https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 28 May 2026 18:44:06 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2065022 Wed, 11 Feb 2015 16:17:26 +0000 edelweiss 2065022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LuLu Mom: phew! although that's weird about the FB tiff. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2064926 Wed, 11 Feb 2015 15:46:06 +0000 littlejoy 2064926@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>As long as she's not using daycare time to FB, ha. I'm so sorry you were scared, but I was hopeful that was the situation. It's so hard to find a caregiver for 2 kiddos, and it sounds like you've found a good place. Hopefully she finds a replacement who's really passionate about caring for babies! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2064882 Wed, 11 Feb 2015 15:36:11 +0000 LuLu Mom 2064882@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: Yeah I'm happy too, now I just wish they were being a little more mature about the split. Both parties are posting ridiculous things on FB, although they have unfriended each other, the rest of us still see the digs at each other...they are in their 40s...get it together. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2064876 Wed, 11 Feb 2015 15:34:27 +0000 mediagirl 2064876@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LuLu Mom: I'm glad it wasn't anything else. I'm sorry they're losing that helper, though!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2062397 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 11:24:44 +0000 LuLu Mom 2062397@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks everyone, hormonal pregnancy woman over here! She actually text me and said "so I guess you've seen facebook, that's what I wanted to talk to you about, we can discuss it more this afternoon." Sooooo yes I was over paranoid and our spot should be secure. I feel bad, she's upset they worked together for 15 years and she didn't give her any notice :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2062320 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 10:57:43 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 2062320@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would just go into it thinking she's letting you know about the helper leaving. Good luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2062233 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 10:17:41 +0000 Mamaof2 2062233@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Since you saw that she was leaving on FB I would assume she wants to talk to you about that in person and not losing your spot! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2062166 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 09:48:50 +0000 yellowbird 2062166@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>She probably just wants to give you the details. I wouldn't worry right now! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2062165 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 09:47:56 +0000 mediagirl 2062165@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Deep breaths. I know this is stressful!!! I'm hoping she just wants to talk to you about the person or persons she is thinking of hiring to replace their current helper. Also, has she told you personally about the helper leaving? If not, maybe she wants to talk to you about that, too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2062163 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 09:47:12 +0000 blackbird 2062163@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I definitely don't think that's the case. Maybe she just wants to talk to you about the situation in which her helper is leaving and give you some info on how she plans on going about hiring a new one? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/too-soon-to-freak-out#post-2062159 Tue, 10 Feb 2015 09:44:55 +0000 LuLu Mom 2062159@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So, I just saw on FB that our in home daycare providers long time fulltime helper is "moving on." I was shocked but not all that surprised as I knew they had been having some issues. However, I just sent our daycare lady a text saying "hey will you be around tonight to discuss my maternity leave &amp; new baby?" And her response "yes, is everything okay?" and I said "Yes :) Just wanted to has out some details since we are about a month away." Her response "I needed to talk to you anyway." </p> <p>Now I'm scared, I'm about 5 1/2 weeks away from delivery and I'm scared I'm about to lose my daycare for new baby and with that my toddler. I'm trying to not read into it and hope that's not the case. I just don't want to be SOL right before I deliver! My husband thinks I'm reading too much into it and maybe I am...help me and talk me down or do I have a right to be nervous? </p>