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<title>Hellobee Boards Topic: Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool</title>
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<title>Raindrop on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2312101</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2015 19:18:28 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Raindrop</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  I was actually trying to be friendly by asking if you were okay.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I did re-read everything.  A lot of people mostly commented that they were just too busy to make new friends, no one actually said they had &#34;enough friends&#34;.  In fact if you do a word search you are the only one that writes that on both pages of this thread accusing this group of saying that.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I did say I was already busy just trying to maintain the friendships I currently have to make room right now for more friends but doesn't mean to say I wasn't ever going to make room for new friends.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Also saying that you don't feel like *ANY* of us volunteer or donate anything is kind of mean... just saying.  I don't volunteer that much anymore but I use to volunteer a lot when I had more time (I even got the president award for doing more than 100 hours in a given year) and we have set amount in our budget for donations every year.  I can picture *almost* everyone on this thread giving time and money to help others.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Edit : this is the last comment I am going to write in this thread because I feel like maybe you might be trolling us.
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<title>lemondrop on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2312079</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2015 18:34:29 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  You are certainly entitled to your frustration/vent, but I think it's a bit of an extreme reaction to equate not wanting play dates to not holding doors open for other people.  There are a lot of great moms here and MUCH less snark than in other places online.  Not everyone is comfortable in social situations, we are all different. &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;We all have our priorities in life, and it's about finding others that line up with yours.  I love HB and have made some fantastic long distance friends here, it has evolved into a lot of fun on Instagram and we send each other texts when we are having a hard day or can ask a question at any time day or night.  It is what works in my life right now and I have zero guilt about that.
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<title>oliviaoblivia on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2312057</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2015 17:56:14 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  if this is how you approach a group of people trying to offer friendly advice I can't blame the other parents at your child's preschool for not wanting to spend time with you. This is an unusually civilized corner of the internet and the people that frequent these board are genuinely kind and friendly.&#60;br /&#62;
I'm sorry you're having a hard time making friends in your real life. If you treat those that have offered friendly advice here kindly I'm certain that you could make a friend or two. Unfortunately your attitude and rudeness is really unappealing. Good luck.
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<title>TerBA on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2312050</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2015 17:44:48 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TerBA</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@Raindrop: Perhaps you need to go back and read all the other posts, then.
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<title>Raindrop on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2311857</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2015 13:56:28 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Raindrop</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  Are you okay?  Did something happened recently?  &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I want to say your post seems a bit out of line because I don’t think people here said anything close to what you are thinking they said.  So I kind of get a feeling you are venting over something that happened to you recently?
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<title>mrbee on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2311837</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2015 13:42:17 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA: I've asked lots of daycare/preschool/elementary school parents for playdates and vice versa...  and we've had tons of playdates as a result!&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;On a side note, I don't find a lot of people on these boards overly self-absorbed or self-important...  I do think that a lot of working parents (with kids in daycare/preschool) are just busy.  That's probably a big factor here.  I try to be courteous and polite during pickup and dropoff, but sometimes I'm just in a big rush to get to my desk and/or start my work day!&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;We just had a joint birthday party for my kids and almost every single guest was a friend we've made at daycare, preschool or elementary school... so it's definitely possible to meet lots of close parenting friends from all of the above!
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<title>Adira on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2311807</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2015 13:14:11 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Adira</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  You said &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;&#34;Just because someone is asking you for a playdate doesn't mean they believe you are personally responsible for their child's wellbeing.&#34;&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;That seems to be contradicted by your previous statement of:&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;&#34;my child is an only child and doesn't have siblings at home to play with. That is why we need playdates. However, many parents don't care or even consider the loneliness of someone else's child. They only care about their own kid. Sad but true.&#34;&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Weren't you implying that you think parents SHOULD think about the potential loneliness of other children and should consider playdates for that reason (another kid's well-being, rather than their own child's)?&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Also, pretty sure no one implied that they thought they were the best of the best just because someone wanted a playdate with them... what made you think that?
