https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 13 Apr 2026 20:01:53 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701997 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 23:49:16 +0000 owlteach 1701997@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I didn't do anything for DH, but I did post the picture that @swedishfish: posted on facebook. We aren't "out" with most people, but we did lose my dad not that long ago.</p> <p>This is our second father's day without my dad, and we went to a wedding last night with my mom and her new boyfriend, this was the first time I've seen her with a man other than my dad and I had a really nice run-in with a lady from our community where she tried to interrogate me about why we don't have children yet. Needless to say, it's been a rough weekend :( DH has been nothing but a saint through it all! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701904 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 21:09:24 +0000 macintosh 1701904@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just gave DH a Father's Day card and he loved it. He was so sweet, he even asked to re-read it and hang it up. He said I'll make a great mother someday. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701659 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 15:34:11 +0000 FaithFertility 1701659@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Happygal: that made me cry ; ( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701651 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 15:21:45 +0000 Cherrybee 1701651@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@swedishfish: That's so beautiful. </p> <p> :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701564 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 13:43:28 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 1701564@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I basically said happy father's day to my dad, and then wished a happy day if they could have one, for whoever finds this day difficult for whatever reason. </p> <p>I think DH is handling it better than I handled mother's day. He still thinks it sucks though! Ugh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701395 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 10:18:37 +0000 LAZB 1701395@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@swedishfish: I really like that, it's very fitting for our current situation. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701364 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 09:22:26 +0000 Snowdrop 1701364@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@swedishfish: i really like that one. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701362 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 09:20:59 +0000 Happygal 1701362@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I gave my husband a card last year. He's pretty private, so that was the right thing to do for him. I just saw the other day that he's been keeping it under his keyboard. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701361 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 09:18:48 +0000 BSB 1701361@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LemonLong: Oh, I'm pretty vocal about our IF on Facebook. I think everyone on our list would understand it. If they think we are expecting, I'll tell them that we aren't.</p> <p>@swedishfish: Oh, I saw that version posted for Mother's Day. Thanks for posting that one! </p> <p>@Leialou: :heart: to you and your DH today. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701358 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 09:14:01 +0000 Trailmix 1701358@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Love to all your your DHs who will surely be fathers one day! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701328 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 08:16:48 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 1701328@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know if I'm going to do anything. My miscarriage just happened. It feels too soon for me. I am going to give DH a lot of attention and make sure he's ok seeing all the Father's Day stuff. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701314 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 07:58:16 +0000 swedishfish 1701314@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Infertility Sucks shared this picture on Facebook. I love it. </p> [attach=2972/14/n77o14.600x421.image.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701291 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 07:19:27 +0000 LemonLong 1701291@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Well I understand what you are getting at, just reading that as a stranger made it sound like you guys were expecting. If both your fb's are only super close people they may get it, but I would expect to see some people not understanding and posting "congratulations!" I think this would go better as a personal card to your DH then a Facebook post. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/this-fathers-day-with-those-of-us-with-if#post-1701285 Sun, 15 Jun 2014 07:06:07 +0000 BSB 1701285@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What are you doing today for your SO?</p> <p>I'm thinking of writing something on FB. Still drafting it. </p> <p>I asked my DH and he said he will be fine reading all of the Father's Day posts.</p> <p>My draft so far...<br /> "I want to wish (name) a Happy Father's Day! I know he's not a father like some of you are, but I know in my heart that when that day comes, he will be a great father! So happy Pre-Father's day, (name)."</p> <p>Oh, I'll use this photo, too. </p> [attach=147/14/n77lq5.600x400.image.jpg]