https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 03 May 2026 08:21:32 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1348568 Wed, 15 Jan 2014 09:03:47 +0000 Snowdrop 1348568@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babycanuck: I hate to think of you upset like that!</p> <p>We DTD last night and it turns out it would have been great baby making BD but.... DH didn't finish. I actually don't feel too upset about it, if it doesn't happen knight though I will definitly be a total sobbing mess! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1345406 Tue, 14 Jan 2014 10:53:37 +0000 Mrs. Cookie 1345406@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You are definitely not alone! I've totally cried when the hubby couldn't BD three days in a row for me, I was certain it was the end of the world. But then I accepted that every other day is fine and realized I was over-reacting a bit. But yea, when you're ready to get pregnant, the tears will flow!!! Hugs to you!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1343672 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 19:10:32 +0000 babycanuck 1343672@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can never convince hubs to have random-sometime-during-the-day-before-bedtime-fun-times....but I'm the boring one? lol</p> <p>:-( There have been many many MANY nights in the last year where I've just hauled my sorry self into the shower and cried so he didn't know how upset I was. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1343425 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 17:43:30 +0000 mrs. 64 1343425@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've totally done that. Once I cried like a crazy person, we got in a fight, he said let's dtd, and then I was worried that our baby was conceived in a fit of crazy. (Yeah, it wasn't). Hang in there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1342546 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 14:34:44 +0000 Crystal 1342546@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It can be so hard to remain positive. </p> <p>♥ and hugs to everyone that needs it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1342445 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 14:17:26 +0000 BSB 1342445@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs. Yeah, I've been through it. Sadly, I can't show much emotion when we miss an opportunity because I don't want to add more stress to DH. He has had trouble producing a sample for an IUI and all I have to be is supportive. Luckily, our next IUI will involve freezing his sperm ahead of time so if he has trouble providing a fresh sample, we can use the back up sperm in the freezer. It's so hard taking all the meds for IUI and to find out we have to wait til next month. It is what it is. IF is so hard. All I can do is hope that it will be next month. This is going to be our last IUI before going to IVF, so I'm really hopeful that 2014 will be our year. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1342388 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 14:06:08 +0000 HolisticMama 1342388@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@dc yoga bee: LOL! I'm not into sex either. I literally think we have DTD more these last two months than in the ENTIRE previous year. :shocked: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1342080 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 13:05:40 +0000 LovelyPlum 1342080@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@swedishfish: hugs to you too, Mama! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1342079 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 13:05:36 +0000 dc yoga bee 1342079@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Our first month ttc actually. I got my positive smiley opk, and Dh didn't have time in the morning before work, and I was going out of town. So, i told him its HIS fault if we didnt conceive, and he must not really want a baby. Not my proudest or nicest moment.</p> <p>ETA: and this was coming from the girl who is just not that into sex. So he felt TOTALLY used :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1342074 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 13:04:50 +0000 LovelyPlum 1342074@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep! Been there, done that. The first month we TTC, I had to go on a work trip the day I ovulated. We DTD two days before, and we were going to on the morning I had to leave, but DH didn't feel well. I sobbed. I was a wreck, and DH was so, so confused, because he thought we were starting off slowly. My emotions missed that memo ;)</p> <p>Crazytown has a bigger population than you think :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1342065 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 13:03:46 +0000 cmbknyc 1342065@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>HUGS! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341976 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 12:45:53 +0000 mrs bunchy 1341976@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p> [attach=4307/14/mzcpch.400x600.image.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341825 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 12:02:19 +0000 erwoo 1341825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>TTC is so stressful! I'm sorry you had to go through that. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341818 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:59:54 +0000 Crystal 1341818@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HolisticMama: @Foodnerd81: + me</p> <p>Crazy Town Population: 3</p> <p>We should get jackets. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341773 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:48:05 +0000 HolisticMama 1341773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: + Me. Population: 2. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341760 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:45:04 +0000 Foodnerd81 1341760@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH had a week long business trip turned 2 week long business trip in the middle of the very first cycle that we started trying. The first cycle, when the timing wouldn't have even been perfect if we'd conceived. I considered, briefly, flying across the country for the weekend. And cried about it a little. Because we missed the first chance after we pulled the goalie. Crazy town, population, me. </p> <p>So yeah I can understand. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341754 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:42:59 +0000 HolisticMama 1341754@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Whew. I'm so glad that I'm not alone. </p> [attach=4604/14/mzcmfn.320x214.you-are-not-alone.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341748 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:41:11 +0000 swedishfish 1341748@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I did this yesterday and we aren't even actively TTC. I just wanted to see if we even could make a baby naturally. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341708 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:31:03 +0000 Adira 1341708@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh, I have cried soooooo many times when Hubs wouldn't just "do me" in the search to have a baby! TTC is the WORST!!! &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341687 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:27:05 +0000 Crystal 1341687@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Snowdrop: lol @ TShirt</p> <p>I agree with the others, we've a been there!!! Totally normal, and one day, laughable. It really sucks to feel like your entire month is based on a single moment. ::hugs:: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341661 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:21:31 +0000 Snowdrop 1341661@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Been there, done that, didn't buy the t-shirt as I don't think many outside those TTC would understand and so it'd attract really funny looks. Don't worry honey, it's normal. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341609 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:09:58 +0000 Littlebit 1341609@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It happens to the best of us honey! I'm sorry. It really does suck. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341603 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:08:19 +0000 mrsjyw 1341603@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>HUGS. I think we've all been there at one point, (those actively TTC and those struggling with IF, etc.) where every missed opportunity IS a big deal... good luck to you in the days to come!!! baby dust your way! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341584 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 11:03:07 +0000 Mrs. Oatmeal 1341584@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh, I'm so sorry. I totally know that feeling. You WILL laugh about it someday! But seriously...when DH had to go on a business trip the DAY I got a positive OPK, I cried. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugh-just-a-teary-vent-to-friends#post-1341568 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 10:59:18 +0000 HolisticMama 1341568@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're CD13. Prime time for some baby making time. I tried to wake DH up earlier to DTD, but he seemed tired, so I let him sleep. He knows I have to work pretty darn late tonight. He later came down and said he didn't have the time.</p> <p>...And what did I do?<br /> Well- as any emotional woman who is desperate to have a baby would do- I cried.<br /> I cried, because DH wouldn't "do me in the kitchen." </p> <p>Oh.My.Gawd. </p> <p>What am I turning into? LOL. :: deep breath :: Yes. I know I will probably die laughing about this someday...</p> <p>I know that the little swimmers can live 3-5 days, but since our RE said we have such little chance in conceiving naturally- I really want to make sure we are trying to do our best. </p> <p>Please tell me that I'm not the only one who has shed a tear over a lost opportunity to make a baby.</p> <p>[attach=4604/14/mzckeu.500x348.download--2-.jpg] </p>