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<title>TerBA on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2015 13:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Just because someone is asking you for a playdate doesn't mean they believe you are personally responsible for their child's wellbeing. It just means they are asking for a  playdate. If you decline, they have a right to feel somewhat disappointed over that. Even if you disagree with them feeling that way. &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Also, a mom wanting to be friendly with you doesn't mean she wants to be your BFF. Some of you need to understand that you are not all that. Also, stop assuming that the mom who wants playdates must not have any other women friends. She may not think you are a great person, just an average person like anyone else.  A parent asking you for a playdate doesn't mean they are stalking you. Stop being so self-absorbed.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;If you can't at least say hello and hold open doors for other parents at your kids school, then you have a serious personal problem.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I DO care about the wellbeing of other peoples children, and that's why I do volunteer work for my daughter's school. They have charity drives every where and I donate winter coats and personal hygiene items for those who can't afford. I volunteer to work in the school library once a week and volunteer for other school functions.  I can't picture any of you self-important ladies doing these things, but maybe one day you could think about it.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Also, for those of you who say you have enough friends. How long will that last? I am in my 40s now. I've lost several good friends to cancer already. Other friends have moved away, and some friendships have changed with time. You won't always have the same friends you have now, sorry. You might someday wish you'd made the effort to get to know more women.
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<title>lemondrop on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2289045</link>
<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2015 18:06:53 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I'm definitely right there with @Raindrop:  I try to be friendly and make small talk, but can be very shy until I get to know people.  I work from home and have an 18 month old in addition to my pre-schooler, so I'm usually rushing to complete an errand or two during school time or get him down for naptime so I can get some work done.  &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;My oldest started preschool right after spring break last year, many of the parents aren't extremely outgoing.  There was one super outgoing mom who I'd chat with at drop off and pick up.  We've tried for a few playdates, but our schedules don't mesh great or one of the kids got sick.  We are still working at it, but I really don't plan outside meetups or playdates more than sporadically anyway.  &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;If I had only one kid, I'd probably be game to do it more frequently, but with the needs of two kids, my job, and my husband, it unfortunately just isn't my first priority.  Swim class and mini sports class at our YMCA definitely provided more outgoing people with more opportunities to hang around with.
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<title>podomama on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2288987</link>
<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2015 16:17:12 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Hi ! I am the OP (original poster).  I'm glad to see this thread has been revived. lol.  &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;@mediagirl:  Good question.  Over the last year, I've gotten to somewhat know all of ONE mom - she is super friendly and nice.  We chat once in a while when we see eachother and we did go on one playdate but other than that she doesn't seem like she is all that interested in socializing outside of preschool. Like others have said, I just think she doesn't really have the need or desire for more friends or playdates, she's busy, etc...  As for all the other parents,  I've chatted with a few at the 2 or 3 birthday parties we've attended, but that's about it.  We even went to one boy's birthday party, I talked to his mom and everything, and now, she acts like she doesn't recognize me when I see her at the preschool.   My conclusion is most of the parents already have a good base of friends/family with kids and they don't have a need to reach out and make new friends - but honestly, to me, they come off rude if they can't even say hi or just make friendly chit cat.  Whatever. What can you do.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;@TerBa:  I can relate to you ... my son is an only child and we don't have a lot of family, nor cousins his age and all my close friend's kids are much older.  So I would love to find a mom who is in a similar situation whose kids gets along with my kid.  The problem is, making new mom friends is apparently very difficult and similar to dating ( like trying to find a boyfriend/spouse) lol.  &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I kept my son at the same preschool because he loved the teachers and he says he likes the kids.  I am just really hoping it isn't like this when my son goes to kindergarten !
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<title>jedeve on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2286951</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 22:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  I think you make a good point. Kids are lonely, and as parents I hope we are willing to help look out for all children, not just our own. My kids aren't in preschool yet (although the oldest did go to daycare.) I am kind of an introvert and could see myself avoiding play dates with classmates. But I'm sure my mom sucked it up and went to play dates for me with my friend even if she wasn't hoping to be the mom's BFF.
