https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 17 Jun 2026 10:44:49 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1907128 Mon, 20 Oct 2014 07:48:49 +0000 bpcmarj 1907128@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This is exactly how I felt when P weaned. Just one day she was done and I will never ever forget our last nursing session. Babies don't keep!! :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1907030 Mon, 20 Oct 2014 00:51:41 +0000 birdofafeather 1907030@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: yeah, i totally get your idea. i allow myself to get frustrated, but i also want to try to be in the moment. this poem reminds me of our last week of BFing. we were down to once a day before bedtime, sometimes every other. for some reason that week she was super fussy and grumpy, so i decided to try to nurse her midmorning and she did and then fell asleep. i sat there for a bit like the newborn days and let her rest. i even took a picture because i thought, this NEVER happens anymore! later that week, i tried to make our "last time" special but she nursed her for a minute and then asked for books before bedtime. each of those times was what they were supposed to be, so i'm glad i soaked up that time that she REALLY needed me in that way. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1907026 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 23:56:19 +0000 Mrs. Deer 1907026@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: being sleep deprived probably isn't helping, but seriously sitting here bawling. That is so sweet, definitely need reminders like that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906993 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 22:27:31 +0000 NurseMommy 1906993@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No no no no no no no. My baby is NOT growing up. </p> <p>@Mae: I had this thought too. My mom would think I was nuts though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906941 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 20:57:15 +0000 Boogs 1906941@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm done having babies so this makes me extra :crying: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906921 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 20:32:42 +0000 Mae 1906921@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>... and suddenly I want to call my mom and tell her I'm sorry I grew up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906904 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 20:13:42 +0000 sorrycharlie 1906904@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Applesandbananas: I get frustrated too. But I kept it on my phone to help me *to* feel the mom guilt once in awhile if that makes sense? Like I think some days, yea, I need time to veg on my phone while she plays...but some days I definitely should feel guilty about refreshing Facebook ten times because *I'm* bored. If that makes any sense? Lol. Sounds easier in my head :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906895 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 19:45:38 +0000 Applesandbananas 1906895@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Even though I find it to be a beautifully written poem, with a heartfelt sentiment... It totally sends my mom guilt into overdrive. Like I shouldn't ever feel guilty for being frustrated at mealtime and stuff, since someday it'll be over. </p> <p>I know LO will grow up, but I'm only human. Sometimes I get really frustrated a lot of the things mentioned. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906869 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 19:28:17 +0000 Pancakes 1906869@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH's grandma gave us a book with a similar theme: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Let-Me-Hold-You-Longer/dp/1414389876/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1413764849&#038;sr=8-1&#038;keywords=let+me+hold+you+longer+by+karen+kingsbury" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/Let-Me-Hold-You-Longer/dp/1414389876/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1413764849&#038;sr=8-1&#038;keywords=let+me+hold+you+longer+by+karen+kingsbury</a></p> <p>It even gets to DH! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906768 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 17:04:51 +0000 mamimami 1906768@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DEPRESS-O-RAMA. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906621 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 13:16:07 +0000 redeyedtreefr0g 1906621@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope!<br /> Couldn't do it, made it partway through the first bit and then hit that X to close the window. Don't need to cry for something legitimate after I almost cried for something ridiculous this morning. </p> <p>In the "Land Before Time"s Duckie voice:<br /> Nope nope nope! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906590 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 12:21:14 +0000 sunny 1906590@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ahh!!!! So true. Tears here!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906565 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 11:38:26 +0000 artsyfartsy 1906565@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Okay I can't handle this!! Tears! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906545 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 11:00:48 +0000 sorrycharlie 1906545@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ok issues w my browser lol! Working on image </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/the-last-time-poem#post-1906544 Sun, 19 Oct 2014 11:00:00 +0000 sorrycharlie 1906544@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This made me cry. You're warned. :)</p> <p><a href="http://www.bellebebes.co.uk/2014/08/the-last-time/" rel="nofollow">http://www.bellebebes.co.uk/2014/08/the-last-time/</a></p> <p>I am having serious issues uploading from my phone, for some reason. All the links and buttons are MIA. so I can't get it any bigger - link above!!</p> <p>[attach=1296/14/ndp8ly.283x600.The-Last-Time-poem.jpg] </p>