https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 01 Jun 2026 12:16:40 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/to-bd-or-not-to-bd#post-1430150 Mon, 17 Feb 2014 21:23:31 +0000 ChiCalGoBee 1430150@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HolisticMama: Thanks for the reminder! I'll make sure both are present:-).</p> <p>Sperm count and morphology are normal as far as we know-we haven't had anything tested. I appreciate your input! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/to-bd-or-not-to-bd#post-1429907 Mon, 17 Feb 2014 19:37:42 +0000 HolisticMama 1429907@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Do we know if DH has normal sperm count and morphology?<br /> I think EOD is a pretty sound strategy. </p> <p>Also- lingerie or candles can always help DH feel less like a stud horse. ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/to-bd-or-not-to-bd#post-1429903 Mon, 17 Feb 2014 19:34:15 +0000 ChiCalGoBee 1429903@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Crystal: Thanks for your input. DH just informed me he thinks he is getting sick...hoping he can power through BD anyway!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/to-bd-or-not-to-bd#post-1429894 Mon, 17 Feb 2014 19:26:32 +0000 Crystal 1429894@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChiCalGoBee: I definitely think two is better than one... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/to-bd-or-not-to-bd#post-1429846 Mon, 17 Feb 2014 18:33:22 +0000 ChiCalGoBee 1429846@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LindsayInNY: Thanks! I think so, too, but it feels like such a big decision to make when O seems on its way! FX that AF stays away, and that your BFP is still on its way. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/to-bd-or-not-to-bd#post-1429844 Mon, 17 Feb 2014 18:32:26 +0000 ChiCalGoBee 1429844@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMccarthy: Unclear. It's wet...had some EWCM on Friday, and BDed then, but haven't since then. Hoping wet is enough to hold 'em in!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/to-bd-or-not-to-bd#post-1429812 Mon, 17 Feb 2014 17:43:50 +0000 LindsayInNY 1429812@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would think two chances would be better than one! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/to-bd-or-not-to-bd#post-1429811 Mon, 17 Feb 2014 17:42:42 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1429811@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>tonight and wed. EOD will increase your chances of having some spermies ready for the egg. what is your CM telling you? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/to-bd-or-not-to-bd#post-1429798 Mon, 17 Feb 2014 17:36:36 +0000 ChiCalGoBee 1429798@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry for the pun-I'm an English major, so Shakespeare runs deep in my bones.</p> <p>Here's the scenario...I'd written off this cycle before it even began, because my last cycle was really, really strange. I Od very late for me (CD 19), had a 1-day period (yes, really), and knew I'd be away from my husband CD 16-19 this cycle. Lo and behold, my CBFM has had me on "high" fertility for 6 days, and the photo below shows that I (think?) I should get a smiley/positive OPK in the not-too-distant future. I'm headed out of town Thursday, which hopefully will be after O or on O based on all my "technology" and CM/BBT. I can either BD tonight and Weds, or just tomorrow. What would you do?</p> <p>*I know BD the next three days seems like an "easy" answer, but I'm trying to avoid making hubby feel like a "stud horse," which he's indicated to me is stressing him out. I figure either two BDs with a day in between or one tomorrow might be better. </p> [attach=4643/14/n15w52.600x448.unnamed-1.jpg]