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<title>T.H.O.U. on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 21:20:45 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  i absolutely agree that I am not responsible for your child's play dates and social life. That's not anyone else's responsibility but the parents directly. you are responsible for the well being of your child. &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Now I will add that I do care about my child's classmates. But I can't always give up my family time and my responsibilities to my own family. If I were to set up a play date it would be because I would feel that it either would benefit my child not because your child doesn't have a sibling.
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<title>Smurfette on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool/page/2#post-2286909</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 21:20:08 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@catomd00:  exactly! I don't see my closest friends as much as I would like cause we are all so busy. So when I have time I want to see them and their kids. &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I will add I am always friendly to parents in the halls or classroom. I talk to a lot in the halls and class. Parents not even in her class.
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<title>sunny on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 21:17:36 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Totally agree that my child's well being is my responsibility and not other parents. We both work demanding full time jobs and we are friendly to the other parents we see at school but we don't go out of our way to set up weekend play dates with daycare friends because we have other friends we would like to see on weekends. &#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I don't think it's short sighted to not be 100% into making new friends constantly. Real and deep friendships take time and energy to nurture. We all have a limited amount of time each day. You could argue that by making new friends constantly you are letting older friendships go.
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<title>catomd00 on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 21:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>catomd00</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  for me, friendships are about quality not quantity. I'm an introvert so socialization is exhausting, even with family and close friends. Making new friends in adulthood can be difficult and time consuming. I have two very close friends. One of which I talk to every few months and see once a year. Neither of us have time in our lives for more. Quantity of time spent together doesn't make a friendship. It's not being &#34;cliquish&#34;, it's just reality. I'd rather spend the time with my bff whom I never see rather than a new person i don't know very well.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Also, I was one of the only FTM in my daughters daycare class which I think makes a difference. Most BTDT moms probably already have their established friend group and not looking for mom friends as much as FTMs are...
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<title>Smurfette on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 21:12:40 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@pinkcupcake:  completely agree. My kid is at day care for 10 hours a day. On the weekends we spend time with her. We play with our friends kids, cousins, etc.  We have had a play date with one kid from her class cause they are obsessed with each other and both asked for it. But the Mom and I had become friends. I don't have a desire to set up one with any of the other kids. I want nothing but the best for the kids in her class but it isn't my responblity to be their social calendar.
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<title>catomd00 on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 21:07:17 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  I think for a lot of working parents, &#34;play dates&#34; happen at school. Weekends are short and reserved for family time for most of the families i know with 2 parents working. Unless we are friendly with the parents, too so it can be a joint &#34;play date&#34; for the whole family! When I worked part time, play dates were during my days off so we didn't take away from DHs time with her. She's only 18 months so can't really express desire for a play date yet anyways...&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I was also too busy flying in and out during drop off and pick up to have time for small talk. But, I do exercise common courtesy and always say hi to people:
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<title>pinkcupcake on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 21:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  I'm not really sure why my child's loneliness / wellbeing is the responsibility of some other parent. My daughter is an only child. I'm a SAHM. We go to preschool 3x a week for 3 hours each time. That's a good amount of socialization for us. If we have additional play dates on top of that, that's great - but we keep busy enough throughout the week that it's not necessary. I would never, ever imply that anyone OWES me or my daughter anything. My husband and I are the only ones that are responsible for her wellbeing. Nobody else.
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<title>Truth Bombs on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 20:57:17 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  In the time it takes me to drop off and pick up my kid from preschool, no, I'm not contemplating whether little Johnny in her class needs me to be responsible for filling up his social calendar. It doesn't mean I hope he's a failure in life. It just means I have other things going on to worry about.
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<title>TerBA on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 20:43:07 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TerBA</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;Truth Bombs, do you really not care at all about the well being of other peoples children? Wow, I can't believe you actually admitted that.
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<title>TerBA on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 20:36:49 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>TerBA</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I think its very short sighted and cliquish to say &#34;I have enough friends already&#34;. You never know when your friends are going to move away, or no longer have as much time to spend with  you, or whatever. You should really be open to making new friends, because you never know, you might just find yourself all alone some day.
