https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 07 Jul 2026 22:12:48 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1013666 Tue, 13 Aug 2013 13:50:44 +0000 NorCalWayfarer 1013666@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs &lt;3 </p> <p>It's so hard secretly going through loss -- I know other people aren't trying to be insensitive/rub it in my face, but I just feel like little things like this have been triggering a lot of emotion with me lately too. It's nice to have a supportive community here. Sadly it doesn't seem that loss is an uncommon experience. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1002452 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 22:11:04 +0000 PointeShoesTutus 1002452@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww. That's upsetting. I'd hide his feed for a while. Sorry for your loss :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1002033 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 20:49:48 +0000 Andrea 1002033@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:-( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1002017 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 20:47:54 +0000 MrsF 1002017@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That must be upsetting to see. I'm sorry :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1001976 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 20:41:34 +0000 jhd 1001976@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:( hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1001964 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 20:39:36 +0000 chopsuey 1001964@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:( I'm sorry. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1001953 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 20:38:32 +0000 birdofafeather 1001953@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i'm sorry. i would be upset too. i would definitely hide him from my feed. hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1001222 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 17:55:23 +0000 T.H.O.U. 1001222@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would totally feel the same way. I would block the updates for a while. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1001089 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 17:15:12 +0000 SugarplumsMom 1001089@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs! I'd feel the same way. I'd remove him from my feed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1001044 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 17:06:03 +0000 JessKas 1001044@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think being upset is a valid reaction. You know it's not their intention, but it still hurts. I agree with other PPs, hide his posts for a while! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1001027 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 17:01:55 +0000 stargal 1001027@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>big hugs, and you def have every right to feel upset! I would hide him on facebook for a while. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1001019 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 16:59:49 +0000 Ra 1001019@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1001017 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 16:59:24 +0000 Dandelion 1001017@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would feel the same way! Hide him for a while! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1000996 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 16:53:32 +0000 LuLu Mom 1000996@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry, it sucks I would hid him if it hurts too much! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1000730 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 15:55:53 +0000 Bao 1000730@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry, I would feel the same way! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1000725 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 15:54:49 +0000 swurlygurl 1000725@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's so lame - even though it's possible he has no idea.<br /> You're totally allowed to feel upset about it - so sorry!! :'( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1000721 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 15:54:33 +0000 MrsKoala 1000721@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hide him for a bit. It might help. And you do have a right to be upset if you feel that way! Your feelings are totally valid and I think anyone in your position would probably be upset. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1000713 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 15:52:34 +0000 BabyMats 1000713@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry..it would annoy me. I would hide him from the wall as well </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1000711 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 15:52:09 +0000 mlm2934 1000711@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Those feelings are there whether its right or wrong and that's ok!!! Before miscarriage, we had a top pick for the boy name, now my bestie is pregnant and it's the name she is going to use if its a boy. We had never ever ever talked about that name to each other, so she has no idea I wanted to use it, and I have no claim to it, but still is a bummer. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1000691 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 15:48:14 +0000 loveisstrange 1000691@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Im sorry. Id take him off your facebook wall for a while. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upset-but-know-i-have-no-right-to-be#post-1000678 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 15:45:59 +0000 Torchwood 1000678@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When I was pregnant, we called the baby Stormy, short for Stormageddon. We planned to be team green and wanted a name to use. I just found out today that my cousin got a puppy and that's what they named it. We're not terribly close, and I'm not even sure he's aware that's what we were calling the baby, so it's not even insensitive of him. But he posts about it on FB and seeing the name over and over is upsetting. Not complaining that he did it, since it was in no way wrong, but I'm still struggling a bit with it, and needed to just say something/get my feelings off my chest in a safe place. </p>