https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 08 May 2026 22:46:11 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541593 Wed, 04 May 2016 20:39:52 +0000 winniebee 2541593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: I'm with you. I try to follow the principles that I like. And then my 4 year old intentionally head buts by 17mo and I lose my shit. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541570 Wed, 04 May 2016 20:20:34 +0000 catomd00 2541570@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No bad kids and no drama discipline. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541554 Wed, 04 May 2016 20:07:44 +0000 Foodnerd81 2541554@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@regberadaisy: glad it's not just me! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541552 Wed, 04 May 2016 20:06:56 +0000 Foodnerd81 2541552@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@math.nerd: I don't do everything by these books, but I hear you on the good/ bad thing. My second baby is much easier than my first was and I keep hearing how "good" she is. I do correct people because my toddler is often listening in. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541550 Wed, 04 May 2016 20:06:21 +0000 regberadaisy 2541550@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: 😂😂😂 this is basically me. I agree with some of her theories. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541541 Wed, 04 May 2016 20:00:50 +0000 winniebee 2541541@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@math.nerd: sounds like she will be a great match for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541369 Wed, 04 May 2016 16:19:53 +0000 math.nerd 2541369@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: @winniebee: @snowjewelz: Sounds like we have a winner! :-) I also like the title of her book! I always try to correct my extended family when they refer to my son as being "good" or "bad". I'm not a dictator about it, but I think hearing "he's so good" gives him license to do "bad" things and hearing "he's a bad kid" is just awful because he's usually just expressing an emotion! (mostly the emotion is "pissed off") :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541357 Wed, 04 May 2016 16:09:33 +0000 snowjewelz 2541357@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm a fan of Janet Lansbury too! I listen to her podcast, audio books and read her blog! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541354 Wed, 04 May 2016 16:07:33 +0000 winniebee 2541354@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No Bad Kids, by Janet Lansbury. Her audio book is awesome. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541351 Wed, 04 May 2016 16:06:14 +0000 Foodnerd81 2541351@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Have you read Janet lansbury blog or listened to her podcasts? I think she would be up your ally. I agree with her in theory, then my toddler pushes my buttons like crazy and I get mad at the toddler AND Janet Lansbury. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/toddler-discipline-recommendations#post-2541346 Wed, 04 May 2016 16:03:39 +0000 math.nerd 2541346@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My 28 month old is starting to show signs of "independence" (let's call it that). I was wondering if anyone out there has read any interesting books or seen any interesting approaches to discipline that you'd recommend.<br /> I believe that right now is a critical time in developing my son's sense of right and wrong and how to behave in society and I don't want to muck it up by letting him get away with pushing my (and my husband's) buttons just because he's so young and adorable!<br /> Things I believe in:<br /> Acknowledging his feelings<br /> Trying to determine the real cause of the outburst<br /> Consequences should reflect the "crime"<br /> That I need to be consistent and firm!</p> <p>Any recommendations out there to help me navigate this stuff? Thanks! </p>