https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 11 Aug 2026 00:23:14 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upstairs-neighbours-fighting-get-involved#post-726466 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 17:26:20 +0000 LindsayInNY 726466@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@wheres_c: Ahh, okay. That's different then :) I would definitely contact management! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upstairs-neighbours-fighting-get-involved#post-726460 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 17:24:52 +0000 wheres_c 726460@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LindsayInNYC: actually we just moved in in Feb. It was a short term lease while SO figured out the job situation.</p> <p>@Dandelion: seems to be only one person yelling and cant hwar what they are saying.</p> <p>@Smurfette: management here doesnt seem very on top of things but worth a shot. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upstairs-neighbours-fighting-get-involved#post-726442 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 17:20:35 +0000 Dandelion 726442@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Can you hear exact words? Is there only one person yelling? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upstairs-neighbours-fighting-get-involved#post-726438 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 17:18:28 +0000 Smurfette 726438@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would call the management company. I had to before, had a neighbor that blasted music at 2 in the morning. The company would send her warnings and she finally got the message. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upstairs-neighbours-fighting-get-involved#post-726436 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 17:17:59 +0000 .twist. 726436@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@wheres_c: Hm.. and there is no one that could maybe hear them through the windows? Like another complex across the way? </p> <p>That is really tough. I try really hard not to get involved in people's arguments because everyone argues differently (sometimes that difference is yelling at the top of your lungs). Unless I saw something or heard threats/violence, I would stay out of it. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upstairs-neighbours-fighting-get-involved#post-726429 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 17:16:32 +0000 LindsayInNY 726429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Do you have a management company or landlord that you could make a noise complaint to? Honestly, if your lease is up in August, that means you've been dealing with it for 8 months already... If there's a way to get someone else involved, I would do that instead. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upstairs-neighbours-fighting-get-involved#post-726425 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 17:15:04 +0000 wheres_c 726425@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: that's what I think too...I would just hate it to be a domestic violence issue and escalate and I never did anything. It's a small building in a large complex, so they would know it was us or the one next door. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upstairs-neighbours-fighting-get-involved#post-726419 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 17:13:51 +0000 sorrycharlie 726419@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>eek this is scary! I'm not sure what I'd do. I'd also be afraid of them getting pissed at me for calling on them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upstairs-neighbours-fighting-get-involved#post-726418 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 17:13:18 +0000 .twist. 726418@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hm. Honestly, as crappy as it is, I would just ignore it. Unless there are very clear threats being made I wouldn't get involved. Are there other apartments around them? Why do you think they would suspect it was you if they got a domestic disturbance visit from the police? </p> <p>If you can try sticking it out until you move, that's what I would do. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/upstairs-neighbours-fighting-get-involved#post-726412 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 17:10:37 +0000 wheres_c 726412@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We moved into a new apartment about 3 months ago, and I hate it here.<br /> The walls are so thin....and the upstairs neighbour plays rap music all day long.<br /> I've heard several conversations when they have been out on the balcony referring to his time in jail, but not sure what he was jailed for.</p> <p>On three occasions, including right now, there has been really loud fighting. I can only usually hear one side, but there's lots of cussing and is very explosive. It seems like he is talking to someone there, but could just be on the phone I guess.</p> <p>It wakes the baby, plus it worries me having these kinds of people above me.<br /> SO isnt home during the day and doesn't hear it but he says to call the cops.<br /> I think if the cops come, they will know its me and I'm worried about our safety. Also, what can cops do anyway?</p> <p>Has anyone dealt with this?<br /> What would you do?</p> <p>Our lease is up mid August, but SO is looking at jobs with relocation so might move before that if he can find something. (C# developer jobs-wall me!) </p>