https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 11 Nov 2026 05:47:36 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-761588 Sun, 05 May 2013 01:01:13 +0000 Grace 761588@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I find this all a little odd. To me, the vagina does look weird. As does a penis and noses and knees. Body parts, when taken on their own are often quite odd. It's when you take the whole package and add some personality to it, that it becomes attractive. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-761483 Sat, 04 May 2013 21:23:59 +0000 DigAPony 761483@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Dapple Grey: yes, pornography is often cited as something that gives people unrealistic ideas about what women's bodies "should" look like. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-761479 Sat, 04 May 2013 21:19:27 +0000 Dapple Grey 761479@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What i dont get is how women and men know about what the knitty gritty in terms of a vagina look like as in what looks good and bad???? Ive never seen other ladies parts that close so i wouldnt know what to compare it to! Is it porn that sets the standard for what is aesthetically pleasing? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-761402 Sat, 04 May 2013 20:12:18 +0000 .twist. 761402@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've definitely always been self conscious of my vag. I don't know why, no one has ever complained, I guess it's just one of my faults. I finally started to feel ok about it because my husband also thinks "she's" perfect, and then I got preggo and now my vag feels giant. *sigh*</p> <p>ETA: I would never get surgery though. I agree with one of the dudes in the article who said they aren't supposed to look pretty. I think the same about a dudes junk! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-761353 Sat, 04 May 2013 19:20:23 +0000 Beyond2 761353@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@scg00387: Wow! I didn't realize there were so many things you could do to it!!</p> <p>We really went back and forth about circumcising our son and decided against it. I never really considered the alternative for women! Being self conscious is one thing...actually wanting to change it is a whole other ball game! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-758418 Thu, 02 May 2013 20:15:13 +0000 immabeetoo 758418@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was googling about surgeons to see what sewing stomach muscles back together entails and ran across a page that had SO MANY different operations for vulvas. Like, trimming labia, puffing up labia, bleaching, "evening out". It was SO depressing, how would it even occur to someone that needed to be done??</p> <p>Great article! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-758319 Thu, 02 May 2013 19:56:22 +0000 runsyellowlites 758319@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beyond2: I'm with you... thankfully DH thinks "she's" gorgeous so I'm learning to get over it! lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-758291 Thu, 02 May 2013 19:51:22 +0000 Mrs. Pen 758291@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsMini: agree.</p> <p>never really thought much about this but I think it's a little out there... well not just a little :-P I don't see the draw but I guess I've never had personal insecurities about mine :-P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-758275 Thu, 02 May 2013 19:48:03 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 758275@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I opened the page and then closed it right away!!!! I get the point though: vaginas come in all shapes and sizes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-758148 Thu, 02 May 2013 19:23:12 +0000 MsMini 758148@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think this whole idea is just crazy! I honestly don't spend any time thinking of the appearance of my labia, seriously, if a man has an issue with the way he looks he can feel free to never go near it again.</p> <p>This is just as bad as people who get all keyed up over wether a man is circumcised or not (for the record, I think that is incredibly shallow as well). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ugly-vagina#post-758119 Thu, 02 May 2013 19:17:06 +0000 Beyond2 758119@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I for one have always been self conscious but I really thought this article was well written and gave me a little more confidence :) Have you ever felt self conscious about your own vagina? What do you think about this article? </p> <p><a href="http://www.elephantjournal.com/2012/05/your-ugly-vagina-is-normal-gorgeous-adult/" rel="nofollow">http://www.elephantjournal.com/2012/05/your-ugly-vagina-is-normal-gorgeous-adult/</a></p> <p>*Note: This article is graphic, but not raunchy. Not safe for work though! </p>