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<title>snowjewelz on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 13:18:01 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;I agree that not everyone is there to make friends, find playdates, etc, but not responding to someone that said hi to you, not thanking someone that held the door for you.. That's  common courtesy!
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<title>Adira on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 13:09:44 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@looch:  Thanks for the clarification!  My son goes to daycare, so perhaps it is different, although our daycare also has preschool classes that are all day, just like the toddler and infant rooms, so I have viewed them as the same thing.  But you're right - there are other preschools that are for short period of time during the day that SAHPs use, so I can definitely see where those parents/kids might want playdates!
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<title>looch on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 12:55:28 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>looch</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;So one thing I have noticed is that there is a difference between day care and preschool....in our preschool, which only has programs that are a max of 4 hours, parents are actually looking to socialize outside of the program.  This is my son's second year and he's had regular play dates with several of the kids.  I think it's because there are more stay at home moms. When the kids get older, they also start asking for playdates.  I don't know where my son learned about it, but he regularly asks me if I know Lala's mom's cell phone number to call her for a play date.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;When he was in a daycare program where both parents were working, he was only invited to birthday parties.  We didn't have a single playdate that year.
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<title>ShootingStar on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 12:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  My child plays with the other kids at daycare for 8+ hours a day.  The 2 hours he's awake at home he doesn't need more socialization.  And on the weekends he does just fine with only us.  Every so often we see friends with kids, but we've never once gone out of our way to schedule a playdate.  We've also never been asked for one either.  I think the parents of kids in daycare have other fish to fry.
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<title>Raindrop on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 12:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Raindrop</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;As a person that might seem unfriendly.  I do try to smile and say hi and maybe chit chat with other mothers at places but I can relate to other moms that might not want to.  We don’t do daycare yet but we take LO to weekly gym classes and museums and general kid activities a lot.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;The concept of more friends is sort of paralyzing to me because friendships takes so much time and energy.  I know a lot of people don’t think that but for me it feels like that and so I just don’t want to open myself up for new friends.  I am already busy trying to maintain the friendships I currently have.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;I am definitely torn thinking I’m a bad person sometimes but I need to do what’s best for me.&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Though I am surprised you are meeting so many people like this.  I would think there would be at least one other person that would be open to a new friendship.  :)
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<title>Truth Bombs on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool#post-2286524</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 12:23:08 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Truth Bombs</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA: I don't think it's really sad that other parents are only focused on their own child's well being.  It's really not the responsibility of other parents to make sure your child has playmates. If you are looking for that kind of relationship I would seek out play groups where others are looking for the same thing.  I'm never outright rude to people at daycare and always say hello, but I really don't go beyond that.  We have a few families from school that we are really close to and we hang out all the time.  I'm really not looking for more friends for myself or LO, and our schedule is really busy, so I would probably refuse play date requests from other kids.  I don't think that makes me a terrible person.
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<title>Adira on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool#post-2286522</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 12:18:49 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Adira</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  We don't do playdates either.  My kid plays with all the other kids at school all day long!  He's there 9 hours a day, five days a week, so I feel like he's getting plenty of socialization!  He doesn't need his weekends packed too.  It's nice to just unwind and spend time as a family on the weekends (and half of those are spent socializing with family anyway).&#60;/p&#62;
&#60;p&#62;Although I'd like to think I don't come across as unfriendly or hostile!  I just don't have time to hang out and chat or do playdates!
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<title>Mamaof2 on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool#post-2286516</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 12:11:40 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Mamaof2</dc:creator>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA: how old is your LO?  Have you had any birthday parties for her?  I find that's a great way to meet and socialize with other parents.
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<title>T.H.O.U. on "Unfriendly mamas at LO's preschool"</title>
<link>https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/unfriendly-mamas-at-los-preschool#post-2286515</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 12:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
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<description>&#60;p&#62;@TerBA:  If you are looking for may &#34;play date&#34; style places, have you tried things like story time at the library and such?  I feel like those are much more geared towards those looking for play time.
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