writing & stamping the envelopes..... just sounds tiring. I totally will, though, if it's an etiquette thing. When they visit, they usually stay for an hour or so and I thank them